Brehette is upset because breh took her to feed the homeless on the first date. Is she wrong?
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OperationNumbNutts
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Even this may be a fake post, I'm 50/50. It's fycked up if dude wanted to be cheap and used her words to justify it. If that's something he does as well, I can see him making that call.
Doobie Doo
Veteran
Charity is never a good idea for a first date unless she told you ahead of time
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
Bro, I’ve fed the homeless and there is a lot of time to talk with the other volunteers. Secondly, it’s a 2 hour commitment for most places, y’all can grab lunch together after. A date is about getting to know someone, not stunt. Ain’t nothing romantic about sitting across from each other at some fake bourgie 3 zig zag sauce clubstrauant with the fake plant wall, that’s just wanting to stunt.
Some of these women literally be missing out on decent men because of stupid constructs they have in their head. And if only 1-2 things qualifies as a good first date, be a whole 30 year old and share that ahead of time
It depends on what was done. Are they working a shift at a soup kitchen, or walking down the street handing out sandwiches? 
A soup kitchen date could be cool if they're into that kind of thing.
A soup kitchen date could be cool if they're into that kind of thing.
I don't know if she was wrong or right...
On one hand, I understand that she may want to spend time with him one on one and get acquainted with him, but on the other hand, her date figured that it was a noble gesture to reach out to the less fortunate and feed the homeless with her..
Now, did she accept the invitation or not? She could have declined or she could have suggested that they feed the homeless on the next date or a future date...
I'd imagine that most dudes wouldn't suggest feeding the homeless on any date, let alone a first date. So, dude seem like a caring and compassionate man. May even be a good potential BF and future husband. He just isn't one for her!
At the end of the day, I have to side with the dude because the woman came off as being selfish and ungrateful. She didn't have to put him done nornput her business out there...
Hopefully, in the future, she will let it be known what she wants and maybe she will find someone that will fit her mold. I do hope that the dude finds a good woman who will appreciate him for him as well as recognize his wood qualities...
On one hand, I understand that she may want to spend time with him one on one and get acquainted with him, but on the other hand, her date figured that it was a noble gesture to reach out to the less fortunate and feed the homeless with her..
Now, did she accept the invitation or not? She could have declined or she could have suggested that they feed the homeless on the next date or a future date...
I'd imagine that most dudes wouldn't suggest feeding the homeless on any date, let alone a first date. So, dude seem like a caring and compassionate man. May even be a good potential BF and future husband. He just isn't one for her!
At the end of the day, I have to side with the dude because the woman came off as being selfish and ungrateful. She didn't have to put him done nornput her business out there...
Hopefully, in the future, she will let it be known what she wants and maybe she will find someone that will fit her mold. I do hope that the dude finds a good woman who will appreciate him for him as well as recognize his wood qualities...
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No more PAWGs, PLEASE??!!!??
Breh, she has several videos with them dolls.
Imagine going to the crib to smash and seeing a black Megan staring at you.
Definitely dodged a bullet.
IDK seems logistically that type of date is a huge crapshoot for accomplishing what a man wants to in a first date, building attraction. Sure its a cool lil story but 9/10 a chick, a normal ass chick isnt calling you back after that
Seek helpI generally give these hoes no benefit of the doubt but if this actually happened buddy was wilding
Richard Glidewell
Superstar
he thought he found a connection between them........ that is a perfect first date that cuts through bullshyt and could establish immediate compatibility on some higher level type shyt....... she ain't the one..... keep it moving
REdefinition
Superstar
Honestly the best dates are when you're actively doing something. Especially if it requires teamwork. You get to see the other person's personality come out as opposed to the traditional lunch/dinner thing and "so, what do you do for work" ass convos.
For not wanting to do a first date at a homeless shelter
?Yall clowns just say anything on here. I volunteer at my local gym helping children. If a lady wanted to do a first date doing a similar activity Id think she was goofy. Thats a date 3 activity once we know we actually like each other. Doing that out the gate is silly
Richard Glidewell
Superstar
You looking for normal huh? They know it too........ you in for a ride in your futureIDK seems logistically that type of date is a huge crapshoot for accomplishing what a man wants to in a first date, building attraction. Sure its a cool lil story but 9/10 a chick, a normal ass chick isnt calling you back after that
I moreso meant even a normal ass chick aint going to vibe with a homeless shelter as date one, let alone some of these psychotic narcissists out chea. I have plenty of experience with women which is why anyone thinking this is a good first date is looking fugazi to me. You investing a ton of time n energy into someone you dont even know if you like for one, and it doesnt facilitate building attraction unless shorty likes to see you pass out bread.