Very true. But I think she came out ok from this overall and hope that she has learned more from this experience. He said she was a bit inexperienced when they met. So she got to test some things out relationship wise and sexually with a person who loved and respected her. And she didnāt waste too much time once she realized it wasnāt a relationship made for the longterm.In the words of @mag357 this is actually a case of poormanagement. Weāve had these chats in other Coli threads and I see his perspective when it comes to this dynamic.
Sheās young and wants excitement, yes, but if an older man can give you a reason to walk away from all that and be with him, thatās a bargain a lot of women are willing to make if marriage, stability and provision are on the table.
Thatās why youth is exchanged for provision. If sheās spending those precious young years with an older man, heās supposed to make it worth it.
If not, youād rather spend those young fun years with someone who is also young and you guys grow and learn and build together (oddly enough the most successful marriages are also the marriages where the spouses are close in age āno more than a 4yr gap, but TheColi always ignores those studies and statistics).
And no she didnāt drop them hints for nothing lol. When he didnāt respond to them but giving empty platitudes she was ready to bounce. But I was serious about them getting back together. He now knows what he needs to do.
