Talking about oxymorons, you literally just used one in your example
Chinese are not really respected (higher status). If they were, they would:
a) Be able to get women (of all races) fairly easily
b) Be able to keep their own women
Both of which they can't do. They are not seen as masculine, dominant, or important. Basically the men would be equivalent to (today's) white males. China is respected only insofar as it has nukes and cheap shyt to buy and to export our crappy products into.
The closest example of an Asian country that is genuinely respected is Japan and maybe Korea after that. Japanese men have built a first world society in less than 50 years and don't let whites take their women in their own country.