Brehs, can you take a woman serious if you smashed her on the first night? Like eventually end up in a relationship?

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

one of my longest and best relationships started from fukking on the first night we met.

the problem was she probably shouldn't have taken ME seriously even though my actions weren't a reflection of her or anything, it's just how i'm wired so to speak or was.

and, a reflection of my typical lifestyle at the time, which is why i say she shouldn't have taken me as seriously. i was often presented with that opportunity during that time in my life.

 

[re'up]

A woman artificially pretending to be chaste is boring.

and I like to go as far as seems right. but full sex can be too much. it's too much weight too early mostly.

 

[Dipsey Doo]

No women I’ve smashed on the first date last more than a month or two for me

Once the tone of the interaction is set, it’s hard to turn it around.

I’d rather work for it

 

[Macallik86]

I’m going thru this now. Met this chick at a concert. Bad joint She looks like the type back in the day I would come correct, go slow, assume she’s hard to get, etc. Man, when I did that shyt i used to get friend zoned

So now I’m aggressive and ABC, always be closing. Ended up meeting, coffee, day party, then ffwd she was a complete freak. No judgment at all. I’d still wife it

You really would enjoy women more when you remove traditional expectations from them. Judge her by how she carries herself in public. How she is around men. If she looks like she for everybody, or is overly flirtatious , THAT is an issue. But not what she do behind closed doors

As he said, yall paying attention to the wrong stuff (how fast she fukks you) and not the right stuff (how she moves in public/around other men when you're around/etc)

I'd say like 70% of the girls I smashed have been first or second date. With that said, even before we had sex, I knew within an hour or two of us talking whether they were someone I'd like to kick it w/ long term or just for the night.

I think some of yall could do a bit better listening to what a chick is telling/showing you, instead of "did she fukk me quickly". Some stuff comes w/ experience too so you start to see patterns and realize that 'fukking on the first night' is a poor predictor of compatibility (unless you are/aren't a prude too)

 

[WaveMolecules]

It’s depends. If I want her to stay and have breakfast with me, maybe. If I want her to leave, no.

 

[Braman]

As he said, yall paying attention to the wrong stuff (how fast she fukks you) and not the right stuff (how she moves in public/around other men when you're around/etc)

I'd say like 70% of the girls I smashed have been first or second date. With that said, even before we had sex, I knew within an hour or two of us talking whether they were someone I'd like to kick it w/ long term or just for the night.

I think some of yall could do a bit better listening to what a chick is telling/showing you, instead of "did she fukk me quickly". Some stuff comes w/ experience too so you start to see patterns and realize that 'fukking on the first night' is a poor predictor of compatibility (unless you are/aren't a prude too)

Big facts

Tbh I think even some women sell themselves short. They think we ‘love bomb’. No bytch, I’ve just messed with enough women to know you a real one

Now just bc she a real one don’t mean something can’t come up that makes things go left. But that’s life. She’s at least shown you she’s in the 5%. 95% of women like you said they rule themself out asap. And it will have nothing to do with sex

 

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[Diondon]

It depends
Just know that after you smash, you will get to know that person
And you might not like the person you find out she is
You're essentially doing shyt ass backwards

 

[Roid Jones]

As he said, yall paying attention to the wrong stuff (how fast she fukks you) and not the right stuff (how she moves in public/around other men when you're around/etc)

I'd say like 70% of the girls I smashed have been first or second date. With that said, even before we had sex, I knew within an hour or two of us talking whether they were someone I'd like to kick it w/ long term or just for the night.

I think some of yall could do a bit better listening to what a chick is telling/showing you, instead of "did she fukk me quickly". Some stuff comes w/ experience too so you start to see patterns and realize that 'fukking on the first night' is a poor predictor of compatibility (unless you are/aren't a prude too)

Facts, it's weird how sex is viewed, I've come across some women that think just because they don't give it up easily it makes up for them being truly horrible people

 

[I'm Blackman]

Depends on the details..but probably not.

 

[At30wecashout]

“ I liked this hoe when she was serving me but spurn her for serving thee.”

If I don’t like a woman’s behavior, I dont entertain her. You void your right to complain when you partake. She a hoe? You a hoe, too. She might just like you that much. Always check the carfax and dont ask for what you cant also provide.

 

[AllHolosEve]

-I'm about chemistry so I'm more liable to take a woman seriously if we hit it off & fukk first night. What happens next determines how far we go & I've a few long term situations develop.

-I don't concern myself with her sex life with previous dudes because the more I know the more of a whore I'll see her as.

 

[LiveFromLondon]

I’ve done it before..

What you need to know is two things

1. Most women of our era will let a guy smash on the first night.. he just has to be the ‘right’ kind of guy

2. Me smashing on the 1st night just lets me know that she was feeling the boy and couldn’t resist

I honestly would be more pissed off if she didn’t let me smash on the first night but was letting other guys hit

Thing is, you could be one of many nikkas she was feeling on a specific night

 

[cyndaquil]

Keep thinking that a woman making you wait means she's a good one or the relationship is guaranteed to last

Or maybe it shouldn't be taken as a sign of anything. Yall need to look at red flags. That's it. Taking it slow ain't a good or bad but letting you fukk on the first night is a red flag.

 

[UWasntThere]

Women manipulate with such ease I don't see how it matters. She could wait 4 dates because she likes you and be giving it out to strangers in the meantime.

I need to observe her behavior for a while before I decide whether or not she's completely for the streets