Coli breh says “dating” a dime is exhausting

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Do they realize that the gifts from men they’re dating will decline as they get older?
Most don't. A lot of them approach it from the mindset that they're the exception to the rule. Even though they've seen thousands of other women who thought the same and their end results. The conveniently gloss over the ending of the story and focus on everything else lol
 

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Most don't. A lot of them approach it from the mindset that they're the exception to the rule. Even though they've seen thousands of other women who thought the same and their end results. The conveniently gloss over the ending of the story and focus on everything else lol

Facts. And the wild part is a lot of them also judge and clown men for dating older women. It’s like, do you realize you’re going to be those older women soon?
 

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And I'm saying nah nikka .. ur wrong.

Go bring me a bytch that ur think is drop dead gorgeous and u trying to be a diesel millionaire astronaut to keep her.
I'll show u that bytches hoe fax and she fcked her old fat landlord and was dating some nikka that sell weed on campus

Please gtfoh Mr. "y'all saying nonsense"... Respectfully

Casino was a movie…but it was real life
 

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What happens to these women when they hit 32-35 and age out of being able to receive those things from men who aren’t their husbands or fathers?
Having known and partied with alot of actual party girls/video model/night life girls/models who are in that age range of 35-40+ it ranges from boulevard of broken dreams to they doing good. Some women come into game and make most of it, I know a video girl who used to be on club scene heavy and real head turner, had athletes and stuff willing to do anything. She was able to get a couple gas stations and do real well for herself, but she her choices always had her pulling up to jails to visit bf and such so you know how that go.

I also know legit model who aged out and I saw working the dolphins game last year, that shyt was soo shocking I dont think my poker face was strong enough it was such a pattern interrupt. But she had locked down a baller earlier in life and was alway driving G wagons and such but I know her son was older in college so I guess the well dried up.

But truly beautiful types its almost impossible for them to just completely fall off because they always have looks to fall back on and there will be a shade tree ass nikka to rescue. I know straight ran thrus who was able to lock down a decent baseball player who made a few million and was retired. But she knew how to play the game, ALOT of women just dont know how to play nowadays. Mid women who think they dimes have a rude awakening waiting for them tho. When you get up in age, you also have to just move smart, thats where I think alot more fumble. ALOT of women can skate thru bad decisions ealry in life but might be harder later.

Also most not looking for marriage or care for that, just getting plugged by a legit baller and the being able to cash out while doing whatever they want is the goal for most. Especially the young ones now or just entering the age out range now. Its a different breed nowadays lol..
 

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Having known and partied with alot of actual party girls/video model/night life girls/models who are in that age range of 35-40+ it ranges from boulevard of broken dreams to they doing good. Some women come into game and make most of it, I know a video girl who used to be on club scene heavy and real head turner, had athletes and stuff willing to do anything. She was able to get a couple gas stations and do real well for herself, but she her choices always had her pulling up to jails to visit bf and such so you know how that go.

I also know legit model who aged out and I saw working the dolphins game last year, that shyt was soo shocking I dont think my poker face was strong enough it was such a pattern interrupt. But she had locked down a baller earlier in life and was alway driving G wagons and such but I know her son was older in college so I guess the well dried up.

But truly beautiful types its almost impossible for them to just completely fall off because they always have looks to fall back on and there will be a shade tree ass nikka to rescue. I know straight ran thrus who was able to lock down a decent baseball player who made a few million and was retired. But she knew how to play the game, ALOT of women just dont know how to play nowadays. Mid women who think they dimes have a rude awakening waiting for them tho. When you get up in age, you also have to just move smart, thats where I think alot more fumble. ALOT of women can skate thru bad decisions ealry in life but might be harder later.

Also most not looking for marriage or care for that, just getting plugged by a legit baller and the being able to cash out while doing whatever they want is the goal for most. Especially the young ones now or just entering the age out range now. Its a different breed nowadays lol..

Great recap thanks for sharing man. Idk about the bold part tho, especially the ones that primarily messed with fast money dudes or athletes and entertainers when they were young. Look at how Melyssa Ford ended up. A lot of them either seem to have too much baggage, they’re baby mamas and/or they haven’t accepted that they can’t pull the same caliber of dudes anymore.
 

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Do they realize that the gifts from men they’re dating will decline as they get older?

They for sure know there's a window. Time to start looking for a husband. Leveraging their looks and personality appeal, ability to play the game. What they usually want is some who is not experienced with their type to lock down. Someone older. Anyone else knows the game too well.

It's really kind of the same window that society is already pushing, but it's not just a husband and kids, it's all that other shyt too. The mansion, the S63, the Celine. So there is the timeless issue there, about wealthy and powerful men, and what that really looks like up close. It's not as nice as it seems in movies. But it's also easier for these women to play that game, because so much of their lives has been about performance. So you fake it through the sex, you fake it through the awkward convos of people who have no chemistry, same way they did in the game.

The double bind for some of them is that they don't have great transferable skills. The bottle girls (you age out) The strippers (obvious) Dental hygenists. Estetichans. (good careers but start to grind you down as you get older, and you won't be pushing a S63 with a Celine dress)
 

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They for sure know there's a window. Time to start looking for a husband. Leveraging their looks and personality appeal, ability to play the game. What they usually want is some who is not experienced with their type to lock down. Someone older. Anyone else knows the game too well.

It's really kind of the same window that society is already pushing, but it's not just a husband and kids, it's all that other shyt too. The mansion, the S63, the Celine. So there is the timeless issue there, about wealthy and powerful men, and what that really looks like up close. It's not as nice as it seems in movies. But it's also easier for these women to play that game, because so much of their lives has been about performance. So you fake it through the sex, you fake it through the awkward convos of people who have no chemistry, same way they did in the game.

The double bind for some of them is that they don't have great transferable skills. The bottle girls (you age out) The strippers (obvious) Dental hygenists. Estetichans. (good careers but start to grind you down as you get older, and you won't be pushing a S63 with a Celine dress)
Honestly seems like worthless way to live and 8 times out of 10 these woman end up bitter even when they get what they want . Its all about consuming useless material bullshyt but deep down they ain't happy the way there life shaped . They ain't gonna say or admit but they want
I'm assume that realty hits later
 

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I know one who is about 48 now, still looks good, but is older. fukked with Dan Belzerian in like 2010. Her former benefactor (one of my my older homies) doesn't bankroll her anymore. Her other older sugar daddy got indicted for insider trading. She has an income, she has a benz. But, there's no room for traveling, no room for balling on designer clothes.

and now she's looking at me in a way she didn't 10 years ago, she's10 years older than me - lol - I hit her up sometimes but she's always kinda ducking me. She knows I'll pay for dinner but that's about where it ends.
 
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