can/will you forgive your s/o if they cheated?

[Atlrocafella]

Forgive? Yes. But I wouldn't forget nor could I trust him again.

Than you really haven't forgiven him.

 

[franknitty711]

Hard to say. I think I would chalk my wifey if she ever cheated on me.

I had a ball in my 20's and pretty much got all that out of my system so staying faithful is easy when you already did the damn thing with hella females.

 

[Rawtid]

Than you really haven't forgiven him.

How do you figure?

 

[Ashley Banks]

did he tell you why he did it

He said the lady was good looking and he wasn't thinking beyond what he wanted at the moment

 

[Splash]

Hell to that naw, to the naw naw nawwww

 

[David_TheMan]

I can't and wouldn't forgive someone for cheating on me, mainly because cheating isn't a passive mistake, and second I would never trust them again

 

[Piff Perkins]

I was forgiven but if wifey cheat on me..

this double standard is so stupid and highlights how many dudes just treat women like objects. You're an adult, you should be held to similar standards of decency. If cheating is off limits for her it should be off limits for you.

Personally I wouldn't forgive, I'd move on. Few things are worse than prolonging a dead relationship. You might not know it's dead, but if he/she cheated it's gonna come up again and again. It's a mental thing.

 

[Black Cobain]

Fool me once, shame on you - fool me twice, shame on me.

I wouldn't forgive em, I'm not gonna get shamed.

 

[Matt504]

No, under no circumstances would I forgive or forget. Even if I tried, my desire for revenge would be too great.

 

[Wiles]

this double standard is so stupid and highlights how many dudes just treat women like objects. You're an adult, you should be held to similar standards of decency. If cheating is off limits for her it should be off limits for you.

Personally I wouldn't forgive, I'd move on. Few things are worse than prolonging a dead relationship. You might not know it's dead, but if he/she cheated it's gonna come up again and again. It's a mental thing.

 

[Aphrodite]

No.

 

[DaPresident]

I never understod this go to line. "I wish them the best and all the happiness".

It just sounds so fake and PC. I really dont believe ppl ever forgive others to the point of wanting to see them happy, if they do, it's like "as long as they aren't happier than me"

I dont think I'll ever forgive the one who cheated on me.

LOL I can dig it...

Happiness is a personal thing. You really can't measure it. But I feel where you coming from


That's why I didn't say I wish them the best, because honestly, I don't...

I just wish them happiness, because everyone deserves some happiness...now, what qualifies as "happiness" that's for you to decide...

 

[Diondon]

No, under no circumstances would I forgive or forget. Even if I tried, my desire for revenge would be too great.

What kind of revenge, Matt?

 

[Born2BKing]

Mann I was finna say you can't just have ambition you got have a vision to... lol. Why did you get rid of her ?

She dumped me a few months later because she thought I was cheating.

 

[FBGPlank]

nope, not with that cuck shyt