Do tell….
A lot of them project how they feel on brothers that date out. Hell most will act like the only value black women bring is understanding struggle
Conversations thecoli ain’t ready to have ?
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A lot of them project how they feel on brothers that date out. Hell most will act like the only value black women bring is understanding struggle
Agree to disagree fam.
I actually lived through the era I mentioned and seen it myself and know others that have seen it.
From what I've seen and experienced in my life, most crackers weren't as brave as they are now with approaching black people on some hall monitor shyt.
Not saying there weren't Karen's back then because they were always around, but not like this. Damn near 3 out of every 5 white people are a Karen now.
africngiant
All Star
most gym heads are broken inside but it’s not a bad thing it just makes you better.
my conversation is black women aren’t race loyal
With as many PAWG threads throughout the coli's history, the coli should have absolutely no problems with Black women pawging also right?
Cat Lady ☆
Feral
Pineapple belongs on pizza.
Peter Popoff
AKA Petty Pimpiń..🤑
Most them nikkas got genital herpes if we're being completely honest.
africngiant
All Star
no that’s why i pawg now in the first place. pro-black loyalty had me dreaming & wasting my own life looking for something ideal out here that doesn’t exist. thinking i was doing right by my own who would still likely run and fukk off anyway
woman is woman
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
Get ur facts straight they were shooting at Mexicans
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Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
Latinos Move to South-Central L.A. : Drawn by Low Rents, They Replace Blacks
From 1990….No black people didn’t get chased out, they just left https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1990-05-03-ti-151-story.html Denis Anaya, a Salvadoran notary, said his Latino friends could not understand why he moved his office last year to a black neighborhood on Central Avenue that...
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I’ll start.
People from other races aren’t scared to stand up to or fight black people anymore
Ehhhhhhhh lmao
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
All thisThey were fighting hispanics, not black people, in the iconic footage you are thinking of. In the black areas of LA during the riots, they fled.
SoCal literally borders Mexico. Mexicans "took over" by coming here, buying property and having larger families, not no tough guy shyt.
OK, let's start this conversation with you. You only feel tough with black people? When did you first realize this?
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IIVI
Superstar
Said it before: stop looking at podcasters and their "communities" for the answers. That ain't grinding. The only one who is grinding are the podcasters, you're their cash cow.
Folks spending 10,000+ hours listening to podcasts/watching streams when those 10,000+ hours can be spent on building/growing/learning skills (the real grind). Only person putting in those 10,000 hours towards building something are the podcasters.
Folks even giving them their hard-earned money on top of their precious time
If you need a mentor figure in your life, you have one with plenty of experience and years on this planet: be the person you need most. Do the favors and tasks for yourself that future you needs. You know your situation better than anyone. You've been alive 21+ years, what is someone going to tell you about you when they haven't spent a minute in your shoes? Don't take on someone else's mantra, build yours.
For example: some people may say shyt like "Don't memorize, understand" but I guarantee you some people out there learn better by memorizing first which helps them understand it fully later. So while that's common advice, it's wrong advice depending who you give it to. So if they never try to memorize because of common general/overall advice bad advice, they won't learn as efficiently as they can. Find out what works best for you and what makes you comfortable. Know yourself.
If you have questions or come to a roadblock: ask somebody for some advice who may have gone through something similar then weigh out what they say to see if it makes the most sense for you, don't linger and keep it moving. Anxiety is when you think too much instead of doing something. Execute. Grind. Continue.
Folks spending 10,000+ hours listening to podcasts/watching streams when those 10,000+ hours can be spent on building/growing/learning skills (the real grind). Only person putting in those 10,000 hours towards building something are the podcasters.
Folks even giving them their hard-earned money on top of their precious time
If you need a mentor figure in your life, you have one with plenty of experience and years on this planet: be the person you need most. Do the favors and tasks for yourself that future you needs. You know your situation better than anyone. You've been alive 21+ years, what is someone going to tell you about you when they haven't spent a minute in your shoes? Don't take on someone else's mantra, build yours.
For example: some people may say shyt like "Don't memorize, understand" but I guarantee you some people out there learn better by memorizing first which helps them understand it fully later. So while that's common advice, it's wrong advice depending who you give it to. So if they never try to memorize because of common general/overall advice bad advice, they won't learn as efficiently as they can. Find out what works best for you and what makes you comfortable. Know yourself.
I’m always telling you to be yourself all the time. I know it may be easier to conform, and it’s okay that you might want to follow your friends, but just remember that you don’t have to.
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I have a big heart and I promote peace and unity, but sometimes that’s not the most popular way to be.
People might think loving peace is soft, but we all know that’s not true. It takes all the strength and discipline in the world to stay calm in certain situations. It’s the strongest, wisest people that know how to come to the table seeking solutions.
The other part of being yourself is also being true to what makes you unhappy..I keep these things out of my life at all costs. Removing what makes you unhappy will make you happy. That sounds obvious, too, but believe me, people forget to take out the trash all the time.
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If the person you are when nobody’s watching is so different from who people think you are, how is that not a waste of energy and emotion? I know some people who have like three or four versions of themselves, and I don’t honestly know how they keep track. How can you claim to have a focused vision when your head is so mixed up?
Who does your team even know to follow? You can’t keep the pathway to more success clean if you don’t even know who to be. Meaning as in, be yourself.
Being yourself means first learning who you are. Take time to identify and develop your natural talents and you will be successful. Also, take time to figure out what makes you happy. If you combine what comes naturally to you with what makes you happy, then you will be unstoppable.
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Because here’s a major key: Know that most people in the world aren’t being themselves. Being real when other people are fake is what sets you apart. The issue is that it’s easy to forget who you are...But there’s no path to more success where the first chapter isn’t being yourself...“They” will always tell you that your ideas are stupid and that they’re never going to work—until they do. This is the hardest part of being yourself; it’s risky. It’s scary to think that people might reject you or what you create. There’s nothing to hide behind, and there’s no one else to blame. But you have to be fearless. No one else is going to ride for you harder than you will. And being loved for being someone else is an empty life. You’ll never experience true joy, and a life without true joy is not living. Once you learn who you are and the rewards come, think about how to be better. It’s not about changing the essence of your personality and character; it’s about working on the parts of you that may not be the best yet. This is how to become more than who you’re born as. This is how experience and wisdom make you develop into a better person, and this is how your goals get bigger and your standards get higher.
Maybe it’s learning to become more patient. Or spending time with your family. I try to dedicate time to enjoying life now. And I’m working on my health and anxiety. Just understand that it all takes time. The journey starts with making peace with who you are, accepting that you’re one of one, and loving yourself so other people can, too.
Then give thanks and make sure to live well by making yourself better your way.
Special cloth. What does that mean? It means that you’re special edition. You’re one of one. Like they broke the mold after you. Matter fact, there wasn’t even a mold, because you’re a masterpiece. It means that when people compare you to everyone else, it doesn’t make any sense.
..
I have a big heart and I promote peace and unity, but sometimes that’s not the most popular way to be.
People might think loving peace is soft, but we all know that’s not true. It takes all the strength and discipline in the world to stay calm in certain situations. It’s the strongest, wisest people that know how to come to the table seeking solutions.
The other part of being yourself is also being true to what makes you unhappy..I keep these things out of my life at all costs. Removing what makes you unhappy will make you happy. That sounds obvious, too, but believe me, people forget to take out the trash all the time.
..
If the person you are when nobody’s watching is so different from who people think you are, how is that not a waste of energy and emotion? I know some people who have like three or four versions of themselves, and I don’t honestly know how they keep track. How can you claim to have a focused vision when your head is so mixed up?
Who does your team even know to follow? You can’t keep the pathway to more success clean if you don’t even know who to be. Meaning as in, be yourself.
Being yourself means first learning who you are. Take time to identify and develop your natural talents and you will be successful. Also, take time to figure out what makes you happy. If you combine what comes naturally to you with what makes you happy, then you will be unstoppable.
...
Being yourself is power. In some ways, of all the major keys, it’s the most important key. But it’s the hardest to master. It’s the one you have to keep working at as life goes on, and it’s the one that leads to the others. Not being true to yourself is how you know that “they” are in your head. That’s real talk. Ignoring who you are will eat at you. When you live life by what you think other people want from you, you aren’t really living. Over time it might make you feel hollow or hateful.
Because here’s a major key: Know that most people in the world aren’t being themselves. Being real when other people are fake is what sets you apart. The issue is that it’s easy to forget who you are...But there’s no path to more success where the first chapter isn’t being yourself...“They” will always tell you that your ideas are stupid and that they’re never going to work—until they do. This is the hardest part of being yourself; it’s risky. It’s scary to think that people might reject you or what you create. There’s nothing to hide behind, and there’s no one else to blame. But you have to be fearless. No one else is going to ride for you harder than you will. And being loved for being someone else is an empty life. You’ll never experience true joy, and a life without true joy is not living. Once you learn who you are and the rewards come, think about how to be better. It’s not about changing the essence of your personality and character; it’s about working on the parts of you that may not be the best yet. This is how to become more than who you’re born as. This is how experience and wisdom make you develop into a better person, and this is how your goals get bigger and your standards get higher.
Maybe it’s learning to become more patient. Or spending time with your family. I try to dedicate time to enjoying life now. And I’m working on my health and anxiety. Just understand that it all takes time. The journey starts with making peace with who you are, accepting that you’re one of one, and loving yourself so other people can, too.
Then give thanks and make sure to live well by making yourself better your way.
Special cloth. What does that mean? It means that you’re special edition. You’re one of one. Like they broke the mold after you. Matter fact, there wasn’t even a mold, because you’re a masterpiece. It means that when people compare you to everyone else, it doesn’t make any sense.
If you have questions or come to a roadblock: ask somebody for some advice who may have gone through something similar then weigh out what they say to see if it makes the most sense for you, don't linger and keep it moving. Anxiety is when you think too much instead of doing something. Execute. Grind. Continue.
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My moneys on Jake, from State Farm .. I too root for everyone black
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