Brehs who are single, never married and over 35.....................

StretfordRed

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1 child with an overdue mother
Married (7 years together, and I’ve never cheated)

I will be honest, besides the cash flow issue over the next year with the Mrs in maternity leave, it’s great Of course there are bad times, wife doing dumb shyt around the house that drives me mad, or my kid throwing stuff/or having tantrums.

But when I hit 40, I’m not actually going out partying with my boys, I’m going abroad and chilling with my family, I love being around them.

It’s not for everyone though, I think of life with an older kid or none, no wife or neither and I’d be flush with money, nice flat (apartment) but no guarantee I’d have the ability to keep a long term relationship or the energy to keep looking for a woman.
 
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The ADD

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Update: Dating is trash and I should've just stuck with my ex.

We are still good friends but she is in a relationship that I convinced her to give a shot and the women I've been meeting really think they are God's gift and have been influenced heavy by social media

My ex never considered d herself a dime or anything like that but she's a great person that took accountability when she was wrong and knew how to have a civil conversation when we had disagreements

I really can't believe how bad it is out here😂 but I'm 100% fine just being single at this point
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I have a quiet rage that I feel is justified that I refuse to address and I try not to embarrass myself or subject others to it by mostly keeping to myself. It's like Bruce Banner, my secret is that I'm always angry. For that I don't see myself in any type of relationship. I don't actually think about being in a relationship until I'm around other people in them. I prefer to be by myself, I don't have friends or confidants not even online but I think there are people who think of me as their friend. I guess I regret not doing better in life so I could be self employed and live in seclusion.
Life’s too short to be carrying that anger. It’s okay to enjoy life’s pleasures.
 
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