COLI RULE #4813: Never meet a girl's friends or family before smashing.

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Eh, I'm only 21. I'm not looking to get married within the next ten years. But if I find her :ohlawd:











Turn on the Lights! I'm looking for her :to:


i feel ya, but you think you can still say that same shyt about that girl 3/4 years later? you may still love her but you know them otha hoes gonna be tempting like a mothafukka. Especially to a nikka who knows how to get em :mjpls:
 

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Where's the other 4812? :lupe:

#4814: Never go on a trip and do any extra special events with a chick you haven't had sex with.

what ever happened with that chick you were talking to?

She was 30yrs old, trying new dating tips from Steve Harvey. :smh: Too old for that. She was a average in the face girl, with a banging body. Kinda cool. The type you would lower your standards for if everything went great. I'm sure I wouldve smashed soon enough and she was probably just talking when she said she wanted to build a strong friendship first. I'm all for that, that's how it suppose be if you really like someone. It's just the way she said it, which made it feel like this is her first time trying this new concept. And for her to come out of the blue with it, when things were going great and I wasn't even pressing her for anything physical. On top of that she wasn't bringing anything to the table.

She's sick now, bcuz I see her on Instagram with all the women's worth, no decent men left quotes. Not that i'm all that, but I do really well, but she's not coming across many guys like me.

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I'd rather him be impatient and leave than me being too open and labeled a hoe

Now a woman that's putting forward effort and showing genuine interest in me, I will wait for. Like most men.

The thing is a lot of women don't bring much or anything to the table during the beginning of the dating phase. Women like this usually only have sex to offer. So if you aren't bring anything to the table and aren't putting out, how can a man know you're feeling him and not just using him?
 
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she wasn't bringing anything to the table.
this is true for most chicks. A man with his shyt together > any women in America.

There are way too many women out here for that not to be true... chicks who really believe they are something special get feelings hurt daily.
 

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this is true for most chicks. A man with his shyt together > any women in America.

There are way too many women out here for that not to be true... chicks who really believe they are something special get feelings hurt daily.

:leostare: I'm sure every straight man on earth would prefer any woman in America over a man with his shyt together. lol
 

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For a change of pace here,

Imo, the ability to lock a chick down without giving her the D is :ohlawd:. When you're a real through dude, doing your thing, and looking good females will recognize that and be drawn to you naturally. So much that even her hating ass friends/family won't even sway her mind. Then if your sex game is on point too its game over. Not to mention if a girl is so easily swayed mentally by her friends/family she might not be worth the time anyway.

2 cents!
 

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Exactly, a dude's main and only objective when courting a woman should be fukking. Even if you genuinely like her, all the romance and everything can come after, but until you smash that there's no way to tell if she really likes you. I've seen dudes strung along for YEARS & still not hit, shyt is painful to watch
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Fixed. :beli:
 

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YEARS without the p*ssy, my nikka? And this dude was out of high school? I refuse to believe it
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My friend has been tryna fukk this bartender... it'll be 2 years in December... :skip:

She's invited him over for wine & dinner & movies before & for some strange reason she ain't giving up the draws... :skip:

He's in shape, (pause :whoa: ) has a job, nice car & his own spot... he broke down to me last week about how he's been tryna fukk her since he met her but she's on some straight dyck tease shyt... :beli:

I have no idea what he's doing or done wrong but she invited him over for wine & karaoke at her place (just them 2) this Friday and he wants me to coach him while he's over there... :russ:
 

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My friend has been tryna fukk this bartender... it'll be 2 years in December... :skip:

She's invited him over for wine & dinner & movies before & for some strange reason she ain't giving up the draws... :skip:

He's in shape, (pause :whoa: ) has a job, nice car & his own spot... he broke down to me last week about how he's been tryna fukk her since he met her but she's on some straight dyck tease shyt... :beli:

I have no idea what he's doing or done wrong but she invited him over for wine & karaoke at her place (just them 2) this Friday and he wants me to coach him while he's over there... :russ:

How old is he? And her? :dwillhuh:
 

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Honestly, I don't have guys come around my friends but definitely not my family unless we are in a serious relationship. I can't even remember the last time a man was in my house. There is no need for all that. I don't invite anyone into my "actual" life unless we are together. Plus, just because he takes you around the friends or family doesn't mean he's not doing the same thing for other chicks.
 

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Honestly, I don't have guys come around my friends but definitely not my family unless we are in a serious relationship. I can't even remember the last time a man was in my house. There is no need for all that. I don't invite anyone into my "actual" life unless we are together. Plus, just because he takes you around the friends or family doesn't mean he's not doing the same thing for other chicks.
:heh: Shut up and go pick up ones off the floor
 

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I meant her friends.

friends is completley different subject than parents tho. But
For a change of pace here,

Imo, the ability to lock a chick down without giving her the D is :ohlawd:. When you're a real through dude, doing your thing, and looking good females will recognize that and be drawn to you naturally. So much that even her hating ass friends/family won't even sway her mind. Then if your sex game is on point too its game over. Not to mention if a girl is so easily swayed mentally by her friends/family she might not be worth the time anyway.

2 cents!

What if the chick u are "lockin down" is gettin railed by the nxt nikka :mjpls: You ain't really lockin nothin down unless you ae blowin a chicks back out
 
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