Cheating Husband And Best Friend - I'm so sad...

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Your husband is just projecting his guilt. I expect his baseless accusations of you cheating to start soon.

I agree with whoever said to change your circle. Sounds like everybody in it is on some fukk shyt.

 

[MikelArteta]

I've never cheated

Cheaters will use any excuse in the book to justify their wrongs.

Get out while you still can guarantee your husband will cheat again if the opportunity presents itself

 

[MikelArteta]

You’re insinuating that most desirable people cheat and non desirable don’t which is false. Being faithful is all about a persons values.

Even the ugliest of the ugliest can cheat.

An ugly fat woman will still have men that want to smash her

A ugly fat man can always pay a hooker

 

[J.E.T.S]

https://www.thecoli.com/threads/gir...ts-been-fukked-for-free.655000/#post-30740804

@Barnett114 unbush my thread now!

 

[AceMan]

How's yall sex life before and after the infidelity, OP?

 

[J.E.T.S]

Some people cheat and some don't. If I find out my woman cheated I'm cancelling her ass asap though.

The likelyhood of you actually doing this with someone you already fell in love with is slim.

 

[AsTheWorldBurns]

You know they say the best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody

 

[EARFQUAKE]

There was a thread on here for men that make 6 figures and are in a ltr/marriage. All of them were cheating. one was exposed for fukking trans prostitutes in another thread and come to find out he had a 5 month old at home. I've seen dudes on here detail their loving marriage and family with their childhood sweetheart, and in another thread refer to his wife as "my main". (nikkas ain't shyt).

About 50% of the married women I've been close friends with cheat.

Do you and your husband have kids? That would be the only reason to stay long term.

Please tell me you have a link or a general title to go off of?

 

[paperbag]

Yeah we got kids.

I dont see us as long term/forever anymore. I see him as a mean$ to an end now.

I'm not using him. I have told him this point blank but he does not take me seriously. He doesnt seem to grasp that he killed the love and respect I had for him.

oh definitely the deep love, respect me trust is gone. I wouldn't believe what he says, about anything, from that moment forward. By long-term i meant until the kids would still be emotionally stable after the divorce , and whenever you are able to make sure you will be able to function financially at the level you want. Is he the type to not maintain a strong relationship with his kids if they weren't living full-time with him, remember that the person you thought you knew Is gone.

Just be prepared that once you stay, in his mind you've given an open pass for cheating, counseling/therapy/meditation/prayer to remove as much feeling as you can from the relationship will be needed.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

I’ve been cheated on before OP (I’ve shared that story on the coli) so I know sometimes it feels like it’s hopeless but they’re some people who believe in true monogamy.

So hang in there OP.

 

[MikelArteta]

The likelyhood of you actually doing this with someone you already fell in love with is slim.

You have to, cheating is like a drug to many women and men. they just can't stop, and if you give someone another chance more than likely they will do it again because they have no respect for you.

Plus life is short I'd someone cheats on me I'm not going to live the rest of my life worryong when they laugh or come home late, or if when she's knocked up if the kid is mine or if I should go raw in case she got a STD.

Life's too short for that

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Yeah we got kids.

I dont see us as long term/forever anymore. I see him as a mean$ to an end now.

I'm not using him. I have told him this point blank but he does not take me seriously. He doesnt seem to grasp that he killed the love and respect I had for him.

Felt this in my soul.

 

[Mordith]

Furthermore no one should ever forgive a cheater until after you leave them. The relationship will never work until after the cheater is made aware that their actions have consequences and you will not tolerate being disrespected.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I'd say it depends on age. In most relationships where people are in their 20's, cheating is undoubtedly rampant and regretfully the norm.

Early 30's it starts to taper off a bit as men stop revering p*ssy, but the problem is that women hit their sexual prime right about then, so I'd say more women cheat in their 30's than they did in their 20's.

Late 30's, hopefully most people have grown up and cut that shyt out.

40's... people just start having open relationships.

 

[paperbag]

Please tell me you have a link or a general title to go off of?

I thought it had 100k or 6figuresand "tell us about your relationship " in the title, but I can't find it again. I just recall being while reading it. Especially been the dude ducking multiple prostitutes said h e practically had a newborn at home.