Cheating Husband And Best Friend - I'm so sad...

[Yo Mama]

...I am not sure if you will forgive your husband, but if you decide to do it, then do it. If you decide to go tit for tat with the cheating, then prepare for some major issues. Just don't expect your husband to be as forgiving because people who cheat usually don't play fair and will not do so if the tables were turned on them.

I'd never cheat. I'd break up with my husband or tell him I have met someone I want to be with.

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

There was a thread on here for men that make 6 figures and are in a ltr/marriage. All of them were cheating. one was exposed for fukking trans prostitutes in another thread and come to find out he had a 5 month old at home. I've seen dudes on here detail their loving marriage and family with their childhood sweetheart, and in another thread refer to his wife as "my main". (nikkas ain't shyt).

About 50% of the married women I've been close friends with cheat.

Do you and your husband have kids? That would be the only reason to stay long term.

Wait....did you just say nikkas ain't shyt and then say right after that 50% of your married female friends cheat too?

 

[DarlingNikki]

I'd never cheat. I'd break up with my husband or tell him I have met someone I want to be with.

You deserve this same respect. Your husband is trash, there are plenty of men who would appreciate you.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

There's plenty of men that want a spouse to be loyal to but do women that cry about being cheated on want them? Probably not.

 

[Yo Mama]

@J.V Koba ????????

J.V Koba negged you for your post in the thread Cheating Husband And Best Friend - I'm so sad.... With the following comment:
Troll fakkit

How so?

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

OP you in Atlanta? If so, come give me some p*ssy to get back at that nikka. I mean, we can hang out and shyt to make sure there is a connection, but yeah get that no good husband of yours back.

Naw but seriously tho, we don’t have to hang out to see if there is a connection, you can just give me the p*ssy without that extra shyt. Ball is in your court. I’m ready to catch this alley pop whenever you ready to throw it. Also, I know how you feel about cheating, so I would like to let you know that I won’t be cheating on anyone cause I’m single. I’m a really good guy

 

[xCivicx]

Sorry that happened to you OP

I've never cheated to my knowledge

I'm too honest for that anyway tbf

Idk what you guys relationship is like, but did you ask him why he cheated?

 

[Yo Mama]

There's plenty of men that want a spouse to be loyal to but do women that cry about being cheated on want them? Probably not.

I guess.

But I have seen that cheating has nothing to do with looks (if thats what you mean) or even income.

Yes I'd want a man who wants monogamy. Id prefer him tall and handsome though...

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Sorry you are upset.

I don’t look at cheating sexually as that big of a deal. I wish humans were more open about it. We all would like to explore sex with different people sometimes.

It’s the lying and sneaking that hurts. Also it’s fear that the next person may be more attractive and take “your” mate from you.

We don’t own anyone in this world.

I’d talk to him about the sex and what he was seeking. Ask him if it was protected sex, if he did oral to her. If he just banged a random at a hotel and bounced back home I don’t think that’s divorce worthy.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

My husband cheated on me, (I made a weak sappy thread about it...)

He ssys I should forgive and forget coz EVERYONE cheats...

Anyway I didnt discuss my betrayal with anyone as I wanted to be sure of what I really want to do before i discuss it with anyone...

I meet up with one of my close friends to finally talk about it. I was ready to go in on how aint shyt men are bla bla bla...

We are having a nice meal and I ask how her man is doing... They are good, the usual inane relationship stuff, she is hoping he proposes or pregnancy, whichever comes first . We are catching up with gossip and stories... Then she lets slip that she slept with someone else. She tries to backtrack but I insist she "spill the beans". It seems her man was out of town for work, he travels a lot, and takes her along whenever its convineint for them both.

While he was away she got horny and bored so she slept with some guy she met on a night out. I suspect there may be more "beans" but I think I have a reputation as a prude so I suppose some people tell me edited versions of stuff.

So now I'm looking at her across the table and decided not to talk about my no good husband.

I dont cheat, I have never felt the desire to cheat or lie to my husband. So there must be many like minded faithful people out there??? So surely there has to be a man who wants monogamy out there... I fear it might be a needle in a haystack type of thing. It seems its impossible to meet a (goodlooking) faithful man?

My question is aside are people or are you cheating that much?

Coz it seema like most posters have stories about side chicks trying to leave the side and take centre stage.

I feel so down, and feel like the only way to avoid the drama is to be single? Even though being single has its own issues...


CLIFFS:
Husband cheated on me.
I decide to talk to friend and discover she has or is cheating on her boyfriend.
I feel down coz it seems no one actually wants or values monogamy.

My advice is the best way to choose a mate is in how you meet them.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I guess.

But I have seen that cheating has nothing to do with looks (if thats what you mean) or even income.

Yes I'd want a man who wants monogamy. Id prefer him tall and handsome though...

This is the problem with men and women

We all think they we should get what we want down to the T. There are plenty of men and women that don't cheat, but most get picky. I want her with a fatty, cute a freak, no social media and a virgin that makes good money.

Like nah 99 percent of the population aint finding that.

Its ok to demand loyalty but if thats what you truly value then looks and heights or money and sex need to take a back seat. When you come across someone that seems to value loyalty as much as you grab them up instead of holding out for something that looks better and seems "pretty honest"

I mean you never know but there are way's to minimize heartache, its just people don't like what they have to give up to do it.

 

[PaperEnterprise]

fukk your husband, ill be faithful.

Pics please

 

[Voice of Reason]

You’re friend is a thot stop discussing your relationship with her.

 

[Dreadknox77]

It is possible for ur husband to love you and still “cheat”. Men aren’t made to be with one woman . Monogamy is un natural and just plain weird. He probably just needs variety, fukking with one woman for your whole life is gonna get boring for him after awhile .

Most women don’t wanna hear that , but it’s the truth. Other than that does he do his husbandly duties well??

If so continue to fight for your relationship,people these days are so quick to just break up and get divorced

 

[Voice of Reason]

This is the problem with men and women

We all think they we should get what we want down to the T. There are plenty of men and women that don't cheat, but most get picky. I want her with a fatty, cute a freak, no social media and a virgin that makes good money.

Like nah 99 percent of the population aint finding that.

Its ok to demand loyalty but if thats what you truly value then looks and heights or money and sex need to take a back seat. When you come across someone that seems to value loyalty as much as you grab them up instead of holding out for something that looks better and seems "pretty honest"

I mean you never know but there are way's to minimize heartache, its just people don't like what they have to give up to do it.

You’re insinuating that most desirable people cheat and non desirable don’t which is false. Being faithful is all about a persons values.