Ciara is trending on Twitter and catching flack for apparently being a hypocrite

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My point was that rings aren't being given out all willy nilly. I think men are less willing and financially able to give legally binding commitment given the types of women out there in 2018, especially the poorer the man is...

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Organized religion also plays a lesser role in society and that's also a contributing factor.
 
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It's not a mindset limited to hoodrats, breh.

You have educated women out here playing around in the mid-20s. Then, when they hit 30, they want to get serious about mating.

It doesn't work that way. A man reaching his peak at 30 is in no rush to settle down with a 30-year-old woman. He will take his time, which clashes with the clock she has running in her head.

Most 30+ women, who played around and are in a rush to marry, should target brehs in their late-30s and early 40s. Typically, those brehs will likely have a kid or two or will be divorced. But, they are more likely to marry quickly compared to brehs in their early 30s who have no baggage.

Good points.

A woman's prime starts earlier than a man's. A 22-year old sista with no kids, a bachelor's degree and OK looks will have dudes her age up to men in their 50's trying to shoot their shot.

Their stock price is high so that's when you wanna cash in. However many ladies don't wanna give up their advantages so early in life, which is understandable. Men don't start to peak until almost 10 years later. When dudes finally start gaining an advantage in the dating game, the last thing they wanna do is get married.

30 year old single women that "sowed them oats" are asking 30 year old dudes to give up leverage right as they enter Prime Time. You have to catch the man BEFORE he enters Prime Time.
 

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Ciara is an industry hoe.

She has been passed around more than a Thanksgiving side.

I'm talking about:

50 cent hit
Bow Wow hit
Future hit
Missy hit
Reggie Bush hit
R-Kelly hit
several basketball players hit
several football players hit
Rumored to do tricks with Amber Rose, and do threesomes with Kanye and Amber
she has been in the fashion industry so she had to give her p*ssy to run the walkway or wear a design by a fashion designer for free
p*ssy been flown around the world and frequently in Dubai to be a porta potty.
Russel loss heavily.
The average women just fukk as much, u just dont know their history because they are not a celebrity
 

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And the nail was hit on the head regarding the difference between Black women and White/Asian women. They are told to go to college to find their husbands and when they graduate many are already engaged or married. Most of the young women I work are either engaged are married. The older ones are ringless or serial daters because of their careers or other reasons.
Black women don’t have the privileges of white/Asian women and never will. I hate when y’all say dumb shyt like this because You act as if black women are a complete separate entity that don’t share the same struggles as black men. You’d be upset if black women asked why Becky and sue lee could be stay at home moms because you damn well know systematic racism has played a role in keeping black peoples fighting for scraps. How many black men do you really think that are out there that are financially stable right out of college?
 

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Black women don’t have the privileges of white/Asian women and never will. I hate when y’all say dumb shyt like this because You act as if black women are a complete separate entity that don’t share the same struggles as black men. You’d be upset if black women asked why Becky and sue lee could be stay at home moms because you damn well know systematic racism has played a role in keeping black peoples fighting for scraps. How many black men do you really think that are out there that are financially stable right out of college?

Yes, blame everything on systematic racism.
 

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So you're essentially saying that
1) An educated woman who worked to attain her shyt can't be humble
2) Wife material is someone who will "submit" (presumably someone who will depend on the husband for finances, a home, etc).
1) Yes... it is very hard for her to be humble... modest
2) Thats not the end all, be all to wife material... but very close... If ur wife has the everything u have, and pays half of everything... is this really ur wife or ur roommate?
I have to find the numbers where it shows that most divorces are initiated by the woman
 

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Ciara won, single mom thot got wifed by a starting NFL qb whose legit a good guy.

These thots can't take it, only javarious, Trevathian, J'quindale rotating in and out of their vagina

Interesting names :mjpls:

1) Yes... it is very hard for her to be humble... modest
2) Thats not the end all, be all to wife material... but very close... If ur wife has the everything u have, and pays half of everything... is this really ur wife or ur roommate?
I have to find the numbers where it shows that most divorces are initiated by the woman

Although I disagree with #1, thank you for being honest. I hope you find what you want (if you haven't already) and you treat her well. Real talk.
 

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Interesting names :mjpls:



Although I disagree with #1, thank you for being honest. I hope you find what you want (if you haven't already) and you treat her well. Real talk.
Well damn...,thank you..,that was nice of you...
Unexpected tho lol
 

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Black women don’t have the privileges of white/Asian women and never will. I hate when y’all say dumb shyt like this because You act as if black women are a complete separate entity that don’t share the same struggles as black men. You’d be upset if black women asked why Becky and sue lee could be stay at home moms because you damn well know systematic racism has played a role in keeping black peoples fighting for scraps. How many black men do you really think that are out there that are financially stable right out of college?

Are all non-Black men financially stable right out of college? No.

It’s called building a future together.

Black women only want to build a future when it suits them—as they are nearing or past 30 and are washed up.

If I saw Black women this pressed about marriage at 25, I’d be more sympathetic.

But, it’s hard for me to feel sorry for 30+ Black women when they wasted their prime years playing around.

If you’re serious about marriage, your actions in your 20s will show it.

If you want to be a wife, act like it.

If you want to be Cardi B, own it.

But, you can’t just switch it up when it suits you and expext eligible Black men to be tossing rings out all willy nilly!
 
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