Charging girlfriend rent on a property you own outright. Who’s right/wrong?

[Field Marshall Bradley]

So you’d allow chick who’s nothing more than a fukk buddy to live with you.

We’re just different I guessIf

: You can genuinely care about fukk buddies too

 

[Kane1]

She wants to live for FREE


They dating....NOT MARRIED



$800....or stay where you at paying $2000+

 

[Ashley Banks]

i hope your joking lol, you would wait for your significant other to pump your gas or wash your own filthy car? Instead of being an ADULT and doing it ya self.

I make him food and wash his clothes, why can’t he be an adult and do it himself?

 

[Remote]

I'm not sure I would do that, but hey...

In that situation, the man is letting you know how he rolls from the beginning.
If she aint with it, then she can find another man. It's not that hard.

Why do there need to be all these arguments about who is right?
If you aint fukkin with that, move along.

 

[HarlemHottie]

The op clearly states that he expects her to pay half of the expenses + $800 rent.

Y'all been arguing about the wrong shyt for six pages.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Its.greedy to.expect a friend.to.pay rent.to.live with you, but its not greedy when you are.paying.rent.to.someone you dont know to expect or.demand to pay nothing so you can keep all the money you had no problem giving as long as.ot went to.someone you dont know?

Yall simps even spout hoe babble.

She is a.girlfriend, not a fiance or wife, she pays rent

Lol, nikkas ready to lose their.minda for some p*ssy you already got. Smh.

So glad I was.raiaed.back in the day when tricking on women was looked down on

So you move her in because you plan on, in the long term, marrying her, right?

I mean you dont just move rando's into your house just because they can pay rent and you can fukk on them right?

Is that how you operate, my breh?

So, when you decide to propose to her..

I guess you give her a manila envelope that says 'Marry Me' on it with her lease agreement for her to rip up?

I mean you ARE having your girlfriend sign a lease rental agreement, correct?

 

[David_TheMan]

You started questioning the meaning of a significant other, that’s the definition of deflection. Just so could ramble about nonsense, smh. The principal is simple for me: commercial endeavors aside, I don’t turn a profit on people I consider friends and family. If it cost me $50, I’m giving it to them for $50; if it’s free to me, I’m passing it on to them for free.

I didn’t see your convenience store question, what was it?

I didn't deflect from the topic, you have to do that in order to deflect.

My post could hardly be called a ramble seeing how short it is and too the point.

The principle is simple to me, business doesn't stop because you want p*ssy or because you have family and friends involved.

I literally asked the convience store question in the post you quotes.

 

[David_TheMan]

So you move her in because you plan on, in the long term, marrying her, right?

I mean you dont just move rando's into your house just because they can pay rent and you can fukk on them right?

Is that how you operate, my breh?

So, when you decide to propose to her..

I guess you give her a manila envelope that says 'Marry Me' on it with her lease agreement for her to rip up?

I mean you ARE having your girlfriend sign a lease rental agreement, correct?

Nope. She can move in with me if I think she is a cool person and she can pay rent.
That I'm dating her is just icing on the cake.

Actually if you rent out rooms, after a small background check you do literally rent out the room to random people who can follow the rules and pay rent.

If I would propose to her eventually, I would propose and that would be it. Marriage links us up financially.

You do know that marriage is a legal procedure right?

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Nope. She can move in with me if I think she is a cool person and she can pay rent.
That I'm dating her is just icing on the cake.

Actually if you rent out rooms, after a small background check you do literally rent out the room to random people who can follow the rules and pay rent.

If I would propose to her eventually, I would propose and that would be it. Marriage links us up financially.

You do know that marriage is a legal procedure right?

Breh.

Stay in context.

That not the premise.

He asked her if she wanted to move in and pay $800 as a solution to them being closer together.

If she's paying 1800, I doubt 2k would have broken her.

This is about convenience.

Not that If she needs a room to rent for $800.

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

I didn't deflect from the topic, you have to do that in order to deflect.

My post could hardly be called a ramble seeing how short it is and too the point.

The principle is simple to me, business doesn't stop because you want p*ssy or because you have family and friends involved.

I literally asked the convience store question in the post you quotes.

“I didn’t deflect...you have to do that in order to deflect”
like I said rambling nonsense

Sorry missed the convenience store question... whatever she takes, I already paid some money to acquire with the intent on reselling, so of course I wouldn’t let her come in and take what she wanted at will. How do you think that’s comparable scenario?


Going by the principle I stated before, I’d have no problem letting her pay the price I paid for those items however. Within reason

 

[David_TheMan]

Breh.

Stay in context.

That not the premise.

He asked her if she wanted to move in and pay $800 as a solution to them being closer together.

If she's paying 1800, I doubt 2k would have broken her.

This is about convenience.

Not that If she needs a room to rent for $800.

I answered your question, to ask stay in context after I answered a direct question, shows me you don't really know what questions your asking and probably are confusing yourself.

I addressed your premise and I addressed the initial premise.
If she wants to stay with me pay 800 for rent and split utilities, simple as that.

If she can't handle that, don't take up the offer and continue to pay the high rent she has.

What is hard about what I've said?

“I didn’t deflect...you have to do that in order to deflect”
like I said rambling nonsense

Sorry missed the convenience store question... whatever she takes, I already paid some money to acquire with the intent on reselling, so of course I wouldn’t let her come in and take what she wanted at will. How do you think that’s comparable scenario?


Going by the principle I stated before, I’d have no problem letting her pay the price I paid for those items however. Within reason

Your first line is a perfect example of actual deflection, running away from the topic on a pointless aside. You must not feel confident about the soundness of your position to go this route.

You paid money for the item, the intent shouldn't matter, because you could argue the house you bought when you are a single guy you have the intent to flip it and get a profit when you want to start a family. It would literally be the same as the transaction in the store to buy a item with the intent to sell, just a shorter time frame. Its literally the exact same scenario, but its easier to see what the behavior is on the man who allows it and the woman who performs the using that way, so you reject it .

I see you interject the caveat, within reason now. LOL

 

[FeloniousMonk]

I answered your question, to ask stay in context after I answered a direct question, shows me you don't really know what questions your asking and probably are confusing yourself.

I addressed your premise and I addressed the initial premise.
If she wants to stay with me pay 800 for rent and split utilities, simple as that.

If she can't handle that, don't take up the offer and continue to pay the high rent she has.

What is hard about what I've said?

All my references has been about the meme posted..

What YOU are speaking is in reference to yourself, which the thread isn't about.

We dont know what the foundation of what you are or s/o would be for you to charge her rent in a house that you owned.

In this instance we do.

edit:How do people quote me, then tell ME i dont know know what Im talking about, when not keeping in context with the thread meme?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

The op clearly states that he expects her to pay half of the expenses + $800 rent.

Y'all been arguing about the wrong shyt for six pages.

Not at all.... 800 dollars plus half utilities probably 1100.... She was gonna pay 1980 out the gate, and that doesn’t include utilities... which would be more than what she would pay if she moved in with ol boy... She easily saves a rack a month by moving in with ol boy.., That’s a 12 to 15k come up in just a year..... You’re saying she should get free shelter/amenities just because she’s fukking the owner of the property?

 

[Wiles]

The op clearly states that he expects her to pay half of the expenses + $800 rent.

Y'all been arguing about the wrong shyt for six pages.

So less than 2k ok cool. I would drop the broke bytch

 

[BaldingSoHard]

once again... paid off home has nothing to do with market rate rents... and this is a deal..

the bf/gf thing is confusing alot of people.... if they were strangers you would say jump on it in a heartbeat

Yup.

But they are not strangers.