Brehs who are single, never married and over 35.....................

Marc Spector

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34, no kids, and single but have a ex who Im very close with and could see myself marrying.

As i said in Texasboys thread, im at a certain age/point in life where being a single playboy isnt returning dividends like it use to. I could very well be washed up/ugly gang :manny: but the point is, the time, energy, and money I have to expend to ho around just isnt appealing anymore, especially for the caliber of hoes I was fukking. And what scares me more than commitment is delusion and thinking "These hoes love me, i still got it:myman:" when in reality, the best of your days as a single man are behind you.

So im thinking its time to hang the jersey up :to:
 

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It's interesting you said that. I'm 44. When I was in my 20s I really thought my fate would be meeting a woman with kids and being a stepfather with maybe one on my own. I did try it for a while but it didn't work. After that I can't say either was priority.

I always wanted my own family. But, I wanted to do it how my parents, their parents, etc. has done it which was the traditional way.

I never accepted out of wedlock parenthood. Didn't want b*stard children. Guess what? I never did! As for the rest, what transpired happened.

My journey happened because that was supposed to happen. I am a much better place now than I was when I was younger. I grew or evolved at my own pace.

I hope anyone who is in a similar situation is at peace with themselves. What is meant to be will be!
 

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Just some advice for the old heads and the young nikkas.

Whatever path in life you choose - be sure to take care of your health.

You can be like Lionel Richie in your 70s still smashing 30 year olds

Or end up like Kevin Samuels dead in your 50s.

Health is wealth.

We dont have a biological clock and theres not much competition in the streets.

Lionel-Richie-and-Lisa-Parigi-683x1024.jpg
i'm trippin or she resembles Savannah James?
 

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My problem is I’m a ‘late bloomer’. I ain’t never been in this type shape, my beard ain’t never connected like this 😂 So I’m at a age I should be over chasing women, I should be settling (literally and figuratively) but I’m not and it scares me lol

And I want a kid, that’s the only thing making me act right. I’m pretty sure I’m not built for a long term relationship. Not without cheating, so I’m almost forcing myself to deal with certain women who check boxes of ’yea she’d be a good mother’.

If a chick is thin God fearing with a good job f’it 😭 Is what it is
 

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I’ve never been married. I’m not opposed to marriage. I’m also not opposed to visiting Alaska; but I still likely will never do it.

Life goes how it’s supposed to go. nikkas be out here trying to look for fulfillment and shyt. Stop trying to be fulfilled, that shyt gay. fukk these hoes and live your life.
I lol’d. I’m using this
 

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Just some advice for the old heads and the young nikkas.

Whatever path in life you choose - be sure to take care of your health.

You can be like Lionel Richie in your 70s still smashing 30 year olds

Or end up like Kevin Samuels dead in your 50s.

Health is wealth.

We dont have a biological clock and theres not much competition in the streets.

Lionel-Richie-and-Lisa-Parigi-683x1024.jpg

Thats his daughter??
 
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