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Coli breh says “dating” a dime is exhausting
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Who Replied?I don't think Mel Ford will have any difficulty scooping up a breh if she wants to. She still looks good and maintains her appearance. She can easily find a doctor or lawyer type and duck off of she chooses too.Great recap thanks for sharing man. Idk about the bold part tho, especially the ones that primarily messed with fast money dudes or athletes and entertainers when they were young. Look at how Melyssa Ford ended up. A lot of them either seem to have too much baggage, they’re baby mamas and/or they haven’t accepted that they can’t pull the same caliber of dudes anymore.
I saw that and totally agree. A lot of these chics don't know how to act the part when they get with these type of dudes. She got mad when I told her the truth. Your role is to sit there look pretty and don't speak unless spoken to. That's what he's financing you for. To show off to his boys on these trips and they compare and contrast each other's side chics. It's a competition. But she didn't understand and thought that she was the one in control because she controlled access to sex lol. I told her once you put a price on access to you, you've given up all control a man now knows that he can deal with you at his leisure especially one with a lot of disposable income because he can always just buy you when it's convenient. You think you're winning because you got a certain amount of money outta him that you just blow on silly stuff and it literally is just his fun money for the month that he budgeted out lol. He probably used the money he gave you as a tax write off...smhPosted something about that just now lol
Melyssa Ford also has a kinda cool job and is media adjacent. But, it would still be a guy who probably just genuinely likes her, she's not in the "prize race horse" type of category anymore.
She has the access to those worlds without someone or herself paying. She's moving in the same circles as executives and industry people, she's not on their level but they are at the same parties.
I would love to at least go out once with her, just for the stories. She would have a few drinks and you would hear some wild shyt. 90's video shoots and Gloria Velez. That would be worth whatever the dinner was.
She has the access to those worlds without someone or herself paying. She's moving in the same circles as executives and industry people, she's not on their level but they are at the same parties.
I would love to at least go out once with her, just for the stories. She would have a few drinks and you would hear some wild shyt. 90's video shoots and Gloria Velez. That would be worth whatever the dinner was.
I don't think Mel Ford will have any difficulty scooping up a breh if she wants to. She still looks good and maintains her appearance. She can easily find a doctor or lawyer type and duck off of she chooses too.
I don’t know about that. If you listen to the Joe Budden Pod, she’s talked about messing with those types recently but they just smash and dash. A lot of them view her as a bucket list check off. Plus she still has a digital footprint. Introduce her to your family, they Google her, and the YouTube video from 20+ years ago of her with Gloria Velez and Sisqo in the hotel room pops up. The men who are doctors and lawyers doing well for themselves can pull younger and more attractive women than Melyssa Ford in 2024.
You have a point. But we've also talked about how these new chics don't know how to act in certain spaces and places. That's why even with these younger athletes you still see the Drayas, Bernice, and Joie types still making moves. She might be a bucket list check off. But some brehs will still try to wife off the strength that she checks all the trophy wife boxes. Her past doesn't matter to these types. They're wifing up strippers and porn stars all the time. At the end of the day that's still Melyssa Ford and she still looks good. Most dudes are ok with just thatI don’t know about that. If you listen to the Joe Budden Pod, she’s talked about messing with those types recently but they just smash and dash. A lot of them view her as a bucket list check off. Plus she still has a digital footprint. Introduce her to your family, they Google her, and the YouTube video from 20+ years ago of her with Gloria Velez and Sisqo in the hotel room pops up. The men who are doctors and lawyers doing well for themselves can pull younger and more attractive women than Melyssa Ford in 2024.
You have a point. But we've also talked about how these new chics don't know how to act in certain spaces and places. That's why even with these younger athletes you still see the Drayas, Bernice, and Joie types still making moves. She might be a bucket list check off. But some brehs will still try to wife off the strength that she checks all the trophy wife boxes. Her past doesn't matter to these types. They're wifing up strippers and porn stars all the time. At the end of the day that's still Melyssa Ford and she still looks good. Most dudes are ok with just that
If we’re talking about athletes and entertainers, they’re not wifing up strippers and pornstars. At best they’re making them baby mamas. But as far as the doctors and lawyers you mentioned, I was responding to them not wifing Melyssa Ford. They can find attractive professional BW who are 30-40 without Mel’s baggage to wife.
There also isn't always this "moral high ground" around sex/relationships when you are lets say a 54 year old man in the music industry, divorced, like a mid level exec or whatever, (house in the Hamptons but not three) And you meet Melyssa Ford or whomever it is.
A lot of that extra shyt is social media noise. When you get older a lot of those rules get relaxed, and when you are in the same industry, you understand where the other is coming from. It's not like basketball players meeting some IG girl in the DM's.
A lot of that extra shyt is social media noise. When you get older a lot of those rules get relaxed, and when you are in the same industry, you understand where the other is coming from. It's not like basketball players meeting some IG girl in the DM's.
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Breh I'm telling you...most of these successful men that are well to do don't want the hassle of the professional BW. Not knocking it at all but these men usually have money, status, and means of their own. They don't need a chic that has an actual job that means that it's less time they get to spend with them. Ask a majority of these NBA players why they mess with IG chics/dancers/bottles girls and it's the convenience of being able to reach them at their leisure. These dudes at that level aren't used to being told no. Especially due to a chic having to work or some obligations from a job. That's even for the super successful doctors and lawyers. They view themselves as the head and are usually ego driven on that old school patriarchy. Their woman is an extension of their success/status. They don't want a woman out here tired from working a normal job. They take care of them and put them up. Their wife actually working is seen as a strike on them as a man.If we’re talking about athletes and entertainers, they’re not wifing up strippers and pornstars. At best they’re making them baby mamas. But as far as the doctors and lawyers you mentioned, I was responding to them not wifing Melyssa Ford. They can find attractive professional BW who are 30-40 without Mel’s baggage to wife.
Breh I'm telling you...most of these successful men that are well to do don't want the hassle of the professional BW. Not knocking it at all but these men usually have money, status, and means of their own. They don't need a chic that has an actual job that means that it's less time they get to spend with them. Ask a majority of these NBA players why they mess with IG chics/dancers/bottles girls and it's the convenience of being able to reach them at their leisure. These dudes at that level aren't used to being told no. Especially due to a chic having to work or some obligations from a job. That's even for the super successful doctors and lawyers. They view themselves as the head and are usually ego driven on that old school patriarchy. Their woman is an extension of their success/status. They don't want a woman out here tired from working a normal job. They take care of them and put them up. Their wife actually working is seen as a strike on them as a man.
I disagree man. I’m speaking to the Black professional doctors and lawyers. Most of them are married to Black professional women. Now granted, these women are often very pleasant people and hence why they got wifed. What you’re saying aligns more with who Black athletes and entertainers decide to wife.