Why Don’t More Brehettes Struggling with Dating Give Each Other This Advice?

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breh...talk to me more about this. feel free to DM if you wanna be private
Nah, I'm an open book, breh.

Wifey came from a church going conservative Family and had been previously married married and Divorced with a kid .

She believes in getting married before sex but was a freak the whole time...a church freak!

I didn't go to church like that, but dating her...doing lil shyt like praying with her and her daughter, pulling out chairs, opening doors, dressing nicely and going to church as a family Turned her the Fck on to where she just TOOK it from me one day at an Air BnB! I was like Whole up, we supposed to be waiting!!!!
:whoo::whoa:


I'm over here trying to Participate in the program SHE laid down before dating and Me telling her no made her want it MORE!

Aye , man ... We slipped up hella times, but we finally tied the knot about a week ago, so i get all the guilt free sex a brother could want .

I been getting head 3 times a day since, who knew the cure to porn was to marry a church freak!

:blessed:

Dating is easy, bruh..I honestly don't understand what everyone problem is...just be regular and do thoughtful shyt... Stop thinking too Hard and "Debating" Internet shyt ( bringing to the table, Body counts)..keep an open mind and try something different sometimes
 

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Tlr doesn't wanna hear this...presentation is so important. But they'll let some mentally ill basketcase on x(everything they know about female behavior comes from an x post it seems...they always have one on deck it seems) trick them into thinking their mentally ill way.
That shyt is sad , breh. I feel bad for the brehs ingesting that crap, it ain't even that serious

:francis:
 

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Nah, I'm an open book, breh.

Wifey came from a church going conservative Family and had been previously married married and Divorced with a kid .

She believes in getting married before sex but was a freak the whole time...a church freak!

I didn't go to church like that, but dating her...doing lil shyt like praying with her and her daughter, pulling out chairs, opening doors, dressing nicely and going to church as a family Turned her the Fck on to where she just TOOK it from me one day at an Air BnB! I was like Whole up, we supposed to be waiting!!!!
:whoo::whoa:


I'm over here trying to Participate in the program SHE laid down before dating and Me telling her no made her want it MORE!

Aye , man ... We slipped up hella times, but we finally tied the knot about a week ago, so i get all the guilt free sex a brother could want .

I been getting head 3 times a day since, who knew the cure to porn was to marry a church freak!

:blessed:

Dating is easy, bruh..I honestly don't understand what everyone problem is...just be regular and do thoughtful shyt... Stop thinking too Hard and "Debating" Internet shyt ( bringing to the table, Body counts)..keep an open mind and try something different sometimes
I feel you
I’m dating a chick on some celibacy shyt and i could’ve smashed by now but ill feel guilty

I’ve been smashing other girls as a result up until a month ago. I dont believe in the celibacy shyt and I’m basically waiting for her to be the one to pounce but she don’t really initiate any sexual contact like that

So Iunno at the moment how serious ima take this girl. She has good qualities though that one would kill for in a wife or mom…only reason I’m still seeing her
 

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I feel you
I’m dating a chick on some celibacy shyt and i could’ve smashed by now but ill feel guilty

I’ve been smashing other girls as a result up until a month ago. I dont believe in the celibacy shyt and I’m basically waiting for her to be the one to pounce but she don’t really initiate any sexual contact like that

So Iunno at the moment how serious ima take this girl. She has good qualities though that one would kill for in a wife or mom…only reason I’m still seeing her
How long y'all been seeing each other, it's worth the wait and worth taking it to the next level.

If she ain't Toxic, you should wife her up .

Personally, I got 4 kids but NEVER found a worthy candidate for marriage till I met her...the SLIGHTEST character flaw and I'm out.

Wifey is damn near perfect . sex, God fearing, cooking, cleaning, not toxic, not naggy... ONLY thing is she'll probably be on the news for killing a cheating ass Nygga....well that's easy, I just WONT cheat... anymore .. especially since we're married now

:merchant:
 

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How long y'all been seeing each other, it's worth the wait and worth taking it to the next level.

If she ain't Toxic, you should wife her up .

Personally, I got 4 kids but NEVER found a worthy candidate for marriage till I met her...the SLIGHTEST character flaw and I'm out.

Wifey is damn near perfect . sex, God fearing, cooking, cleaning, not toxic, not naggy... ONLY thing is she'll probably be on the news for killing a cheating ass Nygga....well that's easy, I just WONT cheat... anymore .. especially since we're married now

:merchant:
Been seeing her eight months
 

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My mans was arguing me down when I said 8/10 good looking women you meet are fukking someone. shyt is just reality. People like sex :skip: What a concept

Lol what did he think the percentage was?
 

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Its great advice actually. I asked women I'm talking to before that question and it always brings clarity to the situation.

Most women who casually fukk while trying to date intentionally and find the "one", usually let the nikka they know is bad for them hit. The actual friendzoned nikkas or thoughtful dudes that hover in their existence are overlooked. Its like you kinda find out they not serious.
 

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because women are human too and have urges
yeah but they lie and posture like they're not fukking when they are while dating multiple guys. the fukking makes them unable to be genuine about the dates with men who are looking for something serious.

it's like a guy with infinite finances, he has women at his disposal on account of his finances. those interactions make it more difficult for him to focus on serious women who would make a good wife because he leads with money (relatively speaking it's nothing for him) with women who will happily enjoy the lifestyle in exchange for sexual favours indirectly. that man would have to reevaluate his approach and minimize all outlier expenditures (money spent in excess of what your normal man would spend on dates).
 

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I think it's decent advice generally. I haven't had sex in like 2 years but I wouldn't say its because I'm trying to find a husband. Just trying to focus on other stuff plus I'm homebodied af
casual sex is also ABSURDLY dangerous when you think about it. There is a chance you could end up getting pregnant or an std(I)
the least of that problem is you gotta spend resources on a baby or get burned and get medication
the other extreme end is the std and/or baby kill you in childbirth or overtime etc, there's also that possibility of these scenarios ruining you financially as well, not to mention laying up with a stranger you don't have much of an idea of who they are or what they really like to do, also the emotional issues that can come.
Like it makes me think why we push for 5-25 min pleasurable sex so hard in this country but do nothing really to insure we live in a country where having a family, which is ultimately the truest purpose of sex, the best we can do is go all out for abortions. its not worth it, I barely have like 5 bodies and I wish I just had my wife, It was a lot of wasted time to only just show off to my friends for the most part, I could've ruined my life so easily.
 

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This could easily be about men too though:

They'd rather just tap into defense mechanisms, claiming that they dont need women (MGTOW/incels), that women aint shyt (passport bros), and that women are afraid of/cant handle them (manosphere) etc.

Personally, I think that a woman that 'makes you wait' because she read somewhere that you'll like her more as a man is probably gonna have other traits that don't pass the smell test.
not the same at all. men generally force accountability on one another. the manosphere will tell you to become your best self and allow women into your life that serve it positively. it's all about eliminating the need for frivolous attention from women to making your relationships with them serve you at our best. so yes that can mean casual sex - earned by you levelling yourself - but never losing sight of what exactly is going on in that casual sex relationship. then the manosphere will also let you know that getting a woman with whom you can procreate and rear your family is the goal. all that other manosphere shyt is for entertainment purposes.
 

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Lol what did he think the percentage was?
Way less basically, he argued she could be focusing on work or getting out of a relationship. Like what does sex have to do with either :skip: Men generally think women don’t enjoy sex as much as they do, it’s interesting to see the thought process.
 

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Nah, I'm an open book, breh.

Wifey came from a church going conservative Family and had been previously married married and Divorced with a kid .

She believes in getting married before sex but was a freak the whole time...a church freak!

I didn't go to church like that, but dating her...doing lil shyt like praying with her and her daughter, pulling out chairs, opening doors, dressing nicely and going to church as a family Turned her the Fck on to where she just TOOK it from me one day at an Air BnB! I was like Whole up, we supposed to be waiting!!!!
:whoo::whoa:


I'm over here trying to Participate in the program SHE laid down before dating and Me telling her no made her want it MORE!

Aye , man ... We slipped up hella times, but we finally tied the knot about a week ago, so i get all the guilt free sex a brother could want .

I been getting head 3 times a day since, who knew the cure to porn was to marry a church freak!

:blessed:

Dating is easy, bruh..I honestly don't understand what everyone problem is...just be regular and do thoughtful shyt... Stop thinking too Hard and "Debating" Internet shyt ( bringing to the table, Body counts)..keep an open mind and try something different sometimes
:blessed: :pachaha: :ohlawd: won't he do it. Nyame Ye Deh! lmaooo


nikka that pastor,deacons, elders knows all about the blessed throat and pussies of their congregation. hope she ain't familiar with them deacons and ushers
 
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casual sex is also ABSURDLY dangerous when you think about it. There is a chance you could end up getting pregnant or an std(I)
the least of that problem is you gotta spend resources on a baby or get burned and get medication
the other extreme end is the std and/or baby kill you in childbirth or overtime etc, there's also that possibility of these scenarios ruining you financially as well, not to mention laying up with a stranger you don't have much of an idea of who they are or what they really like to do, also the emotional issues that can come.
Like it makes me think why we push for 5-25 min pleasurable sex so hard in this country but do nothing really to insure we live in a country where having a family, which is ultimately the truest purpose of sex, the best we can do is go all out for abortions. its not worth it, I barely have like 5 bodies and I wish I just had my wife, It was a lot of wasted time to only just show off to my friends for the most part, I could've ruined mby life so easily.

Mayne this is almost spot on to what I was thinking. I understand initial experimentation to figure out what role it plays in ones lifestyle, so in that note i have no regrets. But after a few times I think a self-actualized person can see its not that important....its for making babies first and foremost. If you not trying for that then get some business about yourself other than living for bytches n blunts. 💯

But I guess that answers my own question, many people don't reach the level of self actualization.
 
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