i was like that in my first marriage and was miserable. i am much happier now submitting to my husband. less of a headache. im not saying its easy to always do, cuz sometimes i dont like my husband being the boss of me, but there is no other place id rather be than with him, happy.
I think most of the time it would be a headache for both parties if the roles were reversed. there's a study that says men doing all the housework usually get divorced. Personally I like a career woman who would voluntarily take time off to rear the kids and more than likely turn to entrepreneurship instead (which is way better than a job anyway). I honestly couldn't be happy if my wife wasn't, that's just how I am.
exactly, its like laying it all out there and to have a successful marriage just follow the guidelines. how simple is it really when you have the blueprint.
Has there been any major social experiments with men and women completely switching traditional gender roles?
There should be one where both genders do it for a year with women doing everything a man is expected to do (socially) and men do vice versa. My theory is that most women would be begging to return to 'normalcy' within six months
Being a robot isn't the same as submitting, you know this. I agree that some cac marriages are like that. The woman's happiness is not taken into account, those are good examples or good marriages tho, because there's no balance there. Some of that has to do with the woman's personality tho. It ain't all cac marriages, it can't be, and we can't really say that for sure since we aren't cacs.
I think most women would have no problem being submissive...the issues are:
1. She has to respect dude. Lets be honest, how many men deserve that much respect? A lot of these cats are just as emotional as women.
2. You gotta be an earner. Why the fukk would a women be submissive to someone who cant pay all the bills, and make sure the fam is good?
3. You dont have to announce "woman you must submit to me!"...shyt happens naturally. Women for the most part dont want to be in control, and she will follow your lead if you show and prove you are worth a damn....but if she senses youre all talk...you can forget about it
Being the leader in the household also doesnt mean you control her every action...she's not your child, shes your wife.
yes sir. dudes in here need to take notice of the KIND of men who are being "submitted to" with ease as well. like attracts like. righteous dude attracts righteous chick 9/10.
Bure is a devout christian along with Candice...despite being a hockey player and having puckbunnies throw p*ssy at him on the daily back in the day.... he's always been know as being an upstanding and loyal dude who puts his family above all. any woman worth her weight in gold would be HONORED to get behind THAT and submit to a man who can exercise such discipline and self control.
i'm about as conservative in my relationship as it gets.my husband barks...... i jump. he runs the home...bills...family ...you name it. as a proudly traditional woman i can say this.... if you dudes in here really think you're gonna run around "smashing" everything in site like y'all like to fantasize about till your 40... wearing being a manwhore as some kind of badge of honor and then suddenly try to lock down a loyal submissive wife that's honored to let you lead you need to think again. most of us won't be checking for you or will already be off the market. you've got to BE what you want to attract. let that marinate for a min.
Speaking of counselling I have a homeboy who caught his wife fukking his best friend at some hotel
as a man that loves his wife , thats how it should be. i like snorting powder but i know my husband dislikes it, so for the happiness of my husband i say i can do without it. thats the way real love goes i feel.
I beleive it... but im not gonna say it's the norm just because it's not rare either. You always here about people who are dissatisfied because they moan and groan. Satisfied people don't make noise they just relish in their satisfaction.
counseling wont help being a dumbass, but i cant really say. if he dont chastise his wife now she will do it again cuz she know he aint gone do shyt.
dude married the wrong kinda woman... he has poor taste and poor decision making skills. counseling won't help that.. .he needs counseling on how to recognize a good partner.
all of these pages spent on a discussion about a woman who admits to being the typical cac wife.
who gives a shyt what this dumb bytch thinks? as if it's a SHOCK that she, like almost every other white female that settles down, submits to the idea that the white man is superior. fukk her and her opinion.
