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I don’t think dudes are trying to push nikkas to go in that direction, what they are saying is be mindful of a females nature and fantasize the shyt. Except them for who they are and move accordingly(that’s what I’m saying personally). And I do agree if it keeps happening to you it on you. In fact I believe you should always take responsibility for your mishap. You get fukked over cool. Get better, better yourself as a man. Within doing that you vet any women you come in contact with and move accordingly. That simple to me.
And I’m speaking to this from experience of being in relationships and being the other nikka to women who are married, engaged or in a serious relationship. You really don’t know what it is until you’ve in those types of situations. But the problem also is a nikka who been in those situations will get into a relationship saying ”not my girl” on some fantasy shyt.
Your first paragraph really is common sense. Men should take responsibility for their actions. Men should better their lives with or without a women. That does need to be said especially to the younger generation of males coming up . At some point thoe this becomes common sense . What's not common sense is women wear mask better than men do .
With me personally I aim for head like Thor should have in infinity war when we have these conversations . I'm for truth not matter who tells it .