Can you cheat on someone and still love them?

[Music Fiend]

Yeah,

But I couldn't do it and not feel guilty or paranoid if it was easy for me to finesse.

 

[StickStickly]

You trolling with this? You think women in the west are LEAVING men because they CAN and ARE paying the bills?

There are signs and Monogamy is not just a western "cac" concept. There are records of monogamy dating back to Ancient Egypt. It was the norm for many cultures with only some of the very wealthy having multiple wives. Mostly because they could afford to fully provide for multiple women. You have dudes trying to have side chicks that can't even afford to buy her and their main Chick fil a on the same day. FOH.

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yeah people are so uneducated. all of a sudden when they want to get their dikks wet they become cultural anthropologists. they think before or outside the western white judeo christian world men were running around having sex with everyone in the village. they confuse a biological urge with what actually happens/ed.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You trolling with this? You think women in the west are LEAVING men because they CAN and ARE paying the bills?

There are signs and Monogamy is not just a western "cac" concept. There are records of monogamy dating back to Ancient Egypt. It was the norm for many cultures with only some of the very wealthy having multiple wives. Mostly because they could afford to fully provide for multiple women. You have dudes trying to have side chicks that can't even afford to buy her and their main Chick fil a on the same day. FOH.

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You notice how, when a woman cheats men NEED to leave and there's no reason to stay and he's stupid if he stays, but when a man cheats, a woman is tearing apart the family and alienating the father if she leaves. They always want to bring up children and the family when the MAN cheats but when the woman cheats, the man should leave with no questions.

and somehow in their minds men NEVER catch feelings when they cheat but men leave their wives ALL THE TIME for their side chicks and be having full families with their side pieces.

 

[MaxPain]

Women want an Alpha nikka but don't want the territory that comes with it @Hennessypapi

They want a nikka who has unlimited stamina, money and hard toned physique but not the promiscuity that comes along with higher T levels.

They complain about low ambition Males and nikkas who don't "handle their biz".

They just want it all.

Well really they dont know what they want.


Thats why its our job to tell them. They get a faithful dude and wonder why there not "attracted" to him. Attraction dont always make sense cuz if it did, faithful stable dudes would be in demand but there not. They wont admit it tho


Theres literally no reason as a man with options to stay completely faithful to a woman. Every successful relationship i seen was the woman chasing the man. The ones where I seen the dude chasing the woman she always left him. Most cant keep multiple dikks on the side and still satisfy their man 100% in and out the bedroom + handle their womanly duties. They start cheating and fukking everything up. All the guys I know who cheat on the side are discreet and make sure everyones happy. Men and woman are not the same .


Salute since i cant rep u rn

 

[StickStickly]

Men usually don't initiate divorce and say "I love the other Woman and this can't work".

70% of divorces initiated by Women (mostly CACs though because we don't get married).

The difference is Women can't separate attachment from sex. A plumber is just a plumber unless he states himself otherwise. Just because I clean some other bytch pipes out don't mean I am going to provide her with other goods and services.

what does the divorce stat have to do with cheating and love? that stat doesn't reflect why people divorce.

Consider this, unless men are cheating with other men, then by your definition they are cheating with women and women cannot separate sex from attachment. So by cheating you're opening yourself up to another woman's emotions and are jeopardizing your current relationship especially if you wind up liking one of the girls better than your current. It's not a matter of IF it will happen, it's when, especially if you're a serial cheater. There is no such thing as a soul mate, so if you are constantly searching for other women, you will find one you eventually prefer.

AND if you cheat, there's a portion of you that is okay with the relationship ending if your girl finds out. There are lots of risks, children, disease, the side calling or face booking your girl, the neighborhood telling her what's up. If you serially cheat, a part of you CAN'T care if that happens. People who don't want something to happen avoid it.

 

[010101]

love is a verb and some men are more capable than others
care for as many women as you can love as many women as you can
love is not attachment dependency or that emotional disney bullshyt sold to fools

its crazy how they try and create guilt in folk just so they can make a virtue out of being taken advantage of

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[010101]

everybody in here jumped straight to talking bout who fukking on who jajajahahaa
love is not always expressed through sex so is this about love or sex¿
and men/women have to take into account their differences in biology when tryna play it tit4tat

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[Poitier]

Polygamy occurs when there is a skewed ratio of women to men. For example, West African societies were largely monogamous until the slave trade when the gender ratio was disrupted due to the large volume of slaves being male.

At the individual level, some men/women are wired towards monogamy and some are wired towards polygamy.

I do know if you are ugly as fukk like many on here then you are probably better being #teamcuff.

 

[Poitier]

love is a verb

love can be a verb but it is definitely a noun with different definitions
there are different types of love

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

Men leave their wives for other women every day. Men even have their wives killed to be with other women You seem to think that men just cheat and nothing else happens, they don't get or give stds, they don't have outside children, they don't leave their wives, the other woman doesn't come around causing problems. yet i'm the one living a fantasy.

On the same token there are Women who leave Men and take Alimony because clearly it was the money that was all that mattered. The man dipped out once and fukked a temporary side piece chicken wing because for whatever reason and her psych bullshyt she was not giving up the goods on the regular.

What could have been handled by a sex or marriage counselor she blows it way out of proportion - Relatives, Bosses, Friends all say he was a good responsible dude no major issues.

But because he got fed up and gave into nature he needs to lose everything.

Other nikkas see this at a young age and say "Why Bother". Then yall use this as ammunition on why not to date a so-called "Nice guy" might as well get me a nikka that do dirty outright then just complain "All Men ain't shyt".

Instead if you just understood male biology and accepted it none of this would be a problem.

There is a simple criteria plain as day for REAL "cheating" if your Man is sleeping over having pillow talk with a Woman I could see you getting heated.

But you should not be advocating Women leave responsible providers upholding what is left in our community because he wanted some buttcheeks of a different variety on the side.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

These threads always turn into scumbag evaluation tests

 

[010101]

love me and i'll love you
build me up mentally and physically share all your joys and pleasures with me
and imma do the same for you

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[010101]

love can be a verb but it is definitely a noun with different definitions
there are different types of love

yeah i ain't with that hold a broad love that handcuffing beefing over bs love
muahahahahaa

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[Hard Times Nakamura]

what does the divorce stat have to do with cheating and love? that stat doesn't reflect why people divorce.

Consider this, unless men are cheating with other men, then by your definition they are cheating with women and women cannot separate sex from attachment. So by cheating you're opening yourself up to another woman's emotions and are jeopardizing your current relationship especially if you wind up liking one of the girls better than your current. It's not a matter of IF it will happen, it's when, especially if you're a serial cheater. There is no such thing as a soul mate, so if you are constantly searching for other women, you will find one you eventually prefer.

AND if you cheat, there's a portion of you that is okay with the relationship ending if your girl finds out. There are lots of risks, children, disease, the side calling or face booking your girl, the neighborhood telling her what's up. If you serially cheat, a part of you CAN'T care if that happens. People who don't want something to happen avoid it.

Be clear and establish guidelines and if the side piece steps out of pocket drop her.

This is why many Men in my Grandfather's generation had their side ho in the next state. Sometimes she wasn't a side but an "addendum" which is a step up. They often had kids with them and sent some money every month.

Don't give side pieces your government info or detailed information. If a Woman is attracted to a married or taken Man (most Women are, and their actions prove it) then the onus is upon her to navigate that without catching feelings.

But there are rail guards in place to prevent it on the Man's end. But it's much harder than in pre-Social media times.

All you can do is focus on one night stands and make sure she's at least one state away which typically cause less complications. But in a more polygamous friendly society all this running around wouldn't be necessary.

Most times the Main doesn't even care if you earn enough money she only cares when the side starts coming around demanding Main privileges.

Also yall keep saying risk children, disease and telling the neighborhood. Well my steps above address that in obvious addition to using a condom everytime - Now what is the problem?

 

[010101]

i can't cuff a broad so i can't cheat*