Black women don’t have the privileges of white/Asian women and never will. I hate when y’all say dumb shyt like this because You act as if black women are a complete separate entity that don’t share the same struggles as black men. You’d be upset if black women asked why Becky and sue lee could be stay at home moms because you damn well know systematic racism has played a role in keeping black peoples fighting for scraps. How many black men do you really think that are out there that are financially stable right out of college?
Are all non-Black men financially stable right out of college? No.
It’s called building a future together.
Black women only want to build a future when it suits them—as they are nearing or past 30 and are washed up.
If I saw Black women this pressed about marriage at 25, I’d be more sympathetic.
But, it’s hard for me to feel sorry for 30+ Black women when they wasted their prime years playing around.
If you’re serious about marriage, your actions in your 20s will show it.
If you want to be a wife, act like it.
If you want to be Cardi B, own it.
But, you can’t just switch it up when it suits you and expext eligible Black men to be tossing rings out all willy nilly!