Actually had a coworker who said she debated on whether to have kids because she didn't want the possibility of it being a wrap for her body.
No woman should even have to consider that when she's the vehicle for life.
But...
...this is... life,
and women are under such immense pressure to stay on point even after kids. Kinda unfair.
However, not all women blow up all crazy. As some posters have stated, gotta look at the mother.
I will say I've been noticing married couples in their 50s whose husbands are soooooooo off point (balding & beer gut), yet the wife is
status... So it works both ways, trust.
Women with kids get a pass. It is really tougher for them for a variety of reasons. But when you see an out-of-shape man, barring any prolonged illness or genetic disorder, it's a damn shame.