Brehettes don't care about MONEY..SWAG/CHARISMA>>>>MONEY

[Voice of Reason]

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Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers to Arouse Your Woman's Love & Desire

It sounds corny but it gives solid advice.

 

[Zero]

Why y’all be reading women’s blogs and shyt?

This is some weird shyt to me. Someone call Rod Serling because I feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone. Don't these nikkas got more productive shyt to do in their day? Let them hoes yip-yap man, it's all bullshyt anyway.

Man, we got grown men who think "sipping tea" is alright

On some

nikkas BEEN suspect

 

[Soundwave]

The Coli told me if I get my money up the bytches will follow

There is someone for everyone. The guy who looks good on paper is not for her. It seems to me that she likes the entertainment factor in relationships (swag, charisma, clout).

I guess being with an old head, my next question is, did she really need to write this? When has this ever been considered “new territory” especially in terms of dating and relationships?

Your screen name in this thread

 

[Kex]

You nikkas have ruined this forum

 

[ZoeGod]

If it isn't STEM, it isn't real education....

Had to, people talking about I have a degree in Liberal Arts, Communications, Gender Studies with 50k in debt, all worthless and have will have them working at Starbucks and driving Uber/Lyft in record time...

But....they are "more educated"

This is the deep dark truth that a lot of our women do not want to come to terms with but it’s true. I was a biology major in undergrad and there were few black women in all my classes. Most black women I know graduated with useless degrees like sociology, political science and my personal favorite liberal arts meanwhile 50k+ in student loans debt. Meanwhile they go to the club every Saturday and do brunch on Sunday spending what little money they have left. I see this plenty of time in New York.


I have a cousin who fukked up big time. She graduated with a communications degree got knocked by some drug dealer from Long Island who has 4 kids from three baby mothers(). Now she a single mother with student loan debt up to her eyes working three low skill jobs trying to care of a child while living with her parents. But she still goes clubbing and doing brunches in the city every weekend like she is making 76k a year.

Beyoncé had a scholarship thing for black women and all of the majors were in useless subjects. This is going to have terrible long term effects on the black community.

 

[ZoeGod]

having money or a good job don't automatically make women wanna stay with you, it might initially attract them, but you still have to have some finesse,charisma,charm,humor to your personality to make a girl intrigued. Its a lot of boring lames with money, that's getting their girl smashed by a lower level guy with finesse and charm.

Pretty much this. My homeboy messed with a stripper from Staten Island but works in the Bronx. She has a hot shot lawyer paying her rent at a nice apartment on SI and a doctor paying for her car. These dudes have no game and no personality. They were all divorced and looking for companionship. Meanwhile she gives them ass once in a blue moon but my homeboy works as a house keeper in a hospital making way less bread than these dudes and he can hit it anytime he wants. And she admitted she is currently ducking 3 other nikkas behind her sugar daddies back. And these are nikkas who excite her.

Moral of the story you gotta be hitting all cylinders. If you got money you got to have charisma and have to be in decent shape. Don’t only chase one, chase all because once you do you will be the complete man and your options will almost limitless.

 

[RennisDeynolds]

The Coli told me if I get my money up the bytches will follow

Yeah gold diggers and whores

If you don't have a decent personality how do you expect someone to hold a conversation with you?

As for the girl in the OP, she sounds like she wants one of those Tupac in a business suit types . She been watching too much Power and is looking for that James St. Patrick/Ghost combo


She passed up the one dude who told her he is temporarily at home to stack up savings smh. That was the only drawback she had with him but you like what you like

 

[Bumblebreh]

This is the deep dark truth that a lot of our women do not want to come to terms with but it’s true. I was a biology major in undergrad and there were few black women in all my classes. Most black women I know graduated with useless degrees like sociology, political science and my personal favorite liberal arts meanwhile 50k+ in student loans debt. Meanwhile they go to the club every Saturday and do brunch on Sunday spending what little money they have left. I see this plenty of time in New York.


I have a cousin who fukked up big time. She graduated with a communications degree got knocked by some drug dealer from Long Island who has 4 kids from three baby mothers(). Now she a single mother with student loan debt up to her eyes working three low skill jobs trying to care of a child while living with her parents. But she still goes clubbing and doing brunches in the city every weekend like she is making 76k a year.

Beyoncé had a scholarship thing for black women and all of the majors were in useless subjects. This is going to have terrible long term effects on the black community.

And those are the types of women who try to finesse a breh to buy her drinks and pay for her uber.And if you are not offering to take her out to somewhere nice and fancy,you are a broke bum.

 

[Balla]

Why is she going to the club every weekend? To get pregnant again ? Lol

What made her keep the baby? What the baby daddy doing ? Is he paying his baby mamas?

This is the deep dark truth that a lot of our women do not want to come to terms with but it’s true. I was a biology major in undergrad and there were few black women in all my classes. Most black women I know graduated with useless degrees like sociology, political science and my personal favorite liberal arts meanwhile 50k+ in student loans debt. Meanwhile they go to the club every Saturday and do brunch on Sunday spending what little money they have left. I see this plenty of time in New York.


I have a cousin who fukked up big time. She graduated with a communications degree got knocked by some drug dealer from Long Island who has 4 kids from three baby mothers(). Now she a single mother with student loan debt up to her eyes working three low skill jobs trying to care of a child while living with her parents. But she still goes clubbing and doing brunches in the city every weekend like she is making 76k a year.

Beyoncé had a scholarship thing for black women and all of the majors were in useless subjects. This is going to have terrible long term effects on the black community.

 

[ZoeGod]

Why is she going to the club every weekend? To get pregnant again ? Lol

What made her keep the baby? What the baby daddy doing ? Is he paying his baby mamas?

From what I heard when she got pregnant she left Brooklyn to live with him on LI. shyt didn’t work out and she left. Why she keeps going out every weekend? I don’t know breh. I think she does it to escape from her responsibilities as a mother. I think she is depressed or some shyt. shyt is sad as fukk. I mean you read about it or hear about it but when it’s your own family it’s fukking embarrassing. Especially in a Haitian family it’s a disgrace. Her older sister ain’t about shyt either. High school graduate. She has two kids from two different men. She has the foresight to only deal with single fathers though.

Well The baby father has visiting time. He can see his daughter on weekends hence why my cousin goes out. He is a bum and has no income so he doesn’t pay child support. He is a drug dealer but broke as fukk smh. shyt is sad breh I feel for her daughter who is 7. She is adorable but the grand parents so she has no one to truly to watch over her since mommy is working all the time.

 

[SadimirPutin]

Hope she finds what she wants....

Because she gives no indication of what interests, stimulates or attracts her

So it's hard to guess how things will turn out for her

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

BTW to UPDATE it took 3 dates, for her to build up to start digging him

 

[T'krm]

BTW to UPDATE it took 3 dates, for her to build up to start digging him

May have been illogical, but the chick wasn't crazy
That, or her female friends talked some sense into her..

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Again if your spending $ on women and you aren't serious with them etc...your a fool .