Brehette is a parenting expert and goes viral for whaf she says about black boys

[BigMan]

Why do you think the west is obsessed with destabilizing west Africa compared to the other regions? There's a reason why you always see white men doing sexpat shyt in East and Southern Africa but they avoid west Africa.

Gambia is a well known sex tourism joint in West Africa and the US military/CIA is active all over Africa

It’s prolly more to do with all the wars in central and Eastern Africa and more western style lifestyles in places like South Africa

 

[ignorethis]

Gambia is a well known sex tourism joint in West Africa and the US military/CIA is active all over Africa

It’s prolly more to do with all the wars in central and Eastern Africa and more western style lifestyles in places like South Africa

Yea I was just gonna comment Gambia just might be the worst place in Africa when it comes to sex tourism.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Agreed we do need more fathers. Children are complex and it takes a village to raise them. I take my hat off to women that try and do it but I don’t think being a single parent is something to be promoted since it’s 10 times harder to do without an able body and a somewhat Healthy mental counterpart. There cannot be any improvements made until the black community is fixed only 36% of black children come from two married parent homes and 48% come from single parent homes. The percentage needs to be drastically higher on the two parent side.

I honestly don’t believe any improvements will take place with marriages though. If anything my prediction is that things will continue to escalate but the biggest difference is that in the future many populations (not just black) will be confronted with this problem. People are not as religious, women and men are waiting longer to settle down, the cost of living has gotten horrible. Cohabitation and disposal relationships have become a trend. These are just some of the factors that are causing people to not rush to the altar like they used to.

Marriage is in the decline. It’s predicted that within a decade or so 45% of women of all races will be single… single parenting and co-parenting from separate households will become more of a “trend” in America. If you look at how our community in particular is trending, you can deduce that there will be less marriages not more.

I think the more realistic solutions at this point is to prepare for that reality. And then look for other avenues to help at least minimize some of the issues. For example providing more support to black children—more mentorship programs, social/emotional classes required at school, more organizations geared toward teaching groups of boys, masculine activities and skills: hunting, fishing, fighting, sports, dating, etc. Providing mandatory counseling for black children. Investing more resources into academic programs and training programs for black teens to help them transition into adulthood… more promotion for classes to help parents be better parents… these are all things that already exist, so just investing more in these programs and strengthening them and making them better will help. I also think promoting more healthy black marriages will also help, but it’s complicated because you can’t exactly force people to get married nor can you prevent them from having children.

 

[O.Red]

See my previous response. I’ve never said the word cis verbally but I’m not trying to be lumped in with MAGAs with being ignorant

This type of thinking has ruined nikkas

Some of y'all would deny the sky is blue if you thought it would make you look MAGA

 

[ignorethis]

We do try to encourage that. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

The best way to encourage that won't be done. Do you know what that is? It is removing the mating benefits of being a high recidivism felon. I.E. women in mass refusing to mess with dope boys, scammers, home invaders, robbers, and thieves. Also, women not giving children to men who have children by other women they are incapable of taking care of. As I said before, those women know what those men are about, know their history, and yet still decide to reproduce with them.

So the problem can not be resolved by looking at only one side of this issue as has been done for over 40 years. we have talked about the faults of men since before I was born (I am 53). It is time to put a spotlight on women too. They are equal partners in the havoc going on in our communities.

There are no consequences to having a baby by a bum, well there are, but not enough to actually dissuade women in the low income communities from doing it.

70 percent of black children are in single mother homes, 59 percent of black mothers in America have children from multiple fathers.

 

[Mindfield333]

This type of thinking has ruined nikkas

Some of y'all would deny the sky is blue if you thought it would make you look MAGA

Wym? I don’t think you fully thought this out

 

[BigMan]

There are no consequences to having a baby by a bum, well there are, but not enough to actually dissuade women in the low income communities from doing it.

70 percent of black children are in single mother homes, 59 percent of black mothers in America have children from multiple fathers.

Link for the last stat? That’s a crazy stat

 

[Rekkapryde]

Link for the last stat? That’s a crazy stat

Ain't no damn way

 

[Uachet]

There are no consequences to having a baby by a bum, well there are, but not enough to actually dissuade women in the low income communities from doing it.

70 percent of black children are in single mother homes, 59 percent of black mothers in America have children from multiple fathers.

It is a sad situation all around.

Would you please show me where that 59% stat came from? I can easily find data on what men are having children by multiple women, but the opposite seems to be so hard to come by.

 

[Squirrel from Meteor Man]

Brehette got 17k likes for this tweet. In twitter terms that's viral (thinj of it like over 100k likes om IG). She's a black parenting expert by the way.


She's working on her parenting coach certification

My question with all of these kinds of posts is how does she know none of them are gay?

Why does she assume they’re “cis”gendered? I thought they told us gay men can be masculine too?

 

[NobodyReally]

The national homicide rate for Black women and girls in 2020 was eight homicides per 100,000 people. That's the highest rate among American women and represents a risk of violent death that is four times higher than white or Latina women. Black girls and women are literally dying and the focus of this thread has gravitated toward how Black men are being portrayed. It's like no one cares about how many girls and women end up dead. When are we going to have a conversation about how many women are killed just for not saying the right thing or having an escape plan when leaving a relationship? It's crazy how empirical evidence of our mortality isn't even worthy of discussion.

 

[Ake1725]

Yeah, she is a sick single mum by the sounds of it.



Talks about conscious parenting is recognising how she feels etc.



Jaded.



Resentment.



Envy.









Her page is a clown show. The ramblings of a stressed and Jaded single mother.

"I'm a cishet woman who is also attracted to women." Be a dl bisexual single mother brehettes. Claim to be a feminist and love black women but don't own your attraction to them delusional brehettes don't know what words mean brehettes

 

[ignorethis]

It is a sad situation all around.

Would you please show me where that 59% stat came from? I can easily find data on what men are having children by multiple women, but the opposite seems to be so hard to come by.

Many U.S. women have children by more than one man

The first national study of the prevalence of multiple partner fertility shows that 28 percent of all U.S. women with two or more children have children by more than one man. The study was presented April 1 in Washington, D.C., at the annual meeting of the Population Association of America. “I was

isr.umich.edu

Can you link me to the source for percentage of men with children by multiple women?

 

[ignorethis]

The national homicide rate for Black women and girls in 2020 was eight homicides per 100,000 people. That's the highest rate among American women and represents a risk of violent death that is four times higher than white or Latina women. Black girls and women are literally dying and the focus of this thread has gravitated toward how Black men are being portrayed. It's like no one cares about how many girls and women end up dead. When are we going to have a conversation about how many women are killed just for not saying the right thing or having an escape plan when leaving a relationship? It's crazy how empirical evidence of our mortality isn't even worthy of discussion.

The video in the OP is just regular LA fitness shyt talk, you’re sheltered if you think that was a situation was gonna lead to that girl getting hurt.

It could have just been a funny “girl power girl beats dude at basketball” moment, there was no reason to make it a black male pathology session. You people sound like cacs and I pray no black boy ever has to be under your supervision or authority.

 

[Rekkapryde]

"I'm a cishet woman who is also attracted to women." Be a dl bisexual single mother brehettes. Claim to be a feminist and love black women but don't own your attraction to them delusional brehettes don't know what wods mean brehettes

"Nuclear families is NOT what's best for children"

Some of the dumbest shyt I've ever read. And you got goofy poor choosing broads dappin up that nonsense.