Being honest, having kids IS hard...and you won't have the same life as before it, but STILL. My girl has a 3 year old, (known him since he was 1) and we have a 2month old together. It's tiring, stressful, and we are on no sleep, but when that lil girl smiles at me, or little man runs to me when I get home smiling "Daddy's home!", or tries to mimick the things I do like working out, or even how I'm sitting, man it's WORTH it. i love them to DEATH, and these women sound like they should have lived FIRST instead of blaming children that didn't ask to be here. Running away from your kids?? Can't even FATHOM that..