NZA
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im not judging his looks...im judging his books!
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Good looks get you in the door. And exceptional good looks will get you further. If aren't getting getting double takes from women, you probably have some work to do on your appearence. You have to stand out.
as for the topic, in terms of casual dating, interactions that consist of hooking up after just meeting?
yes, those encounters are usually driven by a superficial lust born from physical attraction.
but, for actual dating, the kind of courtship that leads to long term commitment?
no, looks are not paramount. am i saying that someone who’s hideous has just as much a chance at landing a companion as a man who’s considered hot?
of course not.
but, if you’re average-looking, or even somewhat homely, you can still bag an attractive woman if your personality and life goals are on point.
this comes across as smart dumb advice from an overly emotional fat dude in his feelings.
Sir...
Please gtfoh... Respectfully
That nikka is 40?!
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GTFOH about what? you know how many average-looking dudes i know who are wifed up with good looking women? these aren’t good-looking or “hot” guys.Sir...
Please gtfoh... Respectfully
the idea that an average or unattractive man can’t find a partner is wrong on so many levels. i question the dating experience of anyone who believes that.
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if what this dude is saying has merit, explain to me why there are so many unkempt, thoroughly average-looking white boys with attractive partners?
this is the type of clown shoes “advice” black people have an unfortunate tendency to gravitate towards.
this is the type of clown shoes “advice” black people have an unfortunate tendency to gravitate towards.
GTFOH about what? you know how many average-looking dudes i know who are wifed up with good looking women? these aren’t good-looking or “hot” guys.
the idea that an average or unattractive man can’t find a partner is wrong on so many levels. i question the dating experience of anyone who believes that.
Because "average" and "good looking" is a thin line.
An average person can be a good looking person to someone else and vice versa.
But that shows you that looks mean everything because people are only going to sex or be in relationships with people who are close in looks category.
You personality doesn't trump that.
And they also would definitely leave that person or cheat on that person for a level up in looks.
If you don't have the looks, you won't even be in the game
Even the way people treat you is all about your looks
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Humans are shallow superficial creaturesMan, as soon as I realized a lot of ppl really ain’t shyt and were only nice to me because they thought I was cute…MAN that was a cold day.
Just a bigger reminder to not fall off.
They gravitate towards “shiny” nice things
We live in a world filled of fakes and bullshytters
Mind you, the so-called “nice” behavior is nothing more than an emotional scam.
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Facts. The Halo effect is definitely real
When you’re attractive. People treat you kinder.
When you’re ugly, life becomes harsher than laundry detergent
That’s why every human should strive to be the best version of themselves
Having a skincare regime. Exercise daily. Adopt positive affirmations. Clean diet
CreepyMcCreeperson
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as for the topic, in terms of casual dating, interactions that consist of hooking up after just meeting?
yes, those encounters are usually driven by a superficial lust born from physical attraction.
but, for actual dating, the kind of courtship that leads to long term commitment?
no, looks are not paramount. am i saying that someone who’s hideous has just as much a chance at landing a companion as a man who’s considered hot?
of course not.
but, if you’re average-looking, or even somewhat homely, you can still bag an attractive woman if your personality and life goals are on point.
this comes across as smart dumb advice from an overly emotional fat dude in his feelings.
NO YOU CAN’T UNLESS YOU HAVE MONEY.
Stop telling brehs these lies! No relationship is blissful 24/7. During those times she’s mad at you, she’s going to notice how unattractive you are. No personality is changing that. When you’re in a relationship, you notice little things. You are less likely to get away with those things unless you are attractive. You have to have something of value when you go through tough times. A beautiful woman is not sacrificing looks for a mouthpiece, and goals. Date within your level of attractiveness.
Folks just gotta find they lane, the issue is when folks realize their lane and don't want to accept it lol
Kingofthereal
King of kings
I think this is true but also, if you got a mouth piece. It can get you into a lot of places too.
In The Zone '98
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He's 40?
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i honestly feel as if opinions like yours come from a perspective viewed through a black-oriented lens. due to the historical hardship we’ve suffered, our take on love is skewed, influenced by superficial criteria that has disproportionate weight when assessing dating prospects.
i live in boston, which has a lot of white people. i can tell you, from personal experience, that average-looking white guys REGULARLY get play with attractive women. these aren’t good-looking, “hot,” or extraordinarily handsome men.
they don’t have drip or drive expensive cars. but they date and marry attractive women.
i see it all the time.
so, this idea that you have to be good looking to have a shot at a relationship with an attractive woman is a peculiarly specific requirement in our community.
