In other words, a man can teach a woman how to act in order to get and keep a man, but the opposite is not true?
I wonder why you think so.
Candace Cameron Bure Defends Her "Submissive Role" With Husband: "I Want Him to Lead"
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I wonder why you think so.
That would be a good portion of America
Chesirecatdaddy
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I think this happens with a lot of people, but not any less so with men who are also supposed to be considered the most important and better decision makers. Thats where the contention comes in.
I didn't say they were. But the differences you're making the most of are not the ones that have any evidence of biological programming. But I digress, y'all will believe what you want and find a woman who fits that. You know, the one who works as much as you, makes more, does most of the housework most of the time, does all or most of the cooking, all or most of the child rearing, and that lets you make all the decisions at the end of the day. If you find yourself in divorce proceedings though, remember what I told you
I think it's far more likely that I will have a happy marriage because I'm not tryna put up a fight about any old thing. The differences I was making were examples, and you actually have no proof that they cannot be evidence of biological programming. lol A woman making more than I do really means nothing to me as I can fend for myself, I already cited that I'd be glad to share household duties with her and cooking. You're obviously mistaking me for someone else young lady. Seeing as traditional marriages last longer, the stats are in my favor.. Also if I'm marrying the person that I'm looking for... that means we're both looking for it. I think I'll be just fine.
kermit da hustla
Banned
all of these pages spent on a discussion about a woman who admits to being the typical cac wife. 
who gives a shyt what this dumb bytch thinks? as if it's a SHOCK that she, like almost every other white female that settles down, submits to the idea that the white man is superior. fukk her and her opinion.
who gives a shyt what this dumb bytch thinks? as if it's a SHOCK that she, like almost every other white female that settles down, submits to the idea that the white man is superior. fukk her and her opinion.
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
im older than my husband and have more experience but he is just a better decision maker than i am and i am ok with that.I think this happens with a lot of people, but not any less so with men who are also supposed to be considered the most important and better decision makers. Thats where the contention comes in.
I didn't say they were. But the differences you're making the most of are not the ones that have any evidence of biological programming. But I digress, y'all will believe what you want and find a woman who fits that. You know, the one who works as much as you, makes more, does most of the housework most of the time, does all or most of the cooking, all or most of the child rearing, and that lets you make all the decisions at the end of the day. If you find yourself in divorce proceedings though, remember what I told you
i think us getting premarital counseling before we got married helped as well, because we were going into the marriage with both our eyes and our hearts open. i really think that makes a big difference and recommend it for those who are engaged.
Chesirecatdaddy
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duly noted
Mr. Somebody
Friend Of A Friend
She can but its usually knowledge that was passed down to her from a man. Men are the mentors most times because we have more experience.
You really cant fathom the work that men have put in this world with their hands and feet traveling, selling and killing. Men have traversed the world to provide security and safe environments for their women and children who have typically been in controlled environments while men have been out putting in that work. Women historically have not been the explorers, killers and merchants because its not safe for them to operate outside of safe zones that men have built and provided for them. We have more experience.
Its only recently that women are beginning to share some of the same experiences with men as many stigmas subsided that give them the freedom to explore new experiences to the degree of men. Experiences they need to fully understand the needs of the opposite sex, without any advice.
Has there been any major social experiments with men and women completely switching traditional gender roles? 
There should be one where both genders do it for a year with women doing everything a man is expected to do (socially) and men do vice versa. My theory is that most women would be begging to return to 'normalcy' within six months
There should be one where both genders do it for a year with women doing everything a man is expected to do (socially) and men do vice versa. My theory is that most women would be begging to return to 'normalcy' within six months
Chesirecatdaddy
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all of these pages spent on a discussion about a woman who admits to being the typical cac wife.
who gives a shyt what this dumb bytch thinks? as if it's a SHOCK that she, like almost every other white female that settles down, submits to the idea that the white man is superior. fukk her and her opinion.
ur already at -790... i dont think you'll mind if i neg you.
on some real shyt tho... what's her being a cac got to do with anything? The roles and ways that a lot of AA lead their relationships and lives are byproducts of slavery. Unless you're gonna try to hit us with the whole "before cacs we all lived in matriarcies" BS because it aint true... a lot of west africa was also patriarchal.
I dont think you want to know what shes done for Jay z, friend. You cant compete with that.
PartyHeart
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100% agree with that, we're doing ours right now. My parents and his insisted.
Chesirecatdaddy
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LOL this is a great idea if not done already.. I've only seen this in TV shows like the simpsons or some shyt.Has there been any major social experiments with men and women completely switching traditional gender roles?
There should be one where both genders do it for a year with women doing everything a man is expected to do (socially) and men do vice versa. My theory is that most women would be begging to return to normalcy within six months
17 years she must be doing something right
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
and if u look at people you know who are or have been married, the ones who were counseled beforehand lasted longer. at least from the people i know. i gotta homeboy on his 3rd marriage and he always wants to know why shyt dont work out.
kermit da hustla
Banned
almost all of those negs came from just one thread a couple months ago. no biggie. admitting that society is patriarchal is not the same as willingly entering into a subordinate position when getting married. there's no denying that the biological differences between the sexes make men the standard for projections of strength, and there's nothing wrong with that. what she says, however, is that she submits to her husband's will, as if she becomes a robot without thought or feeling now that she's secured a wealthy white man as her husband. her attitude isn't unique, which is my point - it's one that's reflected by millions of married white women in this country.
white women love to play the victim role until they nab a white man, at which point they gladly fall back and start trumpeting how superior their white mate is, which is a microcosmic display of of their internalized feelings about white male superiority in the general sense.