Can you cheat on someone and still love them?

[BlackDynamite310]

Female love is not monog either.

I cheat on my bf all of the time, but I still love him.


I agree. I love my bf so much more after I started cheating on him. It was the best thing that ever happened to our relationship.



I agree. Just bc I like fcking and flirting with other men doesn'tmean that I love my bf any less.

& you're right. People can love 2 people at the same time. I love my bf and one of the guys I'm cheating with.


Women can too. I do it all of the time.


Yeah, I love my bf. He is a great person and funds my lifestyle. Sex is fine as well. I am commited to him, but sometimes I like to fck more urban males every now and then, other times I prefer guys who are more square. Depends on what mood I'm in that day. I still love my bf though.



It is just a nut to me as well when I do it. I don't have to like the guy, he just has to be tall brown and attractive. Money helps as well.

I do it and it doesn't weigh on my mind at all. I love my bf and don't feel guilty about cheating on him, at all.



Same for me when I cheat on my bf. Glad that you guys get my feelings about this so well. Most people don't.



Ok! I do it to my bf everyday as well. Still together and he is still in love with me. We are 5 years strong. He just bought us a house too. Next is marraige. He won.



Same. I don't care for any of the guys I cheat with. I only love my bf.



I am a woman and I am not hypergamous either. I am drawn to the physical and cash. I cheat on my bf, but always come back to him. That's true love



Romantic love and the love you have for your parents is not the same. Proof is that you don't fck your parents, and have no desire to do so. It is not the same.

Don't care if your being sarcastic or not but Im glad your living your truth and the lifestyle is working for you.

 

[Giselle]

I know quite a few amazing women that have side pieces. They say they love their husbands/bfs/fiances but the guys aren't what they want sexually so they get that outside of the relationship and don't let it ruin the relationships with their men.

I am an amazing woman and I love my bf. He is what I want sexually sometimes. He has an ok sized peen (7 inches) but my side male's dcks are usually around the same size or bigger with better girth. His stroke is ok, but I like variety. Plust my bf is under 6ft, so there is a lot of attraction missing. My side guys are usually taller, so they usually look better than me and I am usually more arosed by them. I still love my bf though and never left him.

To be honest. If my bf was over 6ft + like I like them, then I probably wouldn't cheat on him so much. I love him because he loves me and pays for everything, I'm spoiled. If he ever went broke, I'd probably leave him. If he was taller (and less clueless), he'd be perfect and he could have me all to himself like he thinks he does.

Don't care if your being sarcastic or not but Im glad your living your truth and the lifestyle is working for you.

Sarcastic? This is what is wrong with you guys. This is how I've been getting away with cheating on my bf for so long and with so many men. You all never believe that things like this could happen. You all are so into this idea that "women would/could never do this or that" so you miss all of the red flags. This benefits me though, so I'm kinda glad you all do it. Been cheating for 5+ years now and never got caught. I don't love those guys, only my bf. We're still together and so in love and it's all thanks to me cheating on him. I probably would've left if I hadn't.

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

You trolling with this? You think women in the west are LEAVING men because they CAN and ARE paying the bills?

Monogamy is not just a western "cac" concept. There are records of monogamy dating back to Ancient Egypt. It was the norm for many cultures with only some of the very wealthy having multiple wives. Mostly because they could afford to fully provide for multiple women. You have dudes trying to have side chicks that can't even afford to buy her and their main Chick fil a on the same day. FOH.

Edit:

Men talking bout side families and complaining bout child support a few breaths later.

You nikkas ether yourselves.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I am an amazing woman and I love my bf. He is what I want sexually sometimes. He has an ok sized peen (7 inches) but my side male's dcks are usually around the same size or bigger with better girth. His stroke is ok, but I like variety. Plust my bf is under 6ft, so there is a lot of attraction missing. My side guys are usually taller, so they usually look better than me and I am usually more arosed by them. I still love my bf though and never left him.

To be honest. If my bf was over 6ft + like I like them, then I probably wouldn't cheat on him so much. I love him because he loves me and pays for everything, I'm spoiled. If he ever went broke, I'd probably leave him. If he was taller (and less clueless), he'd be perfect and he could have me all to himself like he thinks he does.

 

[DjBhaled]

Become a cuck brehs

Marry thotties in 2017 brehs

Cheat on your man and feel no guilt brehhetes

Not be sexually attracted to your man but still stay in the relationship brehhetes

Pay off a bytch student loans brehs

So many low key ethers in one thread

 

[Draje]

Shut up, bytch ass nikka.
Every time.
Let the Women speak for themselves, fakkit.

Suck my dikk, you whiny crybaby bytch.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Suck my dikk, you whiny crybaby bytch.

How you offering another man your dikk online, soft nikka?

 

[Draje]

Become a cuck brehs

Marry thotties in 2017 brehs

Cheat on your man and feel no guilt brehhetes

Not be sexually attracted to your man but still stay in the relationship brehhetes

Pay off a bytch student loans brehs

So many low key ethers in one thread

Did you not see the dudes all saying it's ok and acceptable for them to cheat?

 

[Draje]

How you offering another man your dikk online, soft nikka?

Because you cry and whine like a feminine bytch so that's how I'm gonna treat you, bytch

 

[DjBhaled]

Did you not see the dudes all saying it's ok and acceptable for them to cheat?

Yeah that makes it acceptable because a cuck said it

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

@Draje

You soft as shyt and I'd slide you, p*ssy nikka.
Your mama a dumb bytch, your pops a fakkit, and all your sisters some whores, even if you have no sisters.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Because you cry and whine like a feminine bytch so that's how I'm gonna treat you, bytch

fakkit nikka imagines a woman when he sees a man's picture.
It's a hate crime to kill fakkits, sadly.

 

[Draje]

@Draje

You soft as shyt and I'd slide you, p*ssy nikka.
Your mama a dumb bytch, your pops a fakkit, and all your sisters some whores, even if you have no sisters.

Your mom should have finished the fukking abortion instead of trying to drown you in hard liquor and cigs. Your p*ssy pops passed down his p*ssy emotional ovaries into you, crybaby.

 

[Draje]

fakkit nikka imagines a woman when he sees a man's picture.
It's a hate crime to kill fakkits, sadly.

Yeah but you can kill yourself. It'd make your druggie whore momma so much happier if you just drunk a bottle of bleach

 

[StickStickly]

On the same token there are Women who leave Men and take Alimony because clearly it was the money that was all that mattered. The man dipped out once and fukked a temporary side piece chicken wing because for whatever reason and her psych bullshyt she was not giving up the goods on the regular.

What could have been handled by a sex or marriage counselor she blows it way out of proportion - Relatives, Bosses, Friends all say he was a good responsible dude no major issues.

But because he got fed up and gave into nature he needs to lose everything.

Other nikkas see this at a young age and say "Why Bother". Then yall use this as ammunition on why not to date a so-called "Nice guy" might as well get me a nikka that do dirty outright then just complain "All Men ain't shyt".

Instead if you just understood male biology and accepted it none of this would be a problem.

There is a simple criteria plain as day for REAL "cheating" if your Man is sleeping over having pillow talk with a Woman I could see you getting heated.

But you should not be advocating Women leave responsible providers upholding what is left in our community because he wanted some buttcheeks of a different variety on the side.

so how does one prove their man only cheated for sex? men cheat for multiple reasons , a major one being resentment of the spouse. so how do women know for sure? also does the reason say the same over time? probably not. at first maybe it was a new woman's body then it becomes because the new woman likes certain activities and the wife does not or does not have the time etc. cheating is never one dimensional. men keep trying to fool women into thinking they're robots to everyone except one of them? come on.

also PLEASE STOP with that biology bs. according to infidelity facts.org, men and women desire to cheat as much as one another. women crave different men according to their ovulation cycle.

the only reason why people argue that they as an individual can cheat and another person cannot is because they know if the other person cheated their feelings will be hurt. but to trying to make women "bad" or "dumb" for having NATURAL emotions (that predate fukking disney movies) which men AGREE they would have themselves if their wives or main chicks cheat is transparent af.