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Conversations thecoli ain’t ready to have ?
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Said it before: stop looking at podcasters and their "communities" for the answers. That ain't grinding. The only one who is grinding are the podcasters, you're their cash cow.
Folks spending 10,000+ hours listening to podcasts/watching streams when those 10,000+ hours can be spent on building/growing/learning skills (the real grind). Only person putting in those 10,000 hours towards building something are the podcasters.
Folks even giving them their hard-earned money on top of their precious time
If you need a mentor figure in your life, you have one with plenty of experience and years on this planet: be the person you need most. Do the favors and tasks for yourself that future you needs. You know your situation better than anyone. You've been alive 21+ years, what is someone going to tell you about you when they haven't spent a minute in your shoes? Don't take on someone else's mantra, build yours.
For example: some people may say shyt like "Don't memorize, understand" but I guarantee you some people out there learn better by memorizing first which helps them understand it fully later. So while that's common advice, it's wrong advice depending who you give it to. So if they never try to memorize because of common general/overall advice bad advice, they won't learn as efficiently as they can. Find out what works best for you and what makes you comfortable. Know yourself.
If you have questions or come to a roadblock: ask somebody for some advice who may have gone through something similar then weigh out what they say to see if it makes the most sense for you, don't linger and keep it moving. Anxiety is when you think too much instead of doing something. Execute. Grind. Continue.
I think 90% of most relationship channels are just bullshyt. For men and women. I remember last year watching some lapeef relationship video and these negros were arguing for 5 hours about nothing and the subscribers were steady sending super chats. There’s always someone willing to just throw their money away though.
Un-AmericanDreamer
Simp City
Kevin Samuels was an a-hole, but at times a-holes are needed to get shyt done. He brought conservations to the table that needed to happen. I think if he hated women as much as people claimed, he'd just let them fail on their own, a lot of our people need game.
Why do you think the US divorce rate is so high..a man and female of the same age or age group wont last.
In most old societies around the world it was understood, but I doubt you'd fully understand..
Secure Da Bag
Veteran
A wise man once said, "there are times when the journey is more important than the destination."
Secure Da Bag
Veteran
If you don't think that there's a connection from white supremacy to single mothers to social media, then maybe we should start talking about how why certain Black people are so myopic when trying to problem solve.
Artfull Dodger
All Star
join date March 2022
It's 27,615 members on this bytch. Without fail why is there always a group of 4-5 people in every gym/finance thread thinking that 45 out of the 27,615 members posting in those topics are lying?
Is it too far fetched for you to believe .1% of the coli is at that level?
Is it too far fetched for you to believe .1% of the coli is at that level?
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The majority of Black men prefer light skinned women over dark skinned women, based on their actions and dating choices.
If given the choice between a dark skinned Black woman and a curvy lighter-skinned Puerto Rican woman, most Black men would choose the latter.
If given the choice between a dark skinned Black woman and a curvy lighter-skinned Puerto Rican woman, most Black men would choose the latter.
Yikes. See Im not on social media so I forgot his name. But I’ve seen you all post things from Umar Johnon, Nature boy, the pharaoh dude, Derrick Jaxson on here, and all of them had bw following and supporting them, but all of them are also problematic… bw will support Brehs who love them though, but I just think not many regular Brehs have big enough platforms to be heard over the c00ns and the problematic Hotep Brehs.
B b but I hate being around whites/non blacks.
