Conversations thecoli ain’t ready to have ?

[3rdWorld]

Collectively we're just aimlessly living day by day, no actual plan for the present or future..

 

[null]

False. The environment mold 90% of who you are.

yeah most kids of religious people don't as a rule end up religious.
yeah most kids of professionals people don't as a rule end up as professionals.
yeah most kids of structured people don't as a rule end up structured.
yeah your parents don't control 90% of your environment.
yeah your home is not your environment.
your base personality is not set by the time you are seven. the science is hogwash.

your are right breh.
keep making those excuses

 

[Mike Nasty]

The constant portrayal of black buffoonery is 50% of white supremacy.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Why can’t nerdy black men entertain their counterparts which are nerdy black women, you fukking c00n.

I love you for this lol.

 

[TQbrit]

And this account is blatant as hell, not sure why anyone is dapping it. You need to take your ass back to the shadows.

Yall really dodging accountability like Neo its crazy lmao

 

[Reflected]

Yall really dodging accountability like Neo its crazy lmao

How is it possible to dodge accountability for traits that aren't applicable? You gender wars drones should just be banned at this point. And you need to stop dodging therapy.

 

[kingdizzy01]

That everything you know and cling to dearly is actually a slick trick designed to keep you weak, powerless and miserable as you blame someone else without realizing the true opponent is in your head.

 

[Shadow King]

I mean, being Black + a woman is a unique experience because of the discrimination that is two-fold. Gotta deal with racists and misogynists. The issue with Blackness first is that the things that are problems that are specific to women and girls in the community are placed on the back burner or ignored. If the men in charge actually think women/girls are less than, they will never address our issues. The issue with Feminism is that it is inherently White and primarily addresses the issues White women have with White men and the system they created. It’s really about them getting more control so they are the White man’s equal, so racial issues, issues specific to Black women are placed at the bottom of the list and we are told they will be addressed when the original agenda, created by white women, is achieved.
Not to mention that at the end of the day, White women are still racist and benefit from White Supremacy, and will never actually leave the side of White men, because who walks away from power?

We only make up 6% of the population, so separating and having our own movement doesn’t make sense.

So ultimately Black first is the most sensible way to go, but this would require us to believe and trust that brehs will actually address our concerns when the Black agenda is achieved, and not take their newfound respect and power and use that to make moves in mainstream culture without US by their side.*

*Flashbacks of popular Black male entertainers and others in the past who said there was nothing a Black woman could do for them (because they were crossing over and having a White woman was viewed as making it). And yes I know 1-2 Black female entertainers said the same, but it was no where near the amount of Black male entertainers who made it and decided White women were the best thing since sliced bread.

List this bevy of Black male entertainers who have verbally stated that there is nothing a Black woman could do for them. And no, simply citing who they've dated/married does not fly as the statement.

 

[patscorpio]

We as Black people can't complain about not being included or represented when we don't take the initiative and occupy spaces where they're few of us.

this

 

[Will Ross]

Why can’t nerdy black men entertain their counterparts which are nerdy black women, you fukking c00n.

Nerdy black women don’t want nerdy black men.
why because many of them are ok with being the side girl to the desirable man

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Why can’t nerdy black men entertain their counterparts which are nerdy black women, you fukking c00n.

From what I've seen, nerdy black women mostly worship cacs or Asians. If she isn't horrifically fat or sloppy I'd say she'd have no problem finding a nerdy black guy, or any black guy, or any guy for that matter.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

The problem I've always had with this is that you have a loud pro black faction of black males who very publicly try to uplift bw to the point that "the black woman is god" "nubian princess" and "black queen" are well known tropes and phrases in the community. They've always been around.

I wonder how familiar bw are with this faction. I don’t get on social media like that so I’m not aware of who online is considered a loud pro-black man besides Omar. But I wonder if the issue is maybe there aren’t as many “loud” Omar’s or they are loud but not heard the same way as the c00ns.

But rather than rally around that subsection of men women instead form the feelings you describe due to the words and opinions of rappers ...........rappers.

I know from what I’ve seen, bw do support Omar. But I don’t know who else besides Omar belongs to that subsection. I think to your point, bw pay attention to mainstream bm (rappers, athletes, celebs) but I wonder if it’s because the mainstream are the loudest—they’re in a position to be seen and heard everywhere, so they get their messages across.

But bm who aren’t apart of the mainstream and don’t feel like those men, just aren’t being heard. It could be because they don’t have the clout, popularity or platform like mainstream men do. There could also be a lot of men who feel like Omar but they don’t have the same platform, or visibility.

Based on how I’ve seen bw support Omar, I wonder if pro-black men
we’re more visible to bw feminists, if that would make a difference.

As this dynamic grew , curiously enough the terms bashing pro-blacks began to emerge on the internet. "pickme" "[ashy] hotep". It speaks volumes that these women were becoming white aligned in their shytting on people who were clearly pro black, pro black women and pro black family. I can say with confidence these terms did not come from black men and originated on the "Yaaaaas bytch" side of the internet.

As far as hoteps go, I thought the mocking is because of other issues—I.e. the hoteps using/taking advantage of black people to get money, etc, have multiple wives, infidelity and running strange extreme cults, or secretly were messing around with white people.

Which is why I can't sympathize with this line of thought. I know too many black dudes pining and co-signing black women even to the extent of simping, but that's still love. BM supportive of black women just get overlooked/and taken for granted because XYZ athlete or rapper is dating a white bytch.

I know many bm offline who love bw, so I agree with you—a lot of times people get on the internet and get in a strange bubble where they forget what happens in their real lives offline. I also think media conditioning and influence is strong. This latest generation is living their lives on the internet.

I have multiple real life examples of this. I remember having this argument with a co-worker (darkskin female) years ago mad about the Trey songz foreign song talking that black men only want mixed chicks garbage. All while curving at least two nikkas from work and 1 in her hood (I was smashing her neighbor).

I've had a classmate go on a black men rant over some Lil Wayne lyrics.

This goes back to my point above. People get online and seem to forget what’s actually taking place when they step outside. It’s weird.

But where do these people get off ignoring their fathers, brothers, uncles and of course dozens/hundreds of suitors to hang onto the words of some fukking rappers???

The problem is the average black man is paid dust and is treated as such. Along with women these days being the type who ignore 100 praises to focus in on the one hater/dissenter. There isn't shyt the average guy can do about that. Not only do we not control the narrative, we don't control our own voices in it

I tell people I prefer dark skin women (my history proves it) and people think I'm fukking pandering. It disgusts me deeply.

Goes back to my other two comments above. Also keep in mind some of these women don’t have fathers actively involved, or enough positive male figures in their lives at all.

I also hear more of the distrust for Brehs from the younger generation of women, who are consuming tons of media (especially online). I don’t think it’s a coincidence.

I'm just ranting but whatever. It might be an impasse that is never gotten over because this adversarial vibe between the sexes online seems to be getting championed more and not less. Plus whites are in the mix stirring the pot

I agree. I can’t pinpoint when the distrust began either.

 

[semicko82]

Looks matter more than anything else.

That's always been a thing.

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

white women are a better match for black men than black women

 

[Hazel Brown]

I love you for this lol.