So basically the black women are the ones preventing the marriages so that they can get government benefits?
Black Mothers and Effeminate Black Sons
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So basically the black women are the ones preventing the marriages so that they can get government benefits?
Ey...you know this is complete bullsht, so why embarrass yourself by spitting out this nonsense? You are twisting yourself into knots in order to promote this crazy idea that there is some sort of serious genetic deficiency affecting the category of black women and black women only, which drives them to purposefully pre-determine a life of hardship and angst by seeking out men they know will abandon their children in some form or another (of course only a tiny percentage of black men do this). Stop with the ignorant white boy sht, Marcus.
Scott Larock
Its hard leaving thecoli but I gotta find a way...
1. Church
2. Depending on a man to peovide
3. Accepting mediocrity
4. Downplaying failures in the name of Jesus
1 and 4 and pretty much if you're a bit being raised up there you better be self reliant.
I know plenty of dudes who still live at home.
2. Depending on a man to peovide
3. Accepting mediocrity
4. Downplaying failures in the name of Jesus
1 and 4 and pretty much if you're a bit being raised up there you better be self reliant.
I know plenty of dudes who still live at home.
these single mothers purposely seek out men who shouldn't have even qualified to get p*ssy to begin with, you can't convince me otherwise. you dont need an "aint shyt" stamp on their forehead to tell if a man is going to flee from his responsibility.
The Myth Of The Absent Black Father
by Tara Culp-Ressler
Posted on January 16, 2014 at 4:53 pm Updated: January 17, 2014 at 6:36 am
CREDIT: Shutterstock
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recently published new data on the role that American fathers play in parenting their children. Most of the CDC’s previous research on family life — which the agency explores as an important contributor to public health and child development — has focused exclusively on mothers. But the latest data finds that the stereotypical gender imbalance in this area doesn’t hold true, and dads are just as hands-on when it comes to raising their kids.
That includes African-American fathers.
In fact, in its coverage of the study, the Los Angeles Times noted that the results “defy stereotypes about black fatherhood” because the CDC found that black dads are more involved with their kids on a daily basis than dads from other racial groups:
CREDIT: Los Angeles Times
In some cases, the differences between black fathers and white or Latino fathers weren’t statistically significant. Nonetheless, the fact that there’s no dramatic drop-off for African-American fathers is still a surprising revelation for some people.
Considering the fact that “black fatherhood” is a phrase that is almost always accompanied by the word “crisis” in U.S. society, it’s understandable that the CDC’s results seem innovative. But in reality, the new data builds upon years of research that’s concluded that hands-on parenting is similar among dads of all races. There’s plenty of scientific evidence to bust this racially-biased myth.
The Pew Research Center, which has tracked this data for years, consistently finds no big differences between white and black fathers. Gretchen Livingston, one of the senior researchers studying family life at Pew, wasn’t at all surprised by the new CDC data. “Blacks look a lot like everyone else,” she pointed out.
Although black fathers are more likely to live separately from their children — the statistic that’s usually trotted out to prove the parenting “crisis” — many of them remain just as involved in their kids’ lives. Pew estimates that 67 percent of black dads who don’t live with their kids see them at least once a month, compared to 59 percent of white dads and just 32 percent of Hispanic dads.
And there’s compelling evidence that number of black dads living apart from their kids stems from structural systems of inequality and poverty, not the unfounded assumption that African-American men somehow place less value on parenting. Equal numbers of black dads and white dads tend to agree that it’s important to be a father who provides emotional support, discipline, and moral guidance. There’s one area of divergence in the way the two groups approach their parental responsibilities: Black dads are even more likely to think it’s important to financially provide for their children.
Dr. Roberta L. Coles, a sociology professor at Marquette University, has also researched black fathers for nearly a decade. Her most well-known work includes The Best Kept Secret: Single Black Fathers and The Myth of the Missing Black Father: The Persistence of Black Fatherhood in America. Like Pew, Coles has also found that even though black dads may be less likely to marry their kids’ mothers, they typically remain involved in raising their children.
In an interview with the Grio this week, Coles explained that she’s invested in continuing to challenge the prevailing stereotypes in this area. “It’s important to get it out there that that’s not the whole picture,” Coles noted. “People need to know there are men out there trying to do their best.”
That’s the same reason that Kenrya Rankin Naasel recently published Bet On Black, a collection of essays in which African-American women share their stories of being raised by great fathers. “For years, we’ve all been bombarded with statistics that scream our men are not up to the important task of fathering,” she explained in an interview with BET about her project. “Ultimately, I hope that Bet On Black challenges the rhetoric about our families and changes the conversation to one that celebrates rather than denigrates.”
Despite the concrete evidence to dispel the prevailing assumptions about black dads, the conversation is still dominated by headlines like “What’s the Problem with Black Fathers?” and “Who’s Your Daddy: The Epidemic Of Absent Black Fathers.” President Obama has drawn some criticism for repeatedly delivering speeches about the importance of fatherhood to nonwhite audiences. And this past fall, when Minnesota Vikings running back Adrian Peterson’s two-year-old son tragically passed away, the media wasted no time falling back on all the stereotypes about irresponsible black dads.
The resistance to the research in the field may speak to the fact that racially-motivated stereotypes are particularly hard to break out of. For instance, despite the wealth of evidence disproving Americans’ assumptions about welfare recipients, the deeply-ingrained myth of the “welfare queen” remains.
by Tara Culp-Ressler
Posted on January 16, 2014 at 4:53 pm Updated: January 17, 2014 at 6:36 am
CREDIT: Shutterstock
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recently published new data on the role that American fathers play in parenting their children. Most of the CDC’s previous research on family life — which the agency explores as an important contributor to public health and child development — has focused exclusively on mothers. But the latest data finds that the stereotypical gender imbalance in this area doesn’t hold true, and dads are just as hands-on when it comes to raising their kids.
That includes African-American fathers.
In fact, in its coverage of the study, the Los Angeles Times noted that the results “defy stereotypes about black fatherhood” because the CDC found that black dads are more involved with their kids on a daily basis than dads from other racial groups:
CREDIT: Los Angeles Times
In some cases, the differences between black fathers and white or Latino fathers weren’t statistically significant. Nonetheless, the fact that there’s no dramatic drop-off for African-American fathers is still a surprising revelation for some people.
Considering the fact that “black fatherhood” is a phrase that is almost always accompanied by the word “crisis” in U.S. society, it’s understandable that the CDC’s results seem innovative. But in reality, the new data builds upon years of research that’s concluded that hands-on parenting is similar among dads of all races. There’s plenty of scientific evidence to bust this racially-biased myth.
The Pew Research Center, which has tracked this data for years, consistently finds no big differences between white and black fathers. Gretchen Livingston, one of the senior researchers studying family life at Pew, wasn’t at all surprised by the new CDC data. “Blacks look a lot like everyone else,” she pointed out.
Although black fathers are more likely to live separately from their children — the statistic that’s usually trotted out to prove the parenting “crisis” — many of them remain just as involved in their kids’ lives. Pew estimates that 67 percent of black dads who don’t live with their kids see them at least once a month, compared to 59 percent of white dads and just 32 percent of Hispanic dads.
And there’s compelling evidence that number of black dads living apart from their kids stems from structural systems of inequality and poverty, not the unfounded assumption that African-American men somehow place less value on parenting. Equal numbers of black dads and white dads tend to agree that it’s important to be a father who provides emotional support, discipline, and moral guidance. There’s one area of divergence in the way the two groups approach their parental responsibilities: Black dads are even more likely to think it’s important to financially provide for their children.
Dr. Roberta L. Coles, a sociology professor at Marquette University, has also researched black fathers for nearly a decade. Her most well-known work includes The Best Kept Secret: Single Black Fathers and The Myth of the Missing Black Father: The Persistence of Black Fatherhood in America. Like Pew, Coles has also found that even though black dads may be less likely to marry their kids’ mothers, they typically remain involved in raising their children.
In an interview with the Grio this week, Coles explained that she’s invested in continuing to challenge the prevailing stereotypes in this area. “It’s important to get it out there that that’s not the whole picture,” Coles noted. “People need to know there are men out there trying to do their best.”
That’s the same reason that Kenrya Rankin Naasel recently published Bet On Black, a collection of essays in which African-American women share their stories of being raised by great fathers. “For years, we’ve all been bombarded with statistics that scream our men are not up to the important task of fathering,” she explained in an interview with BET about her project. “Ultimately, I hope that Bet On Black challenges the rhetoric about our families and changes the conversation to one that celebrates rather than denigrates.”
Despite the concrete evidence to dispel the prevailing assumptions about black dads, the conversation is still dominated by headlines like “What’s the Problem with Black Fathers?” and “Who’s Your Daddy: The Epidemic Of Absent Black Fathers.” President Obama has drawn some criticism for repeatedly delivering speeches about the importance of fatherhood to nonwhite audiences. And this past fall, when Minnesota Vikings running back Adrian Peterson’s two-year-old son tragically passed away, the media wasted no time falling back on all the stereotypes about irresponsible black dads.
The resistance to the research in the field may speak to the fact that racially-motivated stereotypes are particularly hard to break out of. For instance, despite the wealth of evidence disproving Americans’ assumptions about welfare recipients, the deeply-ingrained myth of the “welfare queen” remains.
observe
Banned
According to the coli every black boy raised by a single black mother becomes a effeminate fakkit
all the men coming in and out of the house confuses the kid.
the cac mamba
Veteran
but who would WANT to be gay in this society thoYou can't tell me that all these nikkas are born this way.
your implication is that dudes are making a conscious choice to engage in a lifestyle thats 
and for the most part condemned by society, all the while going against their natural biological urges. im not sure if i buy that
observe
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cornercommission2k12
so this were u dudes went
Stop the trolling breh
Personally in my inner circle it's something both parties are good with because they know they need the benefit to stay above water
What we are victims of are being impoverished. I'm sorry I just know too many black men in they kids life to declare children are totally fatherless. My generation from the 80s had that issue which coincided with heroine and eventually Crack devastating our community.
This generation just dealing with parents who hustling.
MooseMouthMthafuga
Veteran
That's not reality, though.It's not just about who's doing their job, but who's doing their job THE RIGHT WAY.The parent who's there can be just as detrimental to the child as the parent who's absent
The woman basically gets stuck with the kid after carrying it for 9 months.Uncle Sam will then help to finance the upbringing of her child(ren) because it's apart of his social engineering plan to destroy black people.
Black people as a whole suffer from low self esteem.What a lot of women have a hard time uderstanding is your value is directly tied to what your man builds.
If he's not building shyt to pass down to his offspring, your womb really has no value to him.He's just fukking to get a nutt.Other races of men value the womb of their women because they're passing down legacies/maintaining structure through their women.
I bet half the children being born in the black community today aren't even born out of relationships, let alone marriage.Just low value/hook up/fukk buddy shyt.Both genders are damn near retarded/mentally defeated.The problem is wayyyyy more complicated than just "grow up/man up".The only thing growing is erections, vagina wetness, and bellies.That's what people do when they lack any real power.fukking becomes a form of therapy to cope with the fact that you don't have shyt.Both genders are guilty.First you have to recognize the social engineering and then take the time to undo it.They say people perish because of what? Lack of knowledge/wisdom
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
It is reality. Not every man that doesn't take care of his kids is some broke wack ass nikka. Example: Plenty of men get remarried have another set of kids and take care of those kids by the new wife but barely do anything for his other kids. They're tons of examples. Y'all guys stay using the stereotypical examples like other scenarios couldn't exist. And you are making this about race. Let's just say men in general.
Kenny West
Veteran
This. The welfare and alimony system directly undermine the traditional marriage/family model.
Furthermore hypergamy has most of the women wasting their primes for sport fukking and using sex for social mobility (getting a baller). In general women are less willing to get with a dude and build something, but instead just see if they can fukk the right person that'll change their situation.
Not to mention people are buying the feminist "fukk whoever till you're 30 then get married" gameplan which doesn't account for the "mistakes" they make during the fukk whoever stage that result in babies.
Basically these chicks end up with deadbeats because they don't look for the committed provider types till they start to shrivel up. Which leaves a damn near 12 year window where they sex non-committal dudes or unfatherly types. Eventually someone slips up during that window. More babies are made out of wedlock across the board. This is am American cultural problem. Black folks just get hurt by these cultural problems more because we don't have the same level of established family structures and generational wealth as others.
Truth. I love how it never occurs to just seek commitment first or commitment minded men.
Apparently to women a more sensible solution is for them to keep fukking with the same dudes and have random third party males collectively shame them and force them to become responsible fathers.
