Ciara is trending on Twitter and catching flack for apparently being a hypocrite

[Stuntone]

these hoez so dumb, they dont want any advice or suggestions to help them out of their miserable dating lives.

A lot of married women avoid any contact with these habitual sidechicks.

 

[Art Barr]

Ciara should have worded this better and made her message from a place of learning from her mistakes. Posting this makes her look bad because just a while ago she was walking in the spirit of a baby momma. Women cant predict everything but, predicting that Future was going to leave her a babymomma was not rocket science. She should speak from a place of learning and not from a high horse as if she was walking in the spirit of marriage before. If she had been walking in the spirit of marriage with future she would have known to curve him like the plague before tying herself to him with a child.

This.



Art Barr

 

[Cynic]

Give me your theory as to why the marriage rate continues to plummet

Recreational sex, women with higher expectations than previous gens, no fault divorce law

 

[ejthompson23]

Naw, I’m looking at this from the perspective of a nikka....leave the kids out of your passive aggressive clap back intentions........don’t gotta be a fewtcha Stan to see a bytch is bein petty. What’s yo perspective nikka

So she’s not allowed to post pics of her kid with her husband?

 

[Serious]

Reposting so this doesn't get lost in the sauce of goofy posts.

There are many women out there who are by all means "wife material"

No kids
Educated
Good career
Homeowner/own place
Attractive

Yet they are single as hell... and plenty of y'all make fun of these women... call them past their prime or crazy because they didn't settle for shiftless nikkas. Say "GMB" and proclaim that you don't want to settle down.

Something doesn't compute here

Are they in shape

 

[Dr. Acula]

 

[Guess Who]

She has a point.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Damn....Reading those comments, a lot of women seem just as "Get married, breh" as men.

GOT EM!

One chick wrote:

"I saw the video Ciara posted and I just laughed. She’s really acting like a woman who never thought she was gonna get married so being a wife is a huge deal and part of her identity now."

Like isn't that what a married woman's supposed to do?


If you read between the lines, you can see how a lot of women don't even value marriage.

I guess some of them are more comfortable riding the cock carousel.Stuck loving the same things they complain about.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Ciara MIGHT be a hypocrite.....but the ladies hating on her WISH they had a multi-millionaire QB as hubby. Females that are happily married don't give a shyt. It's the single ones that have been fukkin around with wannabe Futures and Bow Wow's that are offended. Ciara hit too close to home.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Damn....Reading those comments, a lot of women seem just as "Get married, breh" as men.

GOT EM!

One chick wrote:

"I saw the video Ciara posted and I just laughed. She’s really acting like a woman who never thought she was gonna get married so being a wife is a huge deal and part of her identity now."

Like isn't that what a married woman's supposed to do?


If you read between the lines, you can see how a lot of women don't even value marriage.

I guess some of them are more comfortable riding the cock carousel.Stuck loving the same things they complain about.

Nah, they wanna get married but they want to marry the Kofi Siriboe lookalike with that neurosurgeon gig. Good black brehs (that aren't pure playas) get snatched up quickly.

The smartest sistahs I know from college? Every single one is married or engaged. The picky ones try to front like they're happy. They are realizing NOW that being passive ain't the way to go. Pawgs and Asian chicks get on that marriage business early (not counting NYC/LA).

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Was she carrying herself as a wife during these times?

She has been hoing since she was a child. This woman thinks she can erase her past because she recieved a ring.

Man, in a few years, we're all going to be marrying "ho's".We live in the instant access/social media era.

Dikk & puzzy's only a keystroke away.Closets full of warm bodies & skeletons.

You're just gonna have to find you a ho who only wants to be your ho and act "married." That's the new loyalty

And when I say act married, I mean keep it business like.The relationship should be about reaching objectives & goals

and not about "love" in the romantic sense.Basically, it's damn near having a pimp mentality, but less game playing/ignorant.

Happiness & peace will grow out of getting goals accomplished.All that spine tingling "love" shyt is a myth like unicorns.

You're deluding yourself with that Jedi Mind Trick.All that square/ho shyt don't matter anymore.The lines have been blurred.

Just give me a chick that's willing to be down & stay loyal to whatever program we establish.If it doesn't work out, so be it.

I was never dependent on her for my happiness anywayz.My love is only as good as her loyalty to our program.The business model

kept me detached from all those silly/emotional/love games.On to the next.I value marriage in that sense

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

I agree brother...

At the end of the day.... More p*ssy for us with no strings attached

Either way it goes.... Men get the W

If they follow Ciara's advice... We win

If they reject it and choose to be sexually liberated.... We still win.

Three dimensional chess breh!

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Its funny tho.. the chix with the
Education, No kids, homeowner, Attractive, yada yada..
Usually are not wifey material...
Being a wife is a specific type of position that requires a bit of humbleness, and submission.,Its hard for women who have all those attributes to be humble and a bit submissive. And those women tend to have put a career and education 1st.
Thats why u have a ton of successful black women, who are 30+, looking around like where all the good dudes at.
Somebdy taught these women wrong. Turned them into men

Yep....having money, education and a career doesn't really make you wife material. Being wife material AND THEN having the money/education is where it's at.

You can't wait until 30 to get serious about finding a man. The good brehs get chose quickly. Gotta sacrifice that ego to get the goods.

 

[Cynic]

Reposting so this doesn't get lost in the sauce of goofy posts.

There are many women out there who are by all means "wife material"

No kids
Educated
Good career
Homeowner/own place
Attractive

Yet they are single as hell... and plenty of y'all make fun of these women... call them past their prime or crazy because they didn't settle for shiftless nikkas. Say "GMB" and proclaim that you don't want to settle down.

Something doesn't compute here

These driven career spinsters come with baggage and a level of entitlement that befuddles men on their level and repels men above em their tax bracket.

They take that abrasive energy into their relationships and instead of being docile and feminine they double down and try to lead/control you.

I won't even get into their level of debt


But why would any breh put up with this ? Let alone a successful one ?

 

[Surreal]

Damn....Reading those comments, a lot of women seem just as "Get married, breh" as men.

GOT EM!

One chick wrote:

"I saw the video Ciara posted and I just laughed. She’s really acting like a woman who never thought she was gonna get married so being a wife is a huge deal and part of her identity now."

Like isn't that what a married woman's supposed to do?


If you read between the lines, you can see how a lot of women don't even value marriage.

I guess some of them are more comfortable riding the cock carousel.Stuck loving the same things they complain about.

They don't value marriage because they stay only collecting dust with low hanging men. They don't believe in an actual good life. They poke holes in decent people lives to make sure of it. Pure jaded and resentful of ever being born. Avoid these females