Can you cheat on someone and still love them?

[Poitier]

Why is it the ugliest nikkas on this site whom Im sure cant pull even an average broad are always the ones talking bout "monogamy isnt natural"

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Look man I already spoke on my own personal situation in this thread so no that wouldn't happen to me. But we got to be honest about this and stop thing on a pure surface level. You can't honestly expect to be with somebody 20+ year and just that person. That's not how humans work naturally just hope they got to someone that respect you enough for you not to find out. And that's just being realistic

nikka I asked you one VERY simple question

 

[K.Dot]

No

 

[Raava]

That's not the point I'm tryna make. I'm saying this line of thinking that if you love someone you can never hurt them and if you do then you don't love them doesn't make much sense.

The point is tho, that it’s all wrong. The point is when you love someone you don't go out your way to, continuously or repeatedly do things to hurt them. Who is saying you can never hurt someone you love? Those are the people you hurt most. The thing is, if you are decent thats not your goal, its not intentional, you are always trying not to hurt them. You respect them. Comparing children who are mostly and innocently self-centered and learning, to an adult that knows better? Really? Then, what happens if a child disobeys? Consequences.

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

The point is tho, that it’s all wrong. The point is when you love someone you don't go out your way to, continuously or repeatedly do things to hurt them. Who is saying you can never hurt someone you love? Those are the people you hurt most. The thing is, if you are decent thats not your goal, its not intentional, you are always trying not to hurt them. You respect them. Comparing children who are mostly and innocently self-centered and learning, to an adult that knows better? Really? Then, what happens if a child disobeys? Consequences.

Embracing this CAC Westernized concept of "Love" is one of the worst most delusional self-destructive things we could have done as a people.

You don't see African peoples subscribing to this bullshyt. You don't think Nigerian brehs with multiple wives love each and every one of them equally? And are they to be viewed as sub-human?

We are ridiculous this is why the African diaspora in America is failing. We think we can live and behave like CACs and embrace their family structure. Wake up.

Most CACs have adapted in cold climates their libido is suppressed they have naturally lower T than us and you think that we can have the same lifestyle, marital and courtship practices.

This is like taking a fukking panther and telling it to survive in the Antarctic while managing to continue the same diet, behaviors and appearance it had when in the lush jungle. I'm so tired of yall today it's not even funny.

 

[Raava]

Embracing this CAC Westernized concept of "Love" is one of the worst most delusional self-destructive things we could have done as a people.

You don't see African peoples subscribing to this bullshyt. You don't think Nigerian brehs with multiple wives love each and every one of them equally? And are they to be viewed as sub-human?

We are ridiculous this is why the African diaspora in America is failing. We think we can live and behave like CACs and embrace their family structure. Wake up.

Most CACs have adapted in cold climates their libido is suppressed they have naturally lower T than us and you think that we can have the same lifestyle, marital and courtship practices.

This is like taking a fukking panther and telling it to survive in the Antarctic while managing to continue the same diet, behaviors and appearance it had when in the lush jungle. I'm so tired of yall today it's not even funny.

 

[Goodbye World]

Men can do it, yes.

True. Females need to feel something for someone usually to have sex.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Embracing this CAC Westernized concept of "Love" is one of the worst most delusional self-destructive things we could have done as a people.

You don't see African peoples subscribing to this bullshyt. You don't think Nigerian brehs with multiple wives love each and every one of them equally? And are they to be viewed as sub-human?

We are ridiculous this is why the African diaspora in America is failing. We think we can live and behave like CACs and embrace their family structure. Wake up.

Most CACs have adapted in cold climates their libido is suppressed they have naturally lower T than us and you think that we can have the same lifestyle, marital and courtship practices.

This is like taking a fukking panther and telling it to survive in the Antarctic while managing to continue the same diet, behaviors and appearance it had when in the lush jungle. I'm so tired of yall today it's not even funny.

The fukkin Coli

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

Laugh all you want 72% of our Mothers alienated the Father in this country because in part of this.

Something that African Women would never leave a Man for as long as the bills are paid he is still cleaning her pipes and helping somewhat around the house when he's not working.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Do they though?

There have been polls showing men and women admit similar levels of cheating which surprised researchers because prior to that it was assumed women cheating was more rare than men.

It always bullshyt reasons why women cheat tho or the relationship was never genuine from her side

 

[StickStickly]

So its settled then...
Once and for all...
Glad we can finally put this to rest...

You know damn well this thread will pop up again in 173 hours

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

It always bullshyt reasons why women cheat tho or the relationship was never genuine from her side

Men usually don't initiate divorce and say "I love the other Woman and this can't work".

70% of divorces initiated by Women (mostly CACs though because we don't get married).

The difference is Women can't separate attachment from sex. A plumber is just a plumber unless he states himself otherwise. Just because I clean some other bytch pipes out don't mean I am going to provide her with other goods and services.

 

[Guru]

You might think you can, you definitely don't respect them. Lying, being deceitful, betraying trust, hurting them etc...What love is in that?

I don't think a person can constantly cheat on someone and love them.

WRONG!

 

[Ashley Banks]

Men usually don't initiate divorce and say "I love the other Woman and this can't work".

70% of divorces initiated by Women (mostly CACs though because we don't get married).

The difference is Women can't separate attachment from sex. A plumber is just a plumber unless he states himself otherwise. Just because I clean some other bytch pipes out don't mean I am going to provide her with other goods and services.

Men leave their wives for other women every day. Men even have their wives killed to be with other women You seem to think that men just cheat and nothing else happens, they don't get or give stds, they don't have outside children, they don't leave their wives, the other woman doesn't come around causing problems. yet i'm the one living a fantasy.

 

[Raava]

Laugh all you want 72% of our Mothers alienated the Father in this country because in part of this.

Something that African Women would never leave a Man for as long as the bills are paid he is still cleaning her pipes and helping somewhat around the house when he's not working.

You trolling with this? You think women in the west are LEAVING men because they CAN and ARE paying the bills?

Monogamy is not just a western "cac" concept. There are records of monogamy dating back to Ancient Egypt. It was the norm for many cultures with only some of the very wealthy having multiple wives. Mostly because they could afford to fully provide for multiple women. You have dudes trying to have side chicks that can't even afford to buy her and their main Chick fil a on the same day. FOH.

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