Brehette appalled that Brad wants to have a drink on a patio next to his apartment

[Bar Razor]

On the one hand she’s correct that it’s inconsiderate, especially in NYC where people typically don’t drive, not to consider distances and such when making date arrangements. When I was dating it’s the first thing I’d consider.

On the other hand she’s annoying as hell with her rambling. And having to share everything online. Just tell your friends about it and unmatch but that wouldn’t give her the attention she desires. Man I don’t get this obsession with online recognition.

 

[Real]

Her points were valid

 

[The Fade]

this is the "black girl luxury" chick that says black men wipe their ass with their hands in the shower

shes a successful and smart woman in her own right. but she heavily swirls for money

but on paper she is wife material, she should be getting wined and dined.

 

[Bar Razor]

I've always wondered how dating works in these spread out or population dense areas like New York or the Bay Area. Even if she was comfortable traveling at first (or if he was traveling that distance to her), I could see one them being like "nah" and not wanting to deal with the commute.

Pretty easy actually. You meet at a point that’s midway between you. Or if you’re the guy and you feel she’s worth it from your interactions you may look to go closer to her. NYC has the best public transportation in the country so it’s pretty easy to get to just about anywhere you want to go on date. Then there’s Uber, taxis etc. Never had a problem getting to dates or finding mutually agreeable places to go.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Why must people put every detail of their life online?

Edit :- Just seen her TikTok page and she basically has a TikTok of every date she has ever been on

Thereitis.gif

 

[Jazzy B.]

On the one hand she’s correct that it’s inconsiderate, especially in NYC where people typically don’t drive, not to consider distances and such when making date arrangements. When I was dating it’s the first thing I’d consider.

On the other hand she’s annoying as hell with her rambling. And having to share everything online. Just tell your friends about it and unmatch but that wouldn’t give her the attention she desires. Man I don’t get this obsession with online recognition.

fukk her damn feelings.

Do you think she would care about a man’s feelings if the situation was flipped

Women are the OG’s of being INCONSIDERATE

It has to be either YOUR WAY or NO WAY. Get OFF that simp shyt.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

shes a successful and smart woman in her own right. but she heavily swirls for money

What is she successful at?

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

this is the "black girl luxury" chick that says black men wipe their ass with their hands in the shower

You have a link by any chance?

 

[DonRe]

When did it become cool
To share L’s like a badge of honor? We use to keep them shyts private.

I think it became acceptable when the mental healthy revolution saw a reprisal. Now its cool to be emo and shyt.

 

[High Art]

If I was yte and felt like I was above her, then yeah I'd make her do that, "common sense"

That's a good point. The role race dynamics play in these kind of situations. On one hand, she has a point, on the other hand, I'm not surprised by how it all went down.

 

[darealvelle]

She looked this broad I smashed a few years ago that was selling cologne at Macys at Gwinnet Place Mall.

 

[Bar Razor]

fukk her damn feelings.

Do you think she would care about a man’s feelings if the situation was flipped

Women are the OG’s of being INCONSIDERATE

It has to be either YOUR WAY or NO WAY. Get OFF that simp shyt.

Man it’s crazy the level of incel vibes there are in here at times. I’m truly sorry that the interactions you’ve had with women have been such to make it like a war of the sexes to you. I said she was annoying about rambling on about it online but her basic point about dude expecting her to come all the way from the UWS to Williamsburg right near his apartment so he’s not inconvenienced in any way on a first date is legit. Now it’s “simp shyt” to just have basic manners when you’re dating someone. lol crazy. I can assure you I’ve never been on “simp shyt” but I give respect and expect to be respected in return. Has worked out pretty well so far for me.

By the way I’m not going to get into a back and forth over this so this will be my only reply to you.

 

[earthwalka]

my thoughts on this are to suggest a place more in the middle and then if he doesn't agree to that then yea he's being inconsiderate. the assumption just based off the suggestion isn't enough for me to say he's being inconsiderate. I don't live in new york but I do live in a big city so I do often times suggest places more in the city than close to me.

 

[The Radiant One]

maaan im team #HOH, if not the captain by now, but yea she does have a point. if you interested in this bird, why make her travel over an hour to come see you when there is plenty of other food in your locale? KNOWING, in THIS day in age, there would be an issue? as men, we ask ourselves ‘is the box worth it’, but rarely do we aknowledge the female perspective. she just as horny as you but dont have to put in the extra work that men do

You are the one paying for the date. If you pay for an expensive area that’s the least you can do. Women often flake on first dates anyway.

 

[The Fade]

You have a link by any chance?

i gotta dig for it, it was screencaps and twitter thread about her.