Coli breh says “dating” a dime is exhausting

[lib123]

It's more about each person's mindset, and of course, the guys finances. That kind of venmo me $150 is the low end of a small demo. There's the ones who want the Goyard bags, the rented condo, the S63. The Miami trip.

There's a few women personally in my life, that I can't really afford like that, or don't want the financial burden. If we are "just friends", she'll offer to pay or be considerate, but if we are in an exclusive relationships, she 100% expects the guy to pay for everything, even her bills. This is where a lot of relationship negotiations really come to an impasse, even if it's unspoken. If she gets too close to me, lets her guard down, we start having intense sex, she's going to be more likely to make deep concessions on her values, because she just wants me. but the guys who she can be more distant with, and are willing to pay....

but even if I earned whatever amount a month, lets say 50k, I would have no interest in that kind of arrangement. So boring to be listening to someone's requests all the time, like a fukking child.

What happens to these women when they hit 32-35 and age out of being able to receive those things from men who aren’t their husbands or fathers?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

A dime takes more maintenance than a luxury car. Most their money goes into cosmetic enhancements

No such thing as dimes

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

It's more about each person's mindset, and of course, the guys finances. That kind of venmo me $150 is the low end of a small demo. There's the ones who want the Goyard bags, the rented condo, the S63. The Miami trip.

There's a few women personally in my life, that I can't really afford like that, or don't want the financial burden. If we are "just friends", she'll offer to pay or be considerate, but if we are in an exclusive relationships, she 100% expects the guy to pay for everything, even her bills. This is where a lot of relationship negotiations really come to an impasse, even if it's unspoken. If she gets too close to me, lets her guard down, we start having intense sex, she's going to be more likely to make deep concessions on her values, because she just wants me. but the guys who she can be more distant with, and are willing to pay....

but even if I earned whatever amount a month, lets say 50k, I would have no interest in that kind of arrangement. So boring to be listening to someone's requests all the time, like a fukking child.

We in the begging era

 

[JLova]

1. She’s not a dime.
2. I thought this was about all the negative attention from other dudes. Had an ex that got so much attention..her friends wanted to fukk her, every time we went random dudes heads were turning. Every time. Plus she had one of them bubbly personalities. There was always a story about some dude. Anyways, I thought the thread was about that.

 

[NobodyReally]

What happens to these women when they hit 32-35 and age out of being able to receive those things from men who aren’t their husbands or fathers?

This is something the Coli can’t seem to understand. There is no aging out for women because no matter what age she is she can find a younger and/or lonely man. A woman can be 40 and she’s still a younger woman to the 60-70 year olds that are willing to trick on her. Matter of fact there’s even more men with disposable income in that bracket and they struggle to pull anything under 40.

 

[Fani Willis fan]

No such thing as dimes

Whatever you wanna call them, if they more attractive than an 8..
close come off everything sittin, face pretty, hygiene up to par etc.

 

[Brolic]

This is something the Coli can’t seem to understand. There is no aging out for women because no matter what age she is she can find a younger and/or lonely man. A woman can be 40 and she’s still a younger woman to the 60-70 year olds that are willing to trick on her. Matter of fact there’s even more men with disposable income in that bracket and they struggle to pull anything under 40.

Naw, I’d say early 40s to 50 depending on how their looks and body hold up. After that women are usually getting attention from average or broke men in their age bracket.

 

[lib123]

This is something the Coli can’t seem to understand. There is no aging out for women because no matter what age she is she can find a younger and/or lonely man. A woman can be 40 and she’s still a younger woman to the 60-70 year olds that are willing to trick on her. Matter of fact there’s even more men with disposable income in that bracket and they struggle to pull anything under 40.

Lol that’s not true at all. In addition to facing more competition from younger women, as women age they face more competition from women their age seeking marriage. That 40 year old may be able to find an older trick, but she’s not getting nearly as much from tricks at 40 as she was able to get at 23. Why do you think we see women like Melyssa Ford who were dependent on men going broke when they hit their late 30s and early 40s?

 

[BaggerofTea]

the finer the woman is, the more you have to keep her busy.

keeps her mind occupied and less focused on dipping into your wallet.


She is so focused on having a good time that by the time she remembers to ask you for some money you done stretched her out.

 

[Ohene]

We in the begging era

He hit the nail on the head

 

[Scaaar]

We in the begging era

Definitely a lot of pretty panhandlers out here lol

 

[It is a mystery]

So y’all just gone overlook this post?

3 sides to every story

 

[re'up]

What happens to these women when they hit 32-35 and age out of being able to receive those things from men who aren’t their husbands or fathers?

The ones I am talking about are that age now more or less. They want husbands to give them that. But, they will settle for guys they are dating. There's a lot of variables at play. Never knock the hustle, one of them that I am referencing will run a guys pockets quick. Clean him out and move on. She's a straight hustler, but that's her background since she was a teenager.

I guess what I wasn't pointing out in my post directly, is that there is a kind of mainstreaming of culture, where they don't just expect the guy to pay for dinner or trips, or the rent, they expect Chanel bags, David Yurman, and so on, even if nothing in their socioeconomic level explains that, aside from social media.

Like back when, that used to be for basically video models, escorts, female rappers, strippers, but these girls are just normal girls, in a sense that they have jobs, they don't even really sleep around like that. They don't party with rappers, or anything close to that. This is just what they think is reasonable.

think this is kinda what that Peezy post means

 

[Uchiha God]

 

[lib123]

The ones I am talking about are that age now more or less. They want husbands to give them that. But, they will settle for guys they are dating. There's a lot of variables at play. Never knock the hustle, one of them that I am referencing will run a guys pockets quick. Clean him out and move on. She's a straight hustler, but that's her background since she was a teenager.

I guess what I wasn't pointing out in my post directly, is that there is a kind of mainstreaming of culture, where they don't just expect the guy to pay for dinner or trips, or the rent, they expect Chanel bags, David Yurman, and so on, even if nothing in their socioeconomic level explains that, aside from social media.

Like back when, that used to be for basically video models, escorts, female rappers, strippers, but these girls are just normal girls, in a sense that they have jobs, they don't even really sleep around like that. They don't party with rappers, or anything close to that. This is just what they think is reasonable.

think this is kinda what that Peezy post means

Do they realize that the gifts from men they’re dating will decline as they get older?