I was at a birthday party last week and stayed near the door. When I go to restaurants, I eat near the door. I was at a house warming last month and guess what? I hovered near the door.
My rationale is always if some dumb shyt pops, I can get out. In the case of the birthday, if someone came in doing the dumb shyt, I might be able to intervene. I hate the idea of being with my girl because she walks like we are on the set of a TV show. I do all the scanning of everything just to keep from getting caught slipping. The moment I walk into any joint, I need to know where exits are and what can buy time. This was before covid and the subsequent rise in violence, but I don't let anything move in my peripheral nowadays without double checking. The grave is full of folks who didn't expect shots to ring out.