COLI RULE #4813: Never meet a girl's friends or family before smashing.

[MAKAVELI25]

Question, breh. What kind of dating advice are you going to give to your daughters/sisters/cousins etc?

My sisters are both married, they don't need dating advice

 

[Lana Kane]

LMAO.

 

[MikelArteta]

While common knowledge to some, a lot of guys make this mistake. I did as a youngster. A lot of women are followers and usually their leaders are habitual losers in the dating game. Some women are so influenced big their friends and family opinion.Even if you like the girl a lot and she seems so great, smash before meeting anyone. Thing is, the dynamics of the relationship changes after you smash. After you smash you're in more control of things. You are more relaxed, you don't have to front anymore and she's more inclined to up talk you more.

ive mentioned this before in teh quick gems thread, a girl may like you find you attractive, but because the "wolfpac" may be like that nugga ugly, what all that nugga drives is a ford fiesta or he ain
t spending money on you girl that could be the end of it, same with families, oh what your dating a jamaican oh hell no you ain't dating no jamaican etc.

 

[Blackking]

That's your opinion, breh.

If I can't meet a guy's friends or family then I'm just gonna stop talking to him. I'm supposed to let you stick your dikk in me but I can't even meet your friends. Might be normal to you but it's a bit ridiculous to me.

Well,

that's what you say now. some Men have a way of making shyt work out the way they want it to -
plus a chick can meet my boys, but as far as she's gonna know my real peps r working or live outta town. The sex is mutual... and it's an investment on the woman's part. She gives up some power to get some.

 

[DuncanWebayama]

 

[Ashley Banks]

You are a female. You dont have any idea what men think. If u disagree, fine. But calling it "retarded" simply because u dont understand the mindset of the opposite sex is silly. Meeting someone parents is a pretty big deal that symbolizes a certain degree of commitment and there lies a certain extent of pressure at that point to be together

You're right. I guess it just doesn't really make sense to me. Would you tell your sister to have sex with a guy that doesn't even want her to meet his friends?

My sisters are both married, they don't need dating advice

What about your cousins, daughters, female friends (if you have any) etc? Are you going to tell them to have sex with men that show no interest in them beyond sex? I always wonder what guys that agree with these types of threads will tell females (they care about) to do.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Interesting.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Well,

that's what you say now. some Men have a way of making shyt work out the way they want it to -
plus a chick can meet my boys, but as far as she's gonna know my real peps r working or live outta town. The sex is mutual... and it's an investment on the woman's part. She gives up some power to get some.

I forgot this is the coli, yall are obsessed with people having power over each other. nvm. ignore my posts.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Interesting.

 

[gangreen]

Question, breh. What kind of dating advice are you going to give to your daughters/sisters/cousins etc?


Well, considering the fact that I can get a disease that I would have to live with for the rest of my life or I could get pregnant. Yeah, it's a big deal. Also the whole thing about men thinking women are worthless if they have too many sex partners, no matter how good of a woman she is. If she's had sex with more than 5 people, she doesn't deserve to be loved or respected. So yeah, pretty big deal breh.

There is contraception and condoms ........ I don't think that personally, I think like a 21st century man.... It is none of my business how many sex partners, my female partner has .... I respect people if they show me respect... and second of all, from what I have witnessed, it is mostly other females who place that title that a woman who has many sexual partners is worthless.

If there is a physical attraction, then one should go for it.... without all these attachments.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

You're right. I guess it just doesn't really make sense to me. Would you tell your sister to have sex with a guy that doesn't even want her to meet his friends?

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you are changing the topic of the thread now to meeting friends. so which one do u want me to answer

 

[MAKAVELI25]

What about your cousins, daughters, female friends (if you have any) etc? Are you going to tell them to have sex with men that show no interest in them beyond sex? I always wonder what guys that agree with these types of threads will tell females to do.

1. I'm not close to my female cousins
2. I'm not going to have daughters (I say that with certainty)
3. I don't have female friends

So I don't really give a fukk either way

 

[gangreen]

sex to women is what commitment is to men....not suppose to be given out so freely

shout out to @His_Excellence_Reincar

we can't equate both of those.... one is instant and temporary gratification and the other is permanent.

 

[Blackking]

I forgot this is the coli, yall are obsessed with people having power over each other. nvm. ignore my posts.

no, i didn't know people were obsessed w that on here. I think I'm just skeptical because, from hoodrats to professional women.... shyt has went my way so far w chicks.

if ur a nice guy, who seems trusting, w a lil money, most females will fall on ur dikk at some point regardless of all these rules they set up.

 

[Ashley Banks]

There is contraception and condoms ........ I don't think that personally, I think like a 21st century man.... It is none of my business how many sex partners, my female partner has .... I respect people if they show me respect... and second of all, from what I have witnessed, it is mostly other females who place that title that a woman who has many sexual partners is worthless.

If there is a physical attraction, then one should go for it.... without all these attachments.

You can get herpes and hpv (both incurable) even if you use condoms. and you might not personally think like that but most guys do.