Brehettes don't care about MONEY..SWAG/CHARISMA>>>>MONEY

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There is someone for everyone. The guy who looks good on paper is not for her. It seems to me that she likes the entertainment factor in relationships (swag, charisma, clout).

I guess being with an old head, my next question is, did she really need to write this? When has this ever been considered “new territory” especially in terms of dating and relationships?
 

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Go on dinner dates in 2018 brehs.

Offer to get a woman's nails done and still get turned down brehs.

Focus 100% on your career and not real life social skills that are priceless brehs.

Not know how to get a broad to talk about herself the whole date while cracking jokes which will make her think yall connected brehs.
 

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It's not that black and white. Women care about all of that..Money, Charisma, Looks, Status etc. But they are willing to sacrifice different areas depending on that particular female. The problem with this is, your date criteria shouldn't be based on characteristics...job, car, swag but rather on character...values, morals, beliefs. Also, black women are running laps around black men as far as education and representation in the workforce. So, it's backwards af to set the standard of only dating lawyers, doctors or CEOs. That's cutting off 98% of their target dating population. Add that to the fact that women already outnumber men and its a recipe for a lot of cold lonely nights. It's self sabotage.
 

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Gotta give the hoes the drama if you want them stimulated mentally smh
Yea my last chick I got arrested 3 times,was in the process of getting evicted,lost my job..got another job,then that job shutdown and she bought me a guitar,groceries,gave me back massages :wow:


Now that i'm tryna change she might not even want me anymore :mjgrin:
 

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If a woman is strongly physically attracted to you, this magical concept "chemistry" will happen.

There's this chubby chick at work the eyeballs me all the time, I've only interacted with her once or twice, but barely.

You think I have to develop "chemistry" to smash? Nah, sometimes the braud just likes you.

If a chick think you cute, you could be swagless virgin and she'd still want to get at you. She might not be "bad" but it is what it is.

As far as money, it's not the end all be all, but it's a factor. You can eat at a moderate swag level if you pull up in a $500K foreign.Of course you have to have some game about you, but not as much as if you were broke.
 

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How do they do this? Like what's their mindset ?

I ask because you'd have to have a strong mindset to still holla at a bougie type chick when they have a career and you're plating madden.

I would think she would be stuck up and a bytch if I'm tryna get my shyt together. But if I could get those chicks no matter what than that would help me think I don't need to be a doctor or lawyer to fukk em.

I don't like those type of women like that, and I still plan on getting a good career, but the mindset of it makes me wonder.



It's college educated chicks in D.C getting turned out by nikkas who sell pcp and play madden all day. nikkas can't do shyt but they know how to talk smh.
 

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:ohhh:dr.x post on lsa now.
Dating Black men who look great on paper but no chemistry :(
this why BM cant win with BW

yall want a guy that dont fukking exist. a guy that day trade on wall and at night sell dope

and reject good BM and complain how we aint shyt...only to end up with a bum ass hood igga or some bum ass non black dude. This is why more and more BM just totally ignore BW. yall are mentally cooked
 

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in the dating world, women thinking you are boring is a worse sin then having multiple felonies, multiple children or being broke

The standards for American woman are low...especially for hispanic and black women...especially if no father is in household or they grew up in a dysfunctional family :francis:
 
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