Conversations thecoli ain’t ready to have ?

[Wink Beaufield]

A lot of ya'll have been in "character" for going on 10 years, either as a gay troll, or a racist troll or whatever. And yet you still tell yourselves you're just trolling.
10 years is long enough to consider it a lifestyle. You're not pretending to gay online for 10 years, you've been living a secret gay lifestyle

I've said this before but these dudes just need to get out here and live their damn truth. We in 2022 and folks out here DGAF if somebody on that rainbow wave. These will be the same dudes that will make the news for beating a gay/trans person to death because they made the threat to air out their lifestyle. They can't pull that expose card if you open with what you doing.

 

[Boxchevy]

a corny/nerdy black guy probably has a higher chance at landing a white or asian dime than he does a black one.

adding on to that, the argument about dime black women giving any corny/lame guy from another race a chance while brehs have to have all these requirements is sound.

- case in point: this argument has been had all over the internet, we get it at least once or twice a month here, and the posts could fill several libraries, but all these threads not one image that disproves that. I was actually just lurking a thread here about dime Latinas lowering their standards for any bowl cut Enrique they come across, the thread immediately got derailed by a guy saying because they aren’t shallow like black women, but 39 pages in and not one image of a dime black girl with a homely, corny looking breh.

Money is the great equalizer. Not just having money, but being generous with the woman you are with. Alot of black corny/nerdy brehs are tight with their money especially when it comes to black women. These men see black women as inherently less 'valuable'.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Do you have a link to the mentor thread?

We need more black male mentors

All this talk about racism in schools and society. This recent conversation about black men needing therapy and our mistrust of people(even bw) who can't necessarily identify with our struggles completely. It's the case everywhere in society. Where we go to school, work, general media. The...

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Referring to your post… we as BM cannot complain about our image or representation but REFUSE to change the current generation and uplift the next generation that’ll continue it.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Money is the great equalizer. Not just having money, but being generous with the woman you are with. Alot of black corny/nerdy brehs are tight with their money especially when it comes to black women. These men see black women as inherently less 'valuable'.

I've never heard that before.

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

In the US, if you hold on to “culture” you will be ridiculed, ostracized, isolated and left for dead. The culture of the US is being pro US above all else, even your own people. It’s not just that we’re black, it’s that good or bad, win or lose, we hold on to our culture while Mexicans, Italians, etc. are willing to let go of theirs.

 

[Still Benefited]

if you'd fucc a stud, you are not from harlem

Dont put that on us just because you lack imagination

 

[Peachstate]

True leaders don't wait for permission to lead, they just do. So if you aren't leading anything, it's because you either don't want to or don't know how. That's on YOU.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

How most of the posters here are CACs skillfully cosplaying as Black... nobody ever wants to talk about that

 

[Seoul Gleou]

True leaders don't wait for permission to lead, they just do. So if you aren't leading anything, it's because you either don't want to or don't know how. That's on YOU.

most people who should lead, don't. not because they don't know how but because they know what comes with it. people who end up in positions of leadership end up there by taking it. they are also quick to avoid accountability that comes with it.

that's why its important to have horizontal decision making and to have things done by committee rather than top down. this way people cannot absolve themselves of accountability

 

[Turbulent]

A lot of us have very feminine demeanors and attitudes when it comes to dealing with challenging conversations, altercations and even adversity.

 

[Windows 91]

Black people aren't meant to live in places that are cold, cloudy, and snowy. It's bad for our physical and mental well-being.

 

[Gobie1kenobie]

We need more black male mentors

All this talk about racism in schools and society. This recent conversation about black men needing therapy and our mistrust of people(even bw) who can't necessarily identify with our struggles completely. It's the case everywhere in society. Where we go to school, work, general media. The...

www.thecoli.com

Referring to your post… we as BM cannot complain about our image or representation but REFUSE to change the current generation and uplift the next generation that’ll continue it.

I just went through that thread and the mindset is just awful and depressing

 

[TEH]

if you'd fucc a stud, you are not from harlem

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Newmans own Italian dressing is the best

Newman been crushing the dressing game for a long time now. Lemonades too

 

[The Fade]

Don’t always have to clapback