Field Marshall Bradley
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LOL why can't he?
The amount of money you have doesn't make you man.
True statement, but not applicable to the modern woman and contemporary relationships.
Your earning power is strong leverage in a relationship
LOL why can't he?
The amount of money you have doesn't make you man.
Yall are crazy to me!
It's not about "calling the shots" You're a fukking family! You're sharing a life, a household your finances! you make decisions together that will benefit your family.
We looking at: (my 2nd marriage / her first)
7k day of (place/catering etc)
4k her ring
2.5 k my ring
2k - misc clothing attire/dress
2k - travel expenses
so far
fukk that. U should have learned from the first time that that is a waste. Btw, don't u have jump offs too?
cuttin em off 1 by 1.. Im serious this time
fukk that. U should have learned from the first time that that is a waste. Btw, don't u have jump offs too?
If he was really about his shyt, he would have a bank card of his own and his name would be on the mortgage regardless of what he can/can't pay for.In the example I listed on page 1 on this thread, a nikka is gonna be hard presses to call the shots when he's on an allowance and has to ask before making purchases. And I damn sure can't call the shots moving into ur new wife's crib from ur momma house when ur name ain't on shyt and u can't even pay the mortgage. U think living like that is what's hot in these streets? ESP for a couple that got no kids.
We looking at: (my 2nd marriage / her first)
7k day of (place/catering etc)
4k her ring
2.5 k my ring
2k - misc clothing attire/dress
2k - travel expenses
so far
Still gotta get DJ and Photographer... 20k prolly all said and done
If he was really about his shyt, he would have a bank card of his own and his name would be on the mortgage regardless of what he can/can't pay for.
It's not the money it's the dude. If you are going to be the leader of your household it doesn't matter who makes what money. You have dudes who make ALL the money and still have to ask the wife before they make purchases, and you have dudes that are sitting at home dictating what should go on in the household.
If you are going to be the leader of your household it doesn't matter who makes what money.
If he was really about his shyt, he would have a bank card of his own and his name would be on the mortgage regardless of what he can/can't pay for.
It's not the money it's the dude. If you are going to be the leader of your household it doesn't matter who makes what money. You have dudes who make ALL the money and still have to ask the wife before they make purchases, and you have dudes that are sitting at home dictating what should go on in the household.
But giving your wife a heads up on a purchase is completely different then sitting at home and trying to run stuff.
Married couples no matter the income should have a set limit before consulting each other. For example any purchases over $500, you should tell the other person. Anything less is whatever, but if you guys are on the same wave length most purchases will be discussed.