Brehette is a parenting expert and goes viral for whaf she says about black boys

[SNG]

I honestly don’t believe any improvements will take place with marriages though. If anything my prediction is that things will continue to escalate but the biggest difference is that in the future many populations (not just black) will be confronted with this problem. People are not as religious, women and men are waiting longer to settle down, the cost of living has gotten horrible. Cohabitation and disposal relationships have become a trend. These are just some of the factors that are causing people to not rush to the altar like they used to.

Marriage is in the decline. It’s predicted that within a decade or so 45% of women of all races will be single… single parenting and co-parenting from separate households will become more of a “trend” in America. If you look at how our community in particular is trending, you can deduce that there will be less marriages not more.

I think the more realistic solutions at this point is to prepare for that reality. And then look for other avenues to help at least minimize some of the issues. For example providing more support to black children—more mentorship programs, social/emotional classes required at school, more organizations geared toward teaching groups of boys, masculine activities and skills: hunting, fishing, fighting, sports, dating, etc. Providing mandatory counseling for black children. Investing more resources into academic programs and training programs for black teens to help them transition into adulthood… more promotion for classes to help parents be better parents… these are all things that already exist, so just investing more in these programs and strengthening them and making them better will help. I also think promoting more healthy black marriages will also help, but it’s complicated because you can’t exactly force people to get married nor can you prevent them from having children.

But that’s the thing it’s hard to have community’s without nuclear families. That’s why all these other races Asians, Indian and Mexican populations are rising while on the western side the birth rate is decreasing. These culture will spill into the west and you think they will care about black folks and the community? fukk no. We over here with gender wars and all kind of bullshyt meanwhile they having more kids and eventually will intercept into American culture.


Similar shyt happen to Rome and that’s how the empire fell.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

The best way to encourage that won't be done. Do you know what that is? It is removing the mating benefits of being a high recidivism felon. I.E. women in mass refusing to mess with dope boys, scammers, home invaders, robbers, and thieves. Also, women not giving children to men who have children by other women they are incapable of taking care of. As I said before, those women know what those men are about, know their history, and yet still decide to reproduce with them.

women needing to be de-incentivized into not having raw sex with Men they know won’t be stable is pathetic. People say it’s a cultural thing, but I’m starting to see it as a biologically defect.

Women walk around 9 months pregnant with a man’s child, spend up to 10 hrs on the brink of death on a hospital bed delivering his child, but are fully aware the man was not the best suited male to impregnate them.

 

[BigMan]

Many U.S. women have children by more than one man

The first national study of the prevalence of multiple partner fertility shows that 28 percent of all U.S. women with two or more children have children by more than one man. The study was presented April 1 in Washington, D.C., at the annual meeting of the Population Association of America. “I was

isr.umich.edu

Can you link me to the source for percentage of men with children by multiple women?

That is an atrocious statistic

 

[SNG]

"Nuclear families is NOT what's best for children"

Some of the dumbest shyt I've ever read. And you got goofy poor choosing broads dappin up that nonsense.

Any person who says that is setting there child up for failure.

 

[Bondye Vodou]

Anytime I hear or read the word "cis", I immediately tune out.

Don't call me a "cis". That retarded ass made up word is just as offensive as me calling they/them/shim nıggas faģgots.

I'm a human/male/black man/heterosexual. None of that weird shıt dawg.

“Cis”, “Misogynoir”, “Toxic Masculinity”.

 

[NobodyReally]

The video in the OP is just regular LA fitness shyt talk, you’re sheltered if you think that was a situation was gonna lead to that girl getting hurt.

I didn't even watch the video. I'm talking about these situations:

12 Black Women Who Lost Their Lives For Saying 'No' | Essence

A gallery of 11 Black women who lost their lives for saying 'no' to or refusing their attackers.

www.essence.com

11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying 'No'​

MISOGYNY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN ARE BOTH UGLY, ONGOING ISSUES IN OUR SOCIETY THAT CONTINUE TO RESULT IN THE SENSELESS DEATHS OF THOUSANDS OF WOMEN ANNUALLY. IN MANY OF THESE CASES, THE WOMEN VICTIMIZED BY THE TERRIBLE REALITIES OF THIS EPIDEMIC HAD THEIR LIVES CUT SHORT SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY REFUSED THE ADVANCES, REQUESTS OR ORDERS OF MEN. AS WE CONTINUE OUR EFFORTS TO BRING AWARENESS TO THIS HORRIFIC AND TROUBLING PROBLEM IN HOPES OF BRINGING IT TO AN END, HERE ARE 12 WOMEN WHO WERE KILLED JUST FOR SAYING "NO."

BY RACHAELL DAVIS · UPDATED OCTOBER 26, 2020

01

Tiarah Poyau was a 22-year-old St. John’s University college student who was shot in the face at point blank range by a man who she rejected after he began dancing on her during the annual J’Ouvert festival in Brooklyn, NY.

02

Janese Talton-Jackson was a 29-year-old Pittsburgh woman who was fatally shot by a stranger from a local bar after she repeatedly rejected his sexual advances.

03

Cherica Adams was a 24-year-old North Carolina college student who was murdered by a hitman while 8 months pregnant with her first child. Police later determined that her boyfriend, NFL star Ray Carruth, had hired the hitman to kill Cherica after she refused to abort their baby.

 

[Uachet]

The national homicide rate for Black women and girls in 2020 was eight homicides per 100,000 people. That's the highest rate among American women and represents a risk of violent death that is four times higher than white or Latina women. Black girls and women are literally dying and the focus of this thread has gravitated toward how Black men are being portrayed. It's like no one cares about how many girls and women end up dead. When are we going to have a conversation about how many women are killed just for not saying the right thing or having an escape plan when leaving a relationship? It's crazy how empirical evidence of our mortality isn't even worthy of discussion.

You skipped over the information showing what is helping to create the problem. We are discussing the problem, and also pointing out women contribute to that very same problem.

The main killer of Black children is Black women. There, I said it. Also, the number one abuser of Black children is Black women. So to skip over their part in the problem is some very sort of disingenuous talking points. The issue requires all of it to be exposed and then solutions to be created. Pointing a finger in one direction has been done and it is not working.

 

[NobodyReally]

05

Mary Spears was a 27-year-old Detroit woman who was shot to death by a stranger after she refused to give him her phone number.
11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying ‘No’

06

Nokuthula Thashe was a 28-year-old woman from Cape Town, South Africa who was fatally shot by her boyfriend after turning down his marriage proposal.
11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying ‘No’

07

Kasandra Perkins was the 22-year-old girlfriend of NFL star Jovan Belcher, who fatally shot her and then shot himself after she refused to allow him to have full custody of their daughter should they split up.
11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying ‘No’


08

Nova Henry was a 24-year-old woman murdered by her former lover and lawyer. The man fatally shot Henry, along with her 10-month-old daughter, after she relieved him as her lawyer and took out a restraining order against him for allegedly threatening her.
11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying ‘No’


09

LaVena Johnson was a 19-year-old soldier in the United States Army who was brutally beaten to death and raped by unknown assailants. Her death was sadly ruled a suicide by the Army, despite her body being found with a black eye, loose teeth, broken nose and burned genitals.
11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying ‘No’

10

April Jace was the 40-year-old wife of actor Michael Jace, who shot her to death over suspicion that she was having an affair after she told him she wanted a divorce.
11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying ‘No’

11

Julia Martin was a beloved 27-year-old daughter and sister who was brutally stabbed to death by her ex-boyfriend when she allowed him to come to her apartment so she could return the engagement ring he gave her.
11 Black Women Who Were Killed For Saying ‘No’

 

[NobodyReally]

You skipped over the information showing what is helping to create the problem. We are discussing the problem, and also pointing out women contribute to that very same problem.

The main killer of Black children is Black women. There, I said it. Also, the number one abuser of Black children is Black women. So to skip over their part in the problem is some very sort of disingenuous talking points. The issue requires all of it to be exposed and then solutions to be created. Pointing a finger in one direction has been done and it is not working.

Not pointing a finger but blaming everything on Black women which seems to be the norm isn't really working either. It seems no matter what happens it always comes back to what the woman did, at least that's the narrative that's popular on this board.

 

[TheGreatMTB]

not gonna lie I'm not even sure what this thread is about. It looked like a simple basketball clip of a girl schooling dudes, then it turned to genocide. Fallen Roman empires. Now there's pictures of deceased black women on the page. Someone help me pls.

 

[ThatTruth777]

The national homicide rate for Black women and girls in 2020 was eight homicides per 100,000 people. That's the highest rate among American women and represents a risk of violent death that is four times higher than white or Latina women. Black girls and women are literally dying and the focus of this thread has gravitated toward how Black men are being portrayed. It's like no one cares about how many girls and women end up dead. When are we going to have a conversation about how many women are killed just for not saying the right thing or having an escape plan when leaving a relationship? It's crazy how empirical evidence of our mortality isn't even worthy of discussion.

 

[The Fade]

The national homicide rate for Black women and girls in 2020 was eight homicides per 100,000 people. That's the highest rate among American women and represents a risk of violent death that is four times higher than white or Latina women. Black girls and women are literally dying and the focus of this thread has gravitated toward how Black men are being portrayed. It's like no one cares about how many girls and women end up dead. When are we going to have a conversation about how many women are killed just for not saying the right thing or having an escape plan when leaving a relationship? It's crazy how empirical evidence of our mortality isn't even worthy of discussion.

Black men caring about being pathologized as beasts = no one cares about black women
Man shut up. The women have been using black males deaths as trampoline for their own careers and funding. They control the discourse. So people do care. If no one cares we wouldn’t be letting “Professor Crunk” ever speak

You’re just as bad as Crenshaw and co. Who think programs for black boys = neglecting black women and turns Black men into Rape addicted beasts. Y’all should’ve praised Obama for My Brothers Keeper but you thought it was gonna make the problem is worse. Fast forward to now, according to you, the problem IS worse and it’s without the programs y’all turned your nose up at. Any time we try to create more programs for boys it’s the same talking points that shut them down. “ something something dominant masculinity”

When you want to be in charge of the community you will get blamed for some problems. That comes with leadership and y’all are “leading”. Welcome to being a man. Y’all sitting here blaming everything on us while telling us not to blame y’all for anything.y’all wanted to be on the frontlines, this is the costs. You think us blaming you is bad, we saw the play that’s coming for y’all, the establishment is setting y’all up to be blamed by EVERYONE.

 

[Uachet]

Many U.S. women have children by more than one man

The first national study of the prevalence of multiple partner fertility shows that 28 percent of all U.S. women with two or more children have children by more than one man. The study was presented April 1 in Washington, D.C., at the annual meeting of the Population Association of America. “I was

isr.umich.edu

Can you link me to the source for percentage of men with children by multiple women?

Thank you.

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/265397775_Men_Who_Father_Children_with_More_Than_One_Woman_A_Contemporary_Portrait_of_Multiple-Partner_Fertility

2006 information on that website. 32% overall for black men, while 11% are married. So it comes out to %59 of 32% are created by the unmarried or %18.88 of Black men who are unmarried. Then look at the chart that compares felons and drug use as it pertains to multiple children by multiple women, 61% of the ones having those children are felons while 27% and/or drug users (since the two can be in the same set).

So in the end the majority of those children are being created by them, the minority by other Black men married or not.

I had another source, but it did not separate out by race. This one I just found does, so here are the more accurate stats for us in particular. It is a PDF, on Researchgate.

 

[Renegade47]

Brehette got 17k likes for this tweet. In twitter terms that's viral (thinj of it like over 100k likes om IG). She's a black parenting expert by the way.


She's working on her parenting coach certification

 

[Yzak]

Black Boys being singled out again..white boys molest their little sisters and cousins and no one talks about it.

That's the whole point of Black feminism. Just a constant source of anti-Black male propaganda. They're so full of themselves they're openly pushing narratives that Black males are inherently violent. This is where they head in the sand let everything pass mentality gets us