Cheating Husband And Best Friend - I'm so sad...

[Easy-E]

Your husband is just projecting his guilt. I expect his baseless accusations of you cheating to start soon.

I agree with whoever said to change your circle. Sounds like everybody in it is on some fukk shyt.

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

I cheat because I'm a sex addict. Any woman that plays that withholding sex shyt.... good luck , I'll be fukking other broads until you're ready and the other reason why I cheat is because I don't believe in love.

 

[ORDER_66]

You already know if you hop in a relationship - she gon pressure you for all your free time and attention. Its better to just get the sex and do what you wanna. Relationships are signing up for unnecessary headaches

Yeah, I'm starting to see a sad pattern now... it's infuriating...

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

My husband cheated on me, (I made a weak sappy thread about it...)

He ssys I should forgive and forget coz EVERYONE cheats...

Anyway I didnt discuss my betrayal with anyone as I wanted to be sure of what I really want to do before i discuss it with anyone...

I meet up with one of my close friends to finally talk about it. I was ready to go in on how aint shyt men are bla bla bla...

We are having a nice meal and I ask how her man is doing... They are good, the usual inane relationship stuff, she is hoping he proposes or pregnancy, whichever comes first . We are catching up with gossip and stories... Then she lets slip that she slept with someone else. She tries to backtrack but I insist she "spill the beans". It seems her man was out of town for work, he travels a lot, and takes her along whenever its convineint for them both.

While he was away she got horny and bored so she slept with some guy she met on a night out. I suspect there may be more "beans" but I think I have a reputation as a prude so I suppose some people tell me edited versions of stuff.

So now I'm looking at her across the table and decided not to talk about my no good husband.

I dont cheat, I have never felt the desire to cheat or lie to my husband. So there must be many like minded faithful people out there??? So surely there has to be a man who wants monogamy out there... I fear it might be a needle in a haystack type of thing. It seems its impossible to meet a (goodlooking) faithful man?

My question is aside are people or are you cheating that much?

Coz it seema like most posters have stories about side chicks trying to leave the side and take centre stage.

I feel so down, and feel like the only way to avoid the drama is to be single? Even though being single has its own issues...


CLIFFS:
Husband cheated on me.
I decide to talk to friend and discover she has or is cheating on her boyfriend.
I feel down coz it seems no one actually wants or values monogamy.

I think 70 percent of people cheat.
It sucks.
But make him sweat.make him work for your affection and love again.
It's going to be hard.
Go to couples counseling.
Don't share this with anyone yet.
Keep it between yourselves for now.

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

I'm so jaded and ruined.

I swear everyone cheats.

Ever since I got to corporate America that's all I see and hear.
It's so disgusting.

What's the point of settling down or getting married?

 

[MMA]

Already talked to OP but I've cheated in my past. It wasn't something indicative of them, I was just young (16-20) and was practicing a hypersexual lifestyle. After those ages, I just started telling them from the jump the type of man I was and that I was going to sleep with other woman and it's their choice to be with me or not.

I notice 2 type of men that cheat. One's like my previous self who was engaging in fukkery then got into relationships but didn't leave the fukkery behind. In this case It's a satisfaction problem and in these cheaters mind's their no such thing has enough. Then you have men who locked down a woman, feel they are missing out and cheat on their spouse.
I'm not saying for anyone to trust a cheater, like I've told my gf but understand that it stems from somewhere and that person (cheater) needs to learn to redirect that energy in a different way.

 

[fkthisgaysite]

I have no idea what that means. Is it about astrology?

Yea. You need your exact birth time. astro.cafeastrology.com

I'm asking because of your loyalty.

 

[Ashley Banks]

I plan on cheating...just to preempt any cheating he does

This

 

[98Ntu]

Humans are self involved degenerates, who you should trust with a grain on salt. Monogamy has been played out. Genuinely sorry about you getting your heart broken tho. Focus on healing yourself rn

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

Try to make sure it's one of his family members, he'll never recover

You women are dastardly

 

[Critical Distance]

Damn, imagine being married to someone who tells you, "everyone cheats. "

 

[#1 pick]

My husband cheated on me, (I made a weak sappy thread about it...)

He ssys I should forgive and forget coz EVERYONE cheats...

Anyway I didnt discuss my betrayal with anyone as I wanted to be sure of what I really want to do before i discuss it with anyone...

I meet up with one of my close friends to finally talk about it. I was ready to go in on how aint shyt men are bla bla bla...

We are having a nice meal and I ask how her man is doing... They are good, the usual inane relationship stuff, she is hoping he proposes or pregnancy, whichever comes first . We are catching up with gossip and stories... Then she lets slip that she slept with someone else. She tries to backtrack but I insist she "spill the beans". It seems her man was out of town for work, he travels a lot, and takes her along whenever its convineint for them both.

While he was away she got horny and bored so she slept with some guy she met on a night out. I suspect there may be more "beans" but I think I have a reputation as a prude so I suppose some people tell me edited versions of stuff.

So now I'm looking at her across the table and decided not to talk about my no good husband.

I dont cheat, I have never felt the desire to cheat or lie to my husband. So there must be many like minded faithful people out there??? So surely there has to be a man who wants monogamy out there... I fear it might be a needle in a haystack type of thing. It seems its impossible to meet a (goodlooking) faithful man?

My question is aside are people or are you cheating that much?

Coz it seema like most posters have stories about side chicks trying to leave the side and take centre stage.

I feel so down, and feel like the only way to avoid the drama is to be single? Even though being single has its own issues...


CLIFFS:
Husband cheated on me.
I decide to talk to friend and discover she has or is cheating on her boyfriend.
I feel down coz it seems no one actually wants or values monogamy.

Leave.

 

[#1 pick]

Yeah we got kids.

I dont see us as long term/forever anymore. I see him as a mean$ to an end now.

I'm not using him. I have told him this point blank but he does not take me seriously. He doesnt seem to grasp that he killed the love and respect I had for him.

Damn! Leaving ain't easy. Damn, why did he say he cheated for. You sound like you were doing a good job

 

[#1 pick]

I plan on cheating...just to preempt any cheating he does

I hope you trolling, you can't be that insecure

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

My husband cheated on me, (I made a weak sappy thread about it...)

He ssys I should forgive and forget coz EVERYONE cheats...

Anyway I didnt discuss my betrayal with anyone as I wanted to be sure of what I really want to do before i discuss it with anyone...

I meet up with one of my close friends to finally talk about it. I was ready to go in on how aint shyt men are bla bla bla...

We are having a nice meal and I ask how her man is doing... They are good, the usual inane relationship stuff, she is hoping he proposes or pregnancy, whichever comes first . We are catching up with gossip and stories... Then she lets slip that she slept with someone else. She tries to backtrack but I insist she "spill the beans". It seems her man was out of town for work, he travels a lot, and takes her along whenever its convineint for them both.

While he was away she got horny and bored so she slept with some guy she met on a night out. I suspect there may be more "beans" but I think I have a reputation as a prude so I suppose some people tell me edited versions of stuff.

So now I'm looking at her across the table and decided not to talk about my no good husband.

I dont cheat, I have never felt the desire to cheat or lie to my husband. So there must be many like minded faithful people out there??? So surely there has to be a man who wants monogamy out there... I fear it might be a needle in a haystack type of thing. It seems its impossible to meet a (goodlooking) faithful man?

My question is aside are people or are you cheating that much?

Coz it seema like most posters have stories about side chicks trying to leave the side and take centre stage.

I feel so down, and feel like the only way to avoid the drama is to be single? Even though being single has its own issues...


CLIFFS:
Husband cheated on me.
I decide to talk to friend and discover she has or is cheating on her boyfriend.
I feel down coz it seems no one actually wants or values monogamy.

Keeping it a stack, the idea of cheating has always seemed corny to me. I understand that shyt happens but I guess the way I look at it is I can't willingly do something that I know is gonna hurt someone I care about, let alone claim to love. Everyone doesn't cheat but I do think most people have the urge to cheat after awhile. The grass always looks greener on the otherside, and like someone said we as humans have a tendency to be very selfish, undisciplined monsters.

I've never cheated and I've never even had the urge to, tho I have been cheated on. shyt hurts because of the lack of respect your partner's shown for you and the lack of trust you now have for them. This is why I've always maintained that I'll break up with someone before I cheat on them.

I'm hesitant to get into a relationship now because I know I don't really wanna be with just one person right now and I don't wanna hurt someone. It's spooky out here but there are alot of people still value monogamy and have enough respect and love for their partners not to cheat on them.