Charging girlfriend rent on a property you own outright. Who’s right/wrong?
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SadimirPutin
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I can see some dudes in here would be too p*ssy to ask their fiancees for a prenuptial agreement if they too scared to ask for money to cover rent or expenses
Marks love beating their chest about being marks
Marks love beating their chest about being marks
Reminds me of dusty mfers who always trying to get over on someone..
Dealership may charge $1000 for a repair..
You tell a mfer you can do it for $500 and they want to get you down to $375..
But they was ready to pay $1000 at the dealer..
People with this mentality aint, and never will be shyt..
Dealership may charge $1000 for a repair..
You tell a mfer you can do it for $500 and they want to get you down to $375..
But they was ready to pay $1000 at the dealer..
People with this mentality aint, and never will be shyt..
Antwon Mitchell
Banned
Every time I'm reading your comments it sounds like your tense bruh, you keep tryna insult me to hide the fact that it's more than just this whole "rent" topic. It's bigger than that.
Men (all married) in my family believe in taking care of our women and yes they work (not because they have too but cause they wanted too) also and contribute to particular things. That's our formula, maybe in your fam being a man doesn't mean or take much but in mines, we pride ourselves in knowing that our women are good and feel wanted.
I don't have much else to say because I'm not the one sitting here tryna prove something, women have always respected me because I stay true to myself, never had to put on a tough guy act to gain a woman's respect. All my life the way I've handled things have been great, and it's never failed me.
I wish you the best in whatever you are trying to accomplish with this whole HOH, GMB, etc mentality, but all I see is a group of men who're coping from whatever bad experiences they've had with women.
Peace and blessings.
Instinctively, I would not want to reduce my relationship with someone to a transaction. Unfortunately we live in a world where goodwill and generosity will be seen as an expectation when it comes to alimony.
The more she contributes towards her lifestyle is the better it will be for him if the colin lands on tails.
The more she contributes towards her lifestyle is the better it will be for him if the colin lands on tails.
Antwon Mitchell
Banned
Whatever bruh but you and I both know I'm telling the truth.
Reaching hard again, sounding like a sassy enraged female.
Just like women become scorned over time the same can be applied to some of you guys, all im hearing and reading is scorned men finding any reason to hide the fact that, either they don't want a woman in their life (because of bad relationships) or because no woman wants them...
Maybe cause this whole over the top tough guy act doesn't phase them. The difference between me and you is that while you have to subscribe to these internet cliques to feel manly and "on top of the world" I don't have too.
All this GMB/HOH shyt does you no justice except staying womanless, shyt tell me what woman out here is rushing and begging to be with one of you over the top shouting nikkas?
NONE. This is why I said all this shyt is for the hopeless nikkas that already know their fate....a recipe for disaster.
All this yeah we GMB! GMB! HOH-4LYFE etc, shyt is the chant of hopeless dudes just putting on a front.
Peace & blessings, bruh.
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606onit
Superstar
He needs to be MADE WHOLE AGAIN. The house took chunks out of him and her measly little $800 a month is helping repair that damage. Once she gets married to him that will likely stop so she should BE HAPPY to pay.
It does not even need to be personally HANDED TO HIM. Just set your checking account to automatically move $800 from your checking account to his every 1st of the month. $1800 was not hurting you so there ya go.
These types of threads is challenging to me..
When you are a homeowner paying for everything, it can be hard for someone who isn't a homeowner telling you how you should run your household.
If you are a homeowner and want to allow other able bodied adults to live in your house w/o contributing financially, then that is your choice.
But..
That doesn't mean that said decision is the ONLY or best choice for everyone else. I really wish some non homeowners understood the costs associated with homeownership, especially in high cost of living states, counties and cities.
For me, if I allow anyone to live with me, it will be for the benefit of me as well as the person I allow to live with me. I would not allow anyone to live under my roof for free! I don't care who that person is! I am talking about able bodied adults with a job, not disabled people, children or those without a job.
Perhaps homeowners such as myself should only deal with other homeowners on the dating tip, but I know that would severely limit my dating pool.
Nevertheless, people gonna do what they want to do, so if you own some shyt, then you can set the rules on how your shyt is ran. Do what you gotta do! I will do the same....
When you are a homeowner paying for everything, it can be hard for someone who isn't a homeowner telling you how you should run your household.
If you are a homeowner and want to allow other able bodied adults to live in your house w/o contributing financially, then that is your choice.
But..
That doesn't mean that said decision is the ONLY or best choice for everyone else. I really wish some non homeowners understood the costs associated with homeownership, especially in high cost of living states, counties and cities.
For me, if I allow anyone to live with me, it will be for the benefit of me as well as the person I allow to live with me. I would not allow anyone to live under my roof for free! I don't care who that person is! I am talking about able bodied adults with a job, not disabled people, children or those without a job.
Perhaps homeowners such as myself should only deal with other homeowners on the dating tip, but I know that would severely limit my dating pool.
Nevertheless, people gonna do what they want to do, so if you own some shyt, then you can set the rules on how your shyt is ran. Do what you gotta do! I will do the same....
David_TheMan
Banned
Im not tense though, you are projecting though. Also im not insulting you, im just calling you a sime, and lets be real that is what you are.
I believe in taking care of your family as a man. In yhis situation, we arent talking about a marriage or an engagement.
I dont think anyone here is trying to prove anything, what is there to prove. We are voicing or opinions and calling people what they are.
If you a simp be a simp
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
The cognitive dissonance on this issue for women always amazes me. I broke up with my last girl for this exact reason. She refused to pay rent on something I owned. My logic was if we lived together and had a lease we’d still be splitting it 50/50.
On the other hand, my current fiancée (key word) has always been level headed on shyt like this. She actually owns the home we live in but I pay my half of everything, including mortgage and HOA fees. If I bought a house and we lived there we’d split that too. Shouldn’t be any issues going 50/50 if you’re building with someone.
On the other hand, my current fiancée (key word) has always been level headed on shyt like this. She actually owns the home we live in but I pay my half of everything, including mortgage and HOA fees. If I bought a house and we lived there we’d split that too. Shouldn’t be any issues going 50/50 if you’re building with someone.
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People looking at it like dude came up already by not having a mortgage, so why you can't just let this rent thing go. But on the flip side, nobody with principle should feel right about stacking up all that money and not contributing that $800 even if dude were to spend it on bullshyt. You doing the right thing and you'll still be able to stack up for yourself.
Like i said before
The mortgage being paid off in this scenario is big
Rent+half of utilities is a bit much
For those saying you shouldnt charge rent but say pay for utilities...whats really the difference? Id rather charge "rent" and keep the utilities in my name then have her be in control of that. If the costs are around the same then maintain control.
Its just the phrasing that is tripping people up.
Ill give you an example. A girl i was dating offered to pay me to live with me. My mortgage is not fully paid off. She is currently paying 500 to split a 3 br/in law with 3 other people.
I told her she could pay me 500 and have her own room here in case thing went sour and so she could have extra storage space etc. I said i would cover all utilities.
Should she feel insulted that id be charging her "rent"?
Thats nonsense.
She would be moving into a better living situation with the same costs.
Every homeowner has the right (obviously) to offer whatever they want. I personally think the guy in this situation was being a little greedy even though it was a better deal for the woman than she currently has. But if he was concerned they would be break up and wanted that insurance of holding her to pay then he was well within his right to do so. She was well within her right to not agree with his line of thinking as well. He could have sweetened the deal by saying he would open a new account to put it in and if they were to get married she could have access to it as well but know that he was within his rights to spend some of it in the meantime or something
The mortgage being paid off in this scenario is big
Rent+half of utilities is a bit much
For those saying you shouldnt charge rent but say pay for utilities...whats really the difference? Id rather charge "rent" and keep the utilities in my name then have her be in control of that. If the costs are around the same then maintain control.
Its just the phrasing that is tripping people up.
Ill give you an example. A girl i was dating offered to pay me to live with me. My mortgage is not fully paid off. She is currently paying 500 to split a 3 br/in law with 3 other people.
I told her she could pay me 500 and have her own room here in case thing went sour and so she could have extra storage space etc. I said i would cover all utilities.
Should she feel insulted that id be charging her "rent"?
Thats nonsense.
She would be moving into a better living situation with the same costs.
Every homeowner has the right (obviously) to offer whatever they want. I personally think the guy in this situation was being a little greedy even though it was a better deal for the woman than she currently has. But if he was concerned they would be break up and wanted that insurance of holding her to pay then he was well within his right to do so. She was well within her right to not agree with his line of thinking as well. He could have sweetened the deal by saying he would open a new account to put it in and if they were to get married she could have access to it as well but know that he was within his rights to spend some of it in the meantime or something
Mr Hate Coffee
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nah. I’ve seen women still be upset about splitting the mortgage in this situation. “Why should I help you pay down your house? If we break up you’ll still have the house.” Is what I’ve heard.
As if you’re not doing the same thing when you rent from a landlord.
