Can you cheat on someone and still love them?

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um I grew up with my father and my father is the one that told me to never stay with a man that cheats on me. You cannot love and respect a woman and make her look stupid, give her stds, ignore her to fukk other women, and have children with other women behind her back. I swear you men will say anything to make women accept bad treatment from men. Now a woman didn't grow up with a father if she doesn't accept being treated like shyt by a man. smh. If you want to be a lying piece of shyt, then do that but don't try to spin it make the people that don't want to feel like shyt for the rest of their lives feel bad about it.

I feel bad for your future daughters, I can't imagine having a father that teaches you that a man that betrays you and puts you at risk for diseases is a man that loves you.

That's nice but the exception doesn't make the rule. Thanks for the petty neg btw instead of just accepting we all have different realities.

Men have always "cheated" your Father is just a low Testosterone male (as @Hennessypapi accurately points out) that is content and only has the libido for one Woman.

My grandfather was a playboy and had 2 families but make sure everyone was fed. None of his children went without or were on the streets or relying on the White man for welfare.

"Lies" are subjective and I know this is like talking to a brick wall but it's for the education for brehs. Yall American women love to be lied to and hate when we tell the truth. This is why nikkas keep lying because you dump Men who tell the truth.

Integrity takes a back seat to fantasy and you in particular seem to have a fantasy mindset because you are spoiled princess waiting for her 6 feet, 6 abs, 6 certs, etc etc Shining nikka to arrive. Apparently your Man ain't good enough you always idealizing about the perfect God like Man that never gets a hard on when looking at other Women - But then again you probably chose a low libido nikka just like your Father who won't have that life force to begin with anyways to wander. As a natural Man should.

Biology will trump your arbitrary morals everyday - Just because your Man is content with you and your Father was content with your Momma don't mean shyt in the aggregate sum of things.

And a nikka can creep for years and never have any baby or disease brought home if a condom is used and adequate screening occurs. So stop it.
 

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what about people in open relationships? are we just discussing the act of 'cheating or lying' or the act of having sex with someone else?

if my bytch fukks another nikka it is what it is just dont start putting that nikka before what we been had and dont be disrespectful about it as in making it obvious by texts phone calls etc when im around...keep it discrete and it wont never get to me because i dont go digging for dirt like bytches do....it will only catch my attention once her attitude changes towards me....this is why its harder for women to do because once a nikka gets in they womb they get feelings only the elite ones can fukk like we fukk with no attachment...and by elite i mean a bytch who isnt all brainwashed by disney cinderella stories...

now men we can fukk on some side p*ssy who we know we not leaving our girl for she just sucks dikk better and is something different to keep you from getting bored with your bytch...once the side piece gets strong feelings to the point shes making it hard to be with her and hold your bytch down thats when you cut it off....once again not every nikka can just do this takes someone elite

This is how i feel. we're human, we're going to find more than one person attractive. love means different things to different people. some people show love by giving their partner a little freedom.
 

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Theirs a reason why women who cheat end up confessing and men who cheat either get caught or dont get caught. Its just a nut.
Do they though?

There have been polls showing men and women admit similar levels of cheating which surprised researchers because prior to that it was assumed women cheating was more rare than men.
 

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Back when I was a cheater, I would have said yes.

Now that I'm older, obviously, no.

Love is about selflessness. Cheating is about selfishness. The two are polar opposites.

Or to put it more plainly, if there was an equivalent action to 'cheating' on your children, do you think it would be as prevalent as cheating on your spouse?

I don't think so.
 

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Brehs if she is born without a Father in her life you gotta make her believe she the only one.

When she comes from a traditional family she knows the deal. Daddy did his thing but was always home every night to tuck her in bed.

Daddy has his needs and she grew up understanding that Men have different needs but can still love, respect and care for Women. Bills are still paid and Mommy is still getting her guts busted on the regular so what's the problem?
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That's funny because I know women who had their fathers and they were the men you described above and they hate that about their father.

Keep dreaming dumb nikka. No women is going around thanking a man for cheating on her...no women. And if she says she understands it's due to lack of self esteem. Even a man who's cheating wouldn't respect a woman who "understood" his bullshyt.

Nobody likes doormats.
 

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That's nice but the exception doesn't make the rule. Thanks for the petty neg btw instead of just accepting we all have different realities.

Men have always "cheated" your Father is just a low Testosterone male (as @Hennessypapi accurately points out) that is content and only has the libido for one Woman.

My mother and father aren't together. I was raised by my father.

My grandfather was a playboy and had 2 families but make sure everyone was fed. None of his children went without or were on the streets or relying on the White man for welfare.

"Lies" are subjective and I know this is like talking to a brick wall but it's for the education for brehs. Yall American women love to be lied to and hate when we tell the truth. This is why nikkas keep lying because you dump Men who tell the truth.

I'd rather not be lied to, leaving someone for telling you that they're going to play with you, make you look stupid, treat you badly, and possibly give you stds doesn't mean you want to be lied to.

Integrity takes a back seat to fantasy and you in particular seem to have a fantasy mindset because you are spoiled princess waiting for her 6 feet, 6 abs, 6 certs, etc etc Shining nikka to arrive. Apparently your Man ain't good enough you always idealizing about the perfect God like Man that never gets a hard on when looking at other Women - But then again you probably chose a low libido nikka just like your Father who won't have that life force to begin with anyways to wander. As a natural Man should.

Clearly you know nothing about me. I'm not idealizing about anything, I've also never said my husband would never cheat, I just said I would leave when he does. I've gotten shyt for saying "when" my marriage ends instead of saying "if". I know men cheat, that doesn't mean I should be okay with it. I know that sex is the most important thing to men and they would never choose their wives over the chance to sleep with a new woman, that doesn't mean I should stick around.

Biology will trump your arbitrary morals everyday - Just because your Man is content with you and your Father was content with your Momma don't mean shyt in the aggregate sum of things.

And a nikka can creep for years and never have any baby or disease brought home if a condom is used and adequate screening occurs. So stop it.

In your perfect cheating world no one has outside children, no one passes on stds because they use condoms but in the real world, most cheaters don't use condoms, people have outside children, and the women that stay have the highest chances of ending up with an std because their men are so careless.

You're trying so hard to make it seem like I'm living in a fantasy world for not wanting to stay with someone that cheats that you're making up things, I've never said that my husband doesn't cheat or won't cheat, I don't know if he has or will. All I can say is that I am going to leave him when I find out. I've also never said that my father didn't cheat. You seem to be the one living in a fantasy world. I know TONS of women that stay with men that cheat and from the looks of it, it's not worth it. The drama from other women, the diseases, being laughed at by the women their husbands are spending their time with instead of being with them. Seeing the husband's phone ring and he jumps up to answer it but when she calls and he's with another women, he ignores it and having those women throw it in her face. Sounds like a great life.
 
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I cant rep u rn but this about sums it up:yeshrug:


Oddly enough staying faithful doesnt guarentee a good woman. Alot of women respect it when a man can attract other women.

Just ignore that @Matt504 dude. Hes a male feminist troll with low testosterone levels and an inverted penis. Its never a womans fault wit clowns like that.

I think he's trolling a little but you absolutely right.

Most Men who are strictly faithful have a hard time keeping a Woman in America because it's too boring.

To keep a Woman long term you gotta be in obvious demand. They will prefer a dude ultimately that other Women are trying to get at.

Whether they admit this or not. (In most cases they won't).
 
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That's funny because I know women who had their fathers and they were the men you described above and they hate that about their father.

Keep dreaming dumb nikka. No women is going around thanking a man for cheating on her...no women. And if she says she understands it's due to lack of self esteem. Even a man who's cheating wouldn't respect a woman who "understood" his bullshyt.

Nobody likes doormats.

Yeah yall are a new generation who weren't taught about basic Male biology.

Good luck holding down a man long term without issues unless that dude has low Testosterone and is submissive.
 
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Women want an Alpha nikka but don't want the territory that comes with it @Hennessypapi

They want a nikka who has unlimited stamina, money and hard toned physique but not the promiscuity that comes along with higher T levels.

They complain about low ambition Males and nikkas who don't "handle their biz".
 

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If your bytch was fukkin other nikkaz, does she really love you?
Look man I already spoke on my own personal situation in this thread so no that wouldn't happen to me. But we got to be honest about this and stop thing on a pure surface level. You can't honestly expect to be with somebody 20+ year and just that person. That's not how humans work naturally just hope they got to someone that respect you enough for you not to find out. And that's just being realistic
 
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