Brehs, anyone ever experience "Retroactive Jealousy" with their girlfriend?

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You're presenting a false dichotomy, heterosexual men never had men as "eligible" partners and them could simply not engage in long term partnership as opposed to change sexuality, but you've always been a poor poster who plays obtuse when called out on half cooked arguments

Your argument suggests we're frozen in time, it suggests the way people have identified and paired yesterday will be a constant and a predictor of how people will identify and pair tomorrow.

There's a growing population of men who call themselves heterosexual but engage in sexual encounters with other straight men, an idea that isn't in line with contemporary societal norms but also isn't unheard of as we can look as far back as Ancient Greece to find similar examples.

If modern society continues to implicitly push the idea that only virgin women are worthy of companionship while simultaneously encouraging the sexual liberation of women in a context where a different standard applies to men, a foundation is being laid that leads to men only using women for sex and concluding that's it's not an indictment on their masculinity it sexuality to seek companionship with the only population that doesn't get a bad reputation for having sex with multiple partners, other men.
 

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He’s insecure cuz he doesn’t have the same sexual experiences as her

if dude got bodies and smutted out his share of chicks he wouldn’t give af at all. Only the no p*ssy gettin mf’s care about that stuff.

I agree...But at the same time a lot brehs spend a lot time and energy running through hoes do to there own insecurities....and usually mirror those insecurities when they get into relationship....We’ve all come across those dudes who still want to be playas on the side but at the same time hella territorial with there main chick...

Very few brehs period are wise/hip to the game and apply to how they deal with the o/s....
 
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Your argument suggests we're frozen in time, it suggests the way people have identified and paired yesterday will be a constant and a predictor of how people will identify and pair tomorrow.

There's a growing population of men who call themselves heterosexual but engage in sexual encounters with other straight men, an idea that isn't in line with contemporary societal norms but also isn't unheard of as we can look as far back as Ancient Greece to find similar examples.

If modern society continues to implicitly push the idea that only virgin women are worthy of companionship while simultaneously encouraging the sexual liberation of women in a context where a different standard applies to men, a foundation is being laid that leads to men only using women for sex and concluding that's it's not an indictment on their masculinity it sexuality to seek companionship with the only population that doesn't get a bad reputation for having sex with multiple partners, other men.

Men don't up and DECIDE to fukk other men, that basal curiosity/homosexuality was there and dormant. If you're straight women being not up to par for long term partnership doesn't mean men fill that void in a sexual sense. If you were referring to men just hanging out with their friends as opposed to going out on dates that already happens, but to imply dudes are gonna start looking at their homies with the :takedat:, because they can't find women the right woman is jumping to a conclusion to say the least.

I will concede that the masses are easily influenced but for you to sincerely think this happens, I'd assume you believe that the LGBTQ+ agenda is a real thing, then right?
 

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Men don't up and DECIDE to fukk other men, that basal curiosity/homosexuality was there and dormant. If you're straight women being not up to par for long term partnership doesn't mean men fill that void in a sexual sense. If you were referring to men just hanging out with their friends as opposed to going out on dates that already happens, but to imply dudes are gonna start looking at their homies with the :takedat:, because they can't find women the right woman is jumping to a conclusion to say the least.

I will concede that the masses are easily influenced but for you to sincerely think this happens, I'd assume you believe that the LGBTQ+ agenda is a real thing, then right?

While I don't believe there's some nefarious organization out to meddle in people's sexual affairs, I do believe there's a concerted effort to encourage already marginalized groups to lean in to dysfunction in the name of progress.
 

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While I don't believe there's some nefarious organization out to meddle in people's sexual affairs, I do believe there's a concerted effort to encourage already marginalized groups to lean in to dysfunction in the name of progress.

Well then I respect your stance here, and the bolded is what I think most brehs/brehettes are alluding to when they say gay/jews/etc. are pulling strings
 

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If he has similar sexual experience, as long as she's letting you smash and not being a prude, it shouldn't matter, but if not this shyt is gonna slowly eat him. He needs to dip and get his body count and sexual experience up. If a chick is moderately attractive chances are she had her hoe phase during college and her early 20s, it is what is.:yeshrug: I think 18-22 the average woman has more bodies than the average man, then it starts to reverse in the mid 20s when men start leveling up. 18-22 are women's prime years in terms of sexual value. That's why men should spend their 20s bossing up and smashing women then maybe start settling down no earlier than their early 30s. Women want to take advantage of their sexual value in their prime years so men should do the same in their prime years.
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Even if he did she still would've been fukking more than him and he'd still get jealous.

Honestly tho, women with bodies like that have to be straight up sluts for the dude they're with. Doing threesomes with people who don't commit to you but not the man that did basically states you value people who care about you less thus making you worth less over all and he can sense that but is too emotionally committed


Also we all know white girls that go crazy in college are rarely loyal, she probably got other dikk on the side and his intuition is getting to him.
We seeing invisible pictures now :stopitslime: what body :gucci:
 

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This is every man no matter how much p*ssy you've gotten. Brehs saying if he'd ran through hoes then he wouldn't trip aren't speaking from experience. They just saying what they think it should be like, too much pumpfaking on this site:stopitslime:
 

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Plenty of former and current players that don’t wanna wife no thot.

Do they accept shorty might have a wild past sexual life? Yes, but they don’t know if she did for sure.
big facts, why would I wife a known whore, at that point I may as well buy a ring for a stripper, porn star or street walker. That being said I think asking a question like this is foolish, people lie. I would say hoe behavior can been seen a mile away if you are really paying attention, it's a pattern of behavior.
 

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Some cac on reddit was spillin his heart out how he loves his girl very much but at times cant accept that she had 1 night stands and was a bit wild in college experimenting with girls and 3somes meanwhile, he was some nerd who didnt attend parties and studied and got almost no girls

Fast forward in their late 20's, although things are going well he cant shake the idea of her being some whore for college athletes or fraternity cats even though she holds him down completely and very loyal to him. He feels he is missing out and he drives him insane

He even pressures her to have a 3some nowadays to "even out" the sexual experiences but she didnt go for it

Some other cac in the comments said he had a serious case of "retroactive jealousy".

I googled it and its a real term :ohhh:

I honestly learned something new today :ohhh:

bytches aint shyt by the way
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You have to get a similar number of bodies to knowingly be at peace with this. It'll fukk with you otherwise.
smh. this basically describes me

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when known whores want to act prude with you and have standards all a sudden <<<<<<
 
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