Brehs, anyone ever experience "Retroactive Jealousy" with their girlfriend?

[Zime]

Just start smashing other chicks on the low and you don't have to worry about this

 

[africngiant]

Just start smashing other chicks on the low and you don't have to worry about this

they never cared about me when i was on the come up smh

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

This is every man no matter how much p*ssy you've gotten. Brehs saying if he'd ran through hoes then he wouldn't trip aren't speaking from experience. They just saying what they think it should be like, too much pumpfaking on this site

No, this is Every man who didn’t grow up with a father… A real father would’ve put you on game early and told you it’s never your p*ssy it’s just your turn.. If your turn happens to last for 20-30-40 years then cool but the same still applies

 

[AtomicUse]

What I’ve learned in here is that plenty of dudes are cool with marrying reformed runners, who are down for the group thing and go both ways, and any man that has a problem with it if he finds out about it, is insecure and needs therapy.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

no...

 

[AtomicUse]

It doesn’t help or matter. That’s from me personally.

It's not a catch-all, but some people can be at peace if they caught a bunch of bodies and indulged in debauchery themselves for a period of time.

And to echo @GodinDaFlesh above me, a lot of dudes are late bloomers. I didn't start putting up numbers until I was pushing 30.

I don’t think that a man getting with a lot of women will make him any more ready to commit long-term to a swinger/lesbian poly-sexual partner, I actually think it would actually have the opposite effect since he’s seen how those types of people behave over an extended period of time.

And making it a race thing is wild, when every other day we have a GMB thread on here where a husband went off the deep end because his wife had a three-way with underaged boys because they had a fight, or they were dealing with students in their class, or there was a thread about work husbands and work wives and EVERYBODY had a story about someone at work being unfaithful.

Telling people they need therapy for having regular and understandable emotions is , and I hate using this term, but it’s heavy gaslighting. If someone reached their hand into your bank account and stole money from you and you got mad about it, they’d tell you that you need therapy. That’s an understandable reaction to have to finding out you’ve been put in a jackpot or someone’s done something to take advantage of you. Dude didn’t hurt anyone or kill anyone, which is more than some of these dudes can say for their spouses or wives, he went on on Internet forum and talked it out, and like men do, we make fun of him and put him down. But that’s what we do, we’re men, that’s the deal.

 

[Vandelay]

I don’t think that a man getting with a lot of women will make him any more ready to commit long-term to a swinger/lesbian poly-sexual partner, I actually think it would actually have the opposite effect since he’s seen how those types of people behave over an extended period of time.

And making it a race thing is wild, when every other day we have a GMB thread on here where a husband went off the deep end because his wife had a three-way with underaged boys because they had a fight, or they were dealing with students in their class, or there was a thread about work husbands and work wives and EVERYBODY had a story about someone at work being unfaithful.

Telling people they need therapy for having regular and understandable emotions is , and I hate using this term, but it’s heavy gaslighting. If someone reached their hand into your bank account and stole money from you and you got mad about it, they’d tell you that you need therapy. That’s an understandable reaction to have to finding out you’ve been put in a jackpot or someone’s done something to take advantage of you. Dude didn’t hurt anyone or kill anyone, which is more than some of these dudes can say for their spouses or wives, he went on on Internet forum and talked it out, and like men do, we make fun of him and put him down. But that’s what we do, we’re men, that’s the deal.

I'm not following the second half of your post about therapy and bank accounts.

I'm not saying everyone is going to be cool if their wifey was a pass around as long as they caught 100 bodies themselves. I'm saying that's literally the only circumstance someone would potentially be cool with it; but I know that's not all men nor most men...I'm saying some men.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Dudes have to realize especially if u are over 30 the woman u are with believe it or not was getting fuked in high school, college if she went or even if she haven’t went to college by other dudes

never expect you with a 25 year old plus chick who got only 1 body to her name unless you two are some high school sweethearts

I know for damn sure chicks I been with been hit by other dudes

black men more than any other race have this huge thing about women body count

white girls and Asian girls been ran through a whole college football squad but by their senior year of college or after graduation they getting wife

now !!!never wife a chick who been doing porn shyt and videos all over the place or a chick who let everyone hit... there is some standards tho

I always tell people that a movie like "the Best Man" only works for black audiences. White people wouldn't give a shyt that their homie smashed their wife back in college.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I used to think like this but then I'd have to remind myself my body count is in the triple digits.

Also a freak and a hoe is not the same thing. I like a freaky girl. No bish is giving you unicorn head without hella practice.

 

[AtomicUse]

I'm not following the second half of your post about therapy and bank accounts.

I'm not saying everyone is going to be cool if their wifey was a pass around as long as they caught 100 bodies themselves. I'm saying that's literally the only circumstance someone would potentially be cool with it; but I know that's not all men nor most men...I'm saying some men.

We’re saying the same thing. I’m just saying most people would be upset if they got taken for a ride or felt like they got played or were being taken advantage of, and natural reactions don’t always mean the person needs to run to a therapist because they have deep psychological issues. It’s natural to have an emotional response to upsetting things, just make sure you don’t hurt anybody or yourself.

 

[AtomicUse]

I always tell people that a movie like "the Best Man" only works for black audiences. White people wouldn't give a shyt that their homie smashed their wife back in college.

Nah. Plenty of weddings I been to the bride invited brehs that she smashed to the wedding, or the breh invited his homegirls to the wedding and everybody was cool with it.

I don’t think it’s a race thing.

 

[africngiant]

I'm not following the second half of your post about therapy and bank accounts.

I'm not saying everyone is going to be cool if their wifey was a pass around as long as they caught 100 bodies themselves. I'm saying that's literally the only circumstance someone would potentially be cool with it; but I know that's not all men nor most men...I'm saying some men.

better than having dry dikk. every man craves female validation especially as you get older it can affect your well being going some time with out it. add this social media age and it seems like everyone’s fukking but you.

then when the time comes now they finally wanna settle down for you as the safety option smh

 

[africngiant]

women are terrible ppl

 

[AtomicUse]

better than having dry dikk. every man craves female validation especially as you get older it can affect your well being going some time with out it. add this social media age and it seems like everyone’s fukking but you.

then when the time comes now they finally wanna settle down for you as the safety option smh

You summed up my point more succinctly. Dude was like “Damn I really liked this person, but it seems like I’m just the safety option.” and that upset him, but, first few pages here were everyone telling him “Everybody’s got a past, everyone’s been out here fukking, either take it or leave it.”

Or telling him “Ok she was a bisexual passaround who’s trying to live a different lifestyle with you now, why are you even asking? You have issues and are messed up in the head for giving a shyt about that dude, you need therapy.”

Dude got to be sitting there like “Damn I either gotta cuff a loosie or stay solo.” Then once he cuff her and she relapse, they’ll be first ones calling him a dummy for cuffing. If he leave, they’ll clown him for not getting any action. And it’s Reddit so the story itself is likely made up, even though this happens all the time in real life.

That’s why you have to do what you want, because either way it’s your life and your responsibility, and people going to talk shyt regardless. Just protect yourself long-term.

 

[africngiant]

You summed up my point more succinctly. Dude was like “Damn I’m just the safety option.” and that upset him, first few pages were everyone telling him “Everybody’s got a past, everyone’s been out here fukking, either take it or leave it.”

Or telling him “Ok she was a bisexual passaround who’s trying to live a different lifestyle with you now, why are you even asking? You have issues and are messed up in the head for giving a shyt about that dude, you need therapy.”

yeah im not rocking with the whole “she’s matured now take her as she is or you’re the a$$hole, you have no choice” bs it seems like life eventually takes us to

ima move accordingly the same way they did with me when the time comes cause im on the come up