Breh who writes the hood novels has a message: LOOKS MATTER

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i honestly feel as if opinions like yours come from a perspective viewed through a black-oriented lens. due to the historical hardship we’ve suffered, our take on love is skewed, influenced by superficial criteria that has disproportionate weight when assessing dating prospects.

i live in boston, which has a lot of white people. i can tell you, from personal experience, that average-looking white guys REGULARLY get play with attractive women. these aren’t good-looking, “hot,” or extraordinarily handsome men.

they don’t have drip or drive expensive cars. but they date and marry attractive women.

i see it all the time.

so, this idea that you have to be good looking to have a shot at a relationship with an attractive woman is a peculiarly specific requirement in our community.

:francis:
Are they in an environment where they have better options?
 
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Are they in an environment where they have better options?
there are definitely a lot of white women up here in massachusetts, so it could be the numbers. i just feel as if black people, especially black men, always have to go the extra mile to achieve what’s basic and mundane for other groups.

we have to be exceptionally good looking and have swag to even bag an average black female. it’s ridiculous and a reflection of how warped our community is.

and, sadly, it’s why a growing number of black men are pawging. white women don’t care about your drip or if you’re #handsomegang to the degree many black women have been conditioned to.

:francis:
 

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Looks matter, but they don't keep a relationship going.

If it was true, the following women would be married:
Kelis
Tyra banks
Mya
Halle berry
Brittany Renner

But they aren't. Why? Because the men they were with got tired of them as people. Most posters here would risk getting into a car crash if any of the above women texted them a "I'm in [poster's city] are u trying to link up" but if they lived with them for a year they'd get tired of them too. If looks were enough to carry a relationship, Willow Ryder or Teanna Trump would've been locked down by a ngga with paper before she ever set foot on a porn set.

Looks get your foot in the door. The rest though? That's on who you are as a person. Too many people get frustrated and hateful because they thought having a sixpack and looking like a movie star was enough to get commitment out of a woman.
 
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