Candace Cameron Bure Defends Her "Submissive Role" With Husband: "I Want Him to Lead"

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I think different things work for different people.
Candace Bure submits to her man and she's happy? That's wonderful for her.

Maybe some people are trying to re-define what submission means, but at the risk of being ridiculed by the macho goons of the site, here are my two cents on this relationship issue...

I'm really not seeking a submissive woman.
At least, not to the degree that a woman submits to a man simply because he's a man.
Men and women should submit to what is right, in my opinion.

I take charge and lead when I feel I am right and when I feel I need to. But I don't personally feel I do it because of my gender. It's a subtle difference maybe.
I don't think I'd be happy if I was with a woman who functioned in our relationship under the terms of "Well you're wrong, but I'll submit and do what you say anyway". I just couldn't respect her as a person.
 

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Submission doesn't mean being a drone to me it means being the comforter and the man being the rock...I'm the follower with some input, but he is the leader...He is the protector and I am the nurturer...Yes I was raised in a two parent home, and my parents are still married....Being submissive in the relationship doesn't mean you lose your power ladies...don't let the word submission be a dirty word lol

What you're describing and what works for two adults living and making decision together should never be referred to as "submission"

I wish women would stop cosign that archaic nonsense of a word.


ding ding ding. we have a winner.
wow, you're an idiot.
 

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What you're describing and what works for two adults living and making decision together should never be referred to as "submission"

I wish women would stop cosign that archaic nonsense of a word.



wow, you're an idiot.
How long have you been living with your girl?
 

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Our upbringing really has a direct influence on our relationships as adults and friends often overlook how the relationships with their parents or lack of effects their relationships with the opposite sex, friend.

If a friend is raised by an overbearing mother that tells him no woman is here to do what he says and he should cook and clean to keep his woman happy and any good woman is independent, like herself often the chances of him like a woman that is submissive will be slim because she goes against what Mamma taught him or what he saw from his mother.

This is a great point. I really think a lot of dudes don't realize exactly how much of a cupcake they really are until they get in the presence of dudes who really do have submissive women. Then they have that :ohhh: moment.

I remember some of my homies would literally be offended by the way some of my exes would treat me. And some just didn't know how to react at the site of a woman, especially a black woman, submitting and catering to her dude.

Homie : "Man, your girl cooks, cleans, does your laundry and even irons your clothes for the week? Man, I don't know about all that. I don't think I could handle a woman doing all that for me."

Me: :patrice:...ummm yea....that's just regular girlfriend stuff. Your girl doesn't do that stuff for you?

Homie: Nah, man...I was always raised to do my own sh#t...mama wasn't playing that after I was like 10. Sh#t, my girl be too busy

Me: :dwillhuh:....and you call that chick your girl....:mjlol:

Peace
 

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A long time.
Why?
You sound broken. She been wearin you down huh.

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Its alright bruh.
 
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