COLI RULE #4813: Never meet a girl's friends or family before smashing.

[Ashley Banks]

you are changing the topic of the thread now to meeting friends. so which one do u want me to answer

I meant doesn't want to meet her friends.

 

[MikelArteta]

we can't equate both of those.... one is instant and temporary gratification and the other is permanent.

technically commitment is the male vagina, men want sex, women want commitment

you give up any to soon you are cheapening your product.

As men one of the most precious things you have is commitment. Notice how a lot of women are very protective of their vagina as in waiting for a while to sleep with a guy, to gain that exclusivity aka that commitment. If you think about it sex in a relationship for the most part equals her giving up her prize ala vagina and you giving up your vagina ala commitment. If a women gives up her vagina to early she may be viewed as a slut, and if a man gives up his commitment to early he should be viewed in the same light in my opinion. Wait hold up your calling men sluts? NO what I’m saying is the same way men have to work for sex, is the same way you should allow women to work for your commitment. Women want commitment, men want sex.

 

[Ashley Banks]

1. I'm not close to my female cousins
2. I'm not going to have daughters (I say that with certainty)
3. I don't have female friends

So I don't really give a fukk either way

Ok, since you don't have any females close to you. Do you think it's a good idea for females to have sex with guys that show no interest in them beyond sex?

 

[BigE214]

Shyt is 50/50. I'll go meet em. But that's on her. I'm walking in that ho like

By the time I leave, the whole fam gon love me. Maybe even speed up the drawz process.


Now as far as meeting my family. I'll just lie and say they asked about you

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Ok, since you don't have any females close to you. Do you think it's a good idea for females to have sex with guys that show no interest in them beyond sex?

Only if you think its a good idea for women to accept dates/money/gifts from guys they know they will never have sex with. We all play the card we're dealt

 

[Ashley Banks]

no, i didn't know people were obsessed w that on here. I think I'm just skeptical because, from hoodrats to professional women.... shyt has went my way so far w chicks.

if ur a nice guy, who seems trusting, w a lil money, most females will fall on ur dikk at some point regardless of all these rules they set up.

Maybe I judge guys differently but a guy not wanting to meet my friends or not wanting me to his friends/family shows me that I shouldn't trust him.

 

[Astroslik]

I'm in this situation now, I took her out on one date. Another this friday, I made it clear to myself if i'm not smashing Im throwing her to the bushes.

 

[gangreen]

technically commitment is the male vagina, men want sex, women want commitment

you give up any to soon you are cheapening your product.

As men one of the most precious things you have is commitment. Notice how a lot of women are very protective of their vagina as in waiting for a while to sleep with a guy, to gain that exclusivity aka that commitment. If you think about it sex in a relationship for the most part equals her giving up her prize ala vagina and you giving up your vagina ala commitment. If a women gives up her vagina to early she may be viewed as a slut, and if a man gives up his commitment to early he should be viewed in the same light in my opinion. Wait hold up your calling men sluts? NO what I’m saying is the same way men have to work for sex, is the same way you should allow women to work for your commitment. Women want commitment, men want sex.

I kind of get it..... Like men get bored with sex with one partner, does a woman get bored with commitment with one partner?

 

[Blackking]

Maybe I judge guys differently but a guy not wanting to meet my friends or not wanting me to his friends/family shows me that I shouldn't trust him.

he not going to say you can't meet his fam... there r ways to work around it. I ask questions about a girls kid (if she has 1), mom, etc... I really don't care about that shyt. So ur standards ( and the standards of most women) are superficial... because most men will adjust to bust.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Only if you think its a good idea for women to accept dates/money/gifts from guys they know they will never have sex with. We all play the card we're dealt

I don't. I think guys should only spend money on females they're in a relationship with or at least exclusive with. Same with females and sex. but I notice a lot of guys on here tell guys one thing and then expect the opposite from a female. Like they will call a female a hoe for having sex with a guy that doesn't care about her but will tell a guy not show any affection to a female that they haven't had sex with.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I'm in this situation now, I took her out on one date. Another this friday, I made it clear to myself if i'm not smashing Im throwing her to the bushes.

Two dates might be a little soon. If you really like her give her around a month. But MAKE SURE that for every two dates you're paying for she's atleast paying for one, some women aren't above pretending to like guys for free meals. If she's not reciprocating then toss her to the bushes

 

[Astroslik]

Two dates might be a little soon. If you're really like her give her around a month. But MAKE SURE that for every two dates you're paying for she's atleast paying for one, some women aren't above pretending to like guys for free meals. If she's not reciprocating then toss her to the bushes

we barely have time to meet up in person, were both busy . We've been talking a little over a month

she actually took me out for lunch and bought me a cake for my birthday last week

should i still pay for this date and would this be considered the third date then?

 

[Ashley Banks]

he not going to say you can't meet his fam... there r ways to work around it. I ask questions about a girls kid (if she has 1), mom, etc... I really don't care about that shyt. So ur standards ( and the standards of most women) are superficial... because most men will adjust to bust.

If you say so, breh.

and how can you call my standards superficial when you don't even know me. anyways, as I said before just ignore my posts.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

OOOOOOOOORRRRRR


If you are a mastermind type nikka you could charm the family and make them your biggest cheerleaders. That is if you are trying to set something up....if this is just a smash...yeah eff a family

 

[Ricky Church]

I usually like to smash and then leaving her alone fast enough to not meet any of her family members.