Brehs who are single, never married and over 35.....................

[T. Dubb Ya]

I'll be 42 next month, not married and no kids.. Just working, gettin my p4p on(trickin lol) and doing my thing.. Still not sure if i want to bring kids into this world and get married.. I grew up in a African houshold and the pressure from relatives is real smh.

 

[LezJepzin]

I see myself settling down in a couple of years. I'll be 41 this Summer but I feel like I'm in my twenties. Always been dating younger , like ten years my senior or more .

Had a lot of opportunities go sour but I'm happy where my life is. I can't imagine how things would look like if I did settle down already.

 

[Da_Eggman]

I feel like the best plan is save work and stay on the best shape and no longer worry about anything else

 

[The ADD]

As opposed to what?

I feel like the best plan is save work and stay on the best shape and no longer worry about anything else

 

[cyndaquil]

I'm not a high value man

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Gonna be 38 this summer. Whatever happens happens.

 

[RareAirBorne]

Not 35 yet but close and never married with no kids. I've had a few serious relationships that, looking back, I really did the right thing by getting out and probably should've done it sooner, if anything.

On the other hand, I wish I was more active earlier on casting a wide net of which to pick from because as I get older, I'm finding less and less ways to interact with quality women my age (and I'm highly eligible). It also doesn't help that I saw a little success in my career so now I can't even look at marriage as anything other than a business decision.

I do want kids though and I don't want to be alone 60+ but I've really enjoyed not having to deal with the logistics of supporting a family and I honestly don't have anything but bad examples to reference from in my life except my parents (sounds biased, I know, and I wish it wasn't the case but it is what it is)

 

[Lootha VanDraws]

42. Never married, no kids, no serious relationships even.
I think I'm a good dude, but I know that's not nearly enough.
I've always wanted to be married and have kids, so I'm sad that hasn't happened, but
also glad, as I feel I would only fukk it all up.

 

[The ADD]

42. Never married, no kids, no serious relationships even.
I think I'm a good dude, but I know that's not nearly enough.
I've always wanted to be married and have kids, so I'm sad that hasn't happened, but
also glad, as I feel I would only fukk it all up.

Why do you say you will fukk it up?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

If you keep your shyt tight as a man, the game just start getting good at 40

 

[Da_Eggman]

As opposed to what?

Being focus on tying to find someone

 

[The ADD]

Being focus on tying to find someone

Both are generally achievable at the same time. Odd narrative here sometimes that you can’t make money and improve yourself and date women at the same time. Talking generally but if you can’t do both then you should ask yourself why.

I’ll be edit “focus” to be “open/available”

 

[360dagod]

Yall nikkas trying to have kids after 40 better be doing some cardio

Them kids gonna have yall nikkas in trouble

 

[Easy-E]

What does Peter pan gang allude to ?

Women can grow old, alone and live with cats, but, if a man isn't responsible and hitch with a family, he's a grown child

 

[semicko82]

I’ve never been married. I’m not opposed to marriage. I’m also not opposed to visiting Alaska; but I still likely will never do it.

Life goes how it’s supposed to go. nikkas be out here trying to look for fulfillment and shyt. Stop trying to be fulfilled, that shyt gay. fukk these hoes and live your life.

Real shyt