Brehette is a parenting expert and goes viral for whaf she says about black boys

[CarmelBarbie]

I agree with you, that is why I know this issue will only degrade even more. There is saying:

Hard times are coming, and those times may do what arguing, discussing, and plan-making have not been able to accomplish. So I have not lost complete hope concerning the situation. This is why I am trying to make sure my descendants and the descendants of my extended family will have the best possible tools to weather that storm. Besides mentoring and helping those who honestly desire help, that is all I can really do.

All this arguing is just an earnest hope that some will listen and change course if they are not on it.

The recession?

 

[Yzak]

Free @Dre God @Sway @Cornershooter and everyone else who was (rightly) rebelling against this anti-black misandrist/pro-matriarchal bullshyt.

Black Boys and Black Men are being ERASED from everyday society. And it seems very few people care

Black Boys are Told at a young age that they are the worst thing on planet Earth and a threat to everyone...even themselves. Villified...dehumanized...castigated. it's disgusting. Their self-esteem is thrown in the toilet and flushed before they even turn 18.

I'm so sick of this bullshyt. Even good Black Men are thrown in the same pile of trash by these same Black Women...they don't even know how this type of talk damages the psyche of Black Boys.

They do know, that's why they're doing it lol these women are ANTI-BLACK MALE! They want us to be subservient to other men so they can remain the defacto "heads" of the community. No other group of women wants that for their men, which is why they don't abuse their sons at the same rate as Black women.

 

[SNG]

I don’t disagree.

But I sometimes feel like we have discourse about “woulda/coulda/shoulda” scenarios for the future, without seeing shyt for what it is. We can talk about how great our community would be if there were more two parent households, less single parenting, less poor mate choosing, but we also have to be grounded in reality.

If we understand that this has been an ongoing issue for years, and has not gotten better, no matter the discourse on the need for more two parent homes, then we have to also work from the frame of mind that things likely are not going to just randomly go from mostly single parent households to majority two parent households without major, major reset and there are no signs or work even being done for that reset to even occur at a large scale across our community.

Our current reality is this: our community has a low marriage rate, high divorce rate, and high single parent rate. We can acknowledge what ideally would need to happen to build more families and strong communities, but again acknowledging it alone has not and is not offsetting any of the issues in our community. At this point it’s just talk.

And ultimately what control do you have over others choosing to not marry or marry, and have children or not have children? we cannot force people to marry or not have kids in single parent households. We don’t have that power.

We cannot force traditional households especially in a society where a man with a dikk is now called a woman, non traditional marriage is a thing (gay marriage is talked about in schools and really everywhere now) single parenting has become very normalized for black women and men, atheism is on the rise and religion is on the decline(religion was a huge contributor to people marrying).

I think at this point trying to address the reality with solutions to deal with things as they currently are is going to make more of a difference than talking about what we wish would happen but can’t make happen.

I agree and this is why I say we will be doomed as a community. The younger generations will breed it out and be more interracial in terms of marriage and you got all this gender confusion in the mix so they will be more on fluidity on sexuality which you are seeing now. Back when I was younger my mom would instill that she would rather me marry a black women. I realized that with all this open shyt that I’m going to to not only have to promote black women but women in general to my son. Because he’s going to be in a world where his homies will have relationships with both boys and girls.

 

[ORDER_66]

Is she gonna lose her license???

 

[Sterling Archer]

Id die before I took anything this broad says as pertinent other than a recipe

 

[Avisible Man]

Black males should be raised with a patriarchal mindset. Following the whims of dumb broads that use "cis" only increases the amount of weak men out here. Those bytch-made boys become bytch-made men that scream like bytches when a WS runs up on them because they (1) don't know how to fight, thus can't protect themselves, and (2) more emotional because they were taught to deal with their emotions like a woman instead of a man.

Stop taking the advice of bytches using "cis"/pronouns and homosexuals, and start getting back to the brass tacks of raising boys to be dominant.

fukk what anyone else thinks.

Cissy boys become Cissy men if left up to this abomination

 

[Phitz]

Why is there such a big difference between West Africa and Central and East Africa

more recent armed conflict, although there is less or not much at all these days. Just some protests and skurmishes here or there.

 

[Phitz]

I honestly don’t believe any improvements will take place with marriages though. If anything my prediction is that things will continue to escalate but the biggest difference is that in the future many populations (not just black) will be confronted with this problem. People are not as religious, women and men are waiting longer to settle down, the cost of living has gotten horrible. Cohabitation and disposal relationships have become a trend. These are just some of the factors that are causing people to not rush to the altar like they used to.

Marriage is in the decline. It’s predicted that within a decade or so 45% of women of all races will be single… single parenting and co-parenting from separate households will become more of a “trend” in America. If you look at how our community in particular is trending, you can deduce that there will be less marriages not more.

I think the more realistic solutions at this point is to prepare for that reality. And then look for other avenues to help at least minimize some of the issues. For example providing more support to black children—more mentorship programs, social/emotional classes required at school, more organizations geared toward teaching groups of boys, masculine activities and skills: hunting, fishing, fighting, sports, dating, etc. Providing mandatory counseling for black children. Investing more resources into academic programs and training programs for black teens to help them transition into adulthood… more promotion for classes to help parents be better parents… these are all things that already exist, so just investing more in these programs and strengthening them and making them better will help. I also think promoting more healthy black marriages will also help, but it’s complicated because you can’t exactly force people to get married nor can you prevent them from having children.

If people dont get married and have traditional families, the country will collapse. It happened to the Romans, and kingdoms before that. The decline started when people stopped caring, then came the collapse.

 

[Phitz]

But that’s the thing it’s hard to have community’s without nuclear families. That’s why all these other races Asians, Indian and Mexican populations are rising while on the western side the birth rate is decreasing. These culture will spill into the west and you think they will care about black folks and the community? fukk no. We over here with gender wars and all kind of bullshyt meanwhile they having more kids and eventually will intercept into American culture.


Similar shyt happen to Rome and that’s how the empire fell.

lol I just typed this before I read it

 

[Boxchevy]

Exactly but certain people like to only highlight black boys, masculinity, etc. We've got entire academic movements focusing on black males as predators and we see the consequences in how black boys are treated in class. We see it in how black boys are shoveled into the prison system, and if you make it out we see it in how black men are then moved into manual labor jobs. The way I think about it...if you believe black males are predators who are dangerous to black women, and black males are inherently violent due to societal/cultural reinforcements of masculinity, what option do you have but to eliminate black males by whatever means? Whether that's ignoring them in classrooms and allowing them to fail out. Or suspending them from school and pushing them into the prison system. Or not hiring the black men who DO escape the system because you don't value their views. There are people in academia who think like this and it's having a clear impact on a lot of shyt we see today.

Society and black women see that black men as a collective don't care about black boys, so they are following suit. Its the harsh reality of this situation, like it or not.

 

[Rasille]

Everybody wanna separate from blackness. These women are doing this to show that they’re not one of them so to speak.

 

[Boxchevy]

We do try to encourage that. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.

The best way to encourage that won't be done. Do you know what that is? It is removing the mating benefits of being a high recidivism felon. I.E. women in mass refusing to mess with dope boys, scammers, home invaders, robbers, and thieves. Also, women not giving children to men who have children by other women they are incapable of taking care of. As I said before, those women know what those men are about, know their history, and yet still decide to reproduce with them.

So the problem can not be resolved by looking at only one side of this issue as has been done for over 40 years. we have talked about the faults of men since before I was born (I am 53). It is time to put a spotlight on women too. They are equal partners in the havoc going on in our communities.

In other words since black men cant lead other black men, you want black women to lead black men via manipulation and restrictions on her p*ssy and womb. You sound like a whole divestor mixed in with some pimp rhetoric.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

If people dont get married and have traditional families, the country will collapse. It happened to the Romans, and kingdoms before that. The decline started when people stopped caring, then came the collapse.

Not necessarily—we’ll most likely just see a different society. People will eventually adapt. I also don’t think marriage will ever completely go away. There will always be people who are married, there will just be a decline in the number of people married. There’s not much that can be done—you can’t force people to marry.

I agree and this is why I say we will be doomed as a community. The younger generations will breed it out and be more interracial in terms of marriage and you got all this gender confusion in the mix so they will be more on fluidity on sexuality which you are seeing now. Back when I was younger my mom would instill that she would rather me marry a black women. I realized that with all this open shyt that I’m going to to not only have to promote black women but women in general to my son. Because he’s going to be in a world where his homies will have relationships with both boys and girls.

Right, I agree with you. Its unfortunate but it is what it is. Best you can do is model things for your own children and surround yourself with like minded people. If you can, get active in your community, volunteer to mentor, support programs geared toward young men, etc, etc.


Oan, this is why I’m pro choice. If someone doesn’t want to be a single parent or parent at all I’d rather them opt out then to abuse their children or be a poor parent that produces poor results—results that leak back into our community.

 

[Lexington Steele]

"black women need to give us the p*ssy, raw" "black women have babies by multiple men"

 

[Phitz]

Not necessarily—we’ll most likely just see a different society. People will eventually adapt. I also don’t think marriage will ever completely go away. There will always be people who are married, there will just be a decline in the number of people married. There’s not much that can be done—you can’t force people to marry.

There is no different society. No society in history has ever survived without the family structure. They decay and implode.