as for the topic, in terms of casual dating, interactions that consist of hooking up after just meeting?
yes, those encounters are usually driven by a superficial lust born from physical attraction.
but, for actual dating, the kind of courtship that leads to long term commitment?
no, looks are not paramount. am i saying that someone who’s hideous has just as much a chance at landing a companion as a man who’s considered hot?
of course not.
but, if you’re average-looking, or even somewhat homely, you can still bag an attractive woman if your personality and life goals are on point.
this comes across as smart dumb advice from an overly emotional fat dude in his feelings.
